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Nov 30, 02
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People should be able to speak openly with their partners about financial expectations. 
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Nov 30, 02
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I have the completely opposite relationship! My boyfriend and I live together, and pretty much do everything together...I mean, I spend money like water, but it's not like I'm spending more on him than he is on me or vice-versa...my money just seems to disappear faster than his... 
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Dec 01, 02
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Dec 01, 02
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if you had my love and i gave you all my trust would you comfort me? i do not think SO! J-LO is the most expensive EVER! she is all about the bl1ng bl1ng! Affleck bought her a ring that requires a body guard, OK? GET REAL!
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Dec 01, 02
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And when you love someone...it works. It also helps to have a goal. We know it won't be like this forever, so it keeps us from giving up. We've been together for a year and seven months now. *YaY* :) But, back to finances...the distance thing keeps things in perspective for us. All that matters for us is that we are together, and it doesn't matter where we are, or what we do. So money is a non-issue.
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Dec 02, 02
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Ok, I ain't bitching about how gf's cost money, in a relationship it's a given, plus I enjoy spending money on someone I care for. But I'm talking about the real gold diggers here, the fucking hotties that need million dollar drug dealer BF's to keep them happy... I know too many of these girl's and this shit is getting me down.. Sean your right dude, I'll go find some Fugly Taiwanese girl and gold dig her, it's a boy's turn you know.. j/k :P
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Dec 02, 02
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just knowing that.. it means so much.. it gets my right here *puts hand over heart* hahaha..
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Dec 02, 02
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Dec 04, 02
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Ok.....
First off, I pay for everything for me and my bf. And I am not ugly! Or homey as was said earlier. Omfg. And I pay well partly cuz he's going to school full time, not working and has no money (until his student loan comes thru) but partly cuz I want to! It makes me happy. Haha for xmas I booked us a hotel at silverstar to go boarding. (cha ching $$$) Anyways, if you dont want to pay for everything dont it's pretty simple. I had a lot more to say, cuz most of the replies on this thread pissed me off, oh well whatevs yo.
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Dec 04, 02
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Ok... so maybe SOME girls cost money... but so do guys! Like it's been said before relationships in general are expensive... but having any kinda social life in general is expensive is it not? I mean add up your liquor... drugs... partying... clothing... all that shit you don't even remember buying because it's for you.
Money is just paper... it's no big deal... it comes n goes. At least that's my opinion. I consider myself to be attractive and I have yet to have a bf who spends gobs of money on me all the time. I've had flowers bought for me maybe 3 times... and a few diners here and there but that's about it. I have a good full-time job and I've always been able to support myself... that's just how my parents raised us kids... don't rely on others for money, etc. because it's unfair to them. If anything I'm the one spending money... but not because I have to. If you feel you HAVE to spend the money I think there's something wrong. If I can spend a couple bucks on something small and seemingly unimportant I'm going to just because I love the reaction and happiness that comes from it. In complete honest I spend a hell of a lot on the guys I get involved with... and some of them do protest but that's just the way I am. People hold money in too high of a regard is my feeling... IT'S JUST MONEY! Granted it can get you a lot of stuff... but is stuff what really matters? Personally I rather make someone smile... be it my bf or a friend... than have an extra 10-50bux in my bank. -shrugs- Just my 2cents tho...
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Jun 20, 03
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i have somthing to say ... first off , when im with a guy i dont expect then to take me out , i just like to be with them and i dont mind just chillin with them on there bed . ? . and think about it does sex cost money with your gf . ! I DONT THINK SO ! . and plus if your gf expects you to buy her everything all the time then she isnt much of a gf she is more of a gold digger . and then fuk em and chuk em ! - Julie-Ann
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Jun 21, 03
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spending in a relationship should be mutual...
if you're spending too much on your significant other then that's your problem... I hate seeing people get into relationships for all the wrong reasons and then complaining about how they to deal with a barstar/gold digging girl friend or a player boyfriend...
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Jun 21, 03
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you are young and frankly, stupid. those chicks that only like the chill on their boyfriends beds...and have "sex" instead of actually going out and enjoying the outside world...we have a name for them...they're called sluts. good job. you've advertised yourself nicely.... guys and grrls should be equal...give or take a few occations...but i agree with those that say they LIKE to spend money on their sig. other because that's what it's about...you shouldn't feel that you HAVE to, but that you WANT to...
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