feeling lonely...

[~snow*white~]

i just wanna be with someone right now....=(
i want that security i always feel when arms are wrapped around me and i feel safe. i also want to put my head on someones chest to hear their hearbeat. i miss being in a relationship and all those little things like cuddling under the covers or keeping each other warm.

its all this valentines day stuff thats making me feel so down i guess.....? blah.......=(

[phatisphat]

awww....I'd snuggle w/ you, but I don't know you at all.

hang around w/ your buds, it always works for me and it will keep your mind of things, it will keep you busy or snuggle with one of your close guy friends.

[Jrin]

I'm lonely too. I'd love to wrap my arms around you.

Unfortunately that V-day post things seems to just be all talk so far and not much hookups.

[phatisphat]

^^most people are gutless...no guts no glory

[Bitchin]

yeah.. I know it sucks.. but like bradon said.. find a close guy friend and cuddle..

but yeha.. I rather not get to into this topic.. @#$%@&
/me is bound to die alone

[Bitchin]

heh.. if youw ant that add thing to work out.. talk to christine.. aka starfish...

[stringbeans]

go harass one of the guys who posted their personal ad in the cupids section hah

john
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[mikey]

I believe she's away in school.... in a diffrent province, if it's the same snow white i'm thinking of

[cinist]

thats why i like christmas time, atleast if you need a hug you can go and get one from a mall santa and sit on his lap! :284:

[Jrin]

Yeah but this Sanata Claus hug stuff doesn't count.

[cinist]

hey those are quality hug he gives AAIGGHT?

[stabmyhead]

There's more to life than filling the void in your life with the presence of someone else just because you're lonely. Why don't instead of you complaining about being lonely, you go out and have fun, learn about yourself before putting yourself in another stupid relationship that will leave you feeling just the same. Don't just settle with someone just because you're feeling the need to validate your existence with the flattery of exagerrated sense of approval given to you by some slack ass guy.

It's Valentine's Day, big fucken' deal. It's just like every other stupid non-holiday celebration put on by a group of even more stupid people. No offense, of course. I mean people try to find every reason to hook up with someone for a certain occassion, may I suggest some examples? New Years, Christmas, Valentine's Day, summer, etc. It's just another day to feel pathetic about yourself... get over it.

[~snow*white~]

yeah mikey its the right snow white ur thinking about.....i'm not in the province

awe thanks guys....i'd love to have your arms wrapped around me but i'm 3 provinces away and i don't know u that well either.....i'd hook up with one of you if i was there for the vday ads thingy.
i don't have my close guy friends here to be with....which makes it worse cuz i'm homesick too....

i'm not getting into a relationship just cuz i feel lonely. heck i'm not even looking for one! i just want comfort. i'm trying to have fun but it always catches up with me sooner or later.

[Bitchin]

ouch.. wellthen.. that could be harsh.. umm... call up one of yer good friends?

[snow white.. hmm.. things coming back to brain.. I think.. I may have met you once.. but I no sure..hmmm]

[~snow*white~]

i would call up a good friend but they've got ppl to be with....they wouldn't know how to help and the girls here i'm with are all single and going through the same thing as well =(

bitchin...there is another snow white on these boards...could it be the other one that you met? i dun remember if we've met but where would we have if thats what ur thinking?

[Bitchin]

^I dunno perhaps.. I've changed my nick(Jovi_is_me to bitchin) since you were alst on here.. unless.. I'm thinkin of someone totaly diffrent I dunno....

well if they're all busy..
do you have an girl friends out there?have a girls night out to bitch about it.. should work.. I would think.. though I dont know

[~snow*white~]

hmmm.....i'm still not too sure if i've met u or not......?*boggles the mind*

yeah the girls and i get together a whine about it....helps a little but then it gets bad and we all feel really down......
thanks for the help so far.....last night i couldn't fall asleep, i just layed there thinking of having someone to snuggle with and i can just fall asleep in his arms......*sigh*

[Bitchin]

^oh well.. my memory aint to sharp either.. :)

but well atleast yu can get with your friends and whine about it.. it better then dealing with it alone.. I guess.. umm.. but yeah... if you cant have them.. think of the best cuddling memories you have??? and ge a big ol'teddy bear.. heheehe

[~snow*white~]

i have my teddy bears right beside my head when i sleep at night...i do hold on to them when i feel that i need a little squeeze

*sigh*......

[k to tha o]

stabmyhead - i like what you say

[Erica]

i totally sympathize with ya sweety. it's definitely hard to be away from home and feel lonely and homesick. i go through that all the time here too. i'm living in rez, and i only have one friend there that i'm close to, so i spend a significant amount of time by myself. it gets extremely depressing after a while...

but what helps me pass the time is going to dance class. i go to hip hop twice a week and take two classes each day...i'm going to up it to three, just cause i find that i get depressed during the long streches of time between the days. but yeah, find something that you enjoy that you can go and do on a regular set basis. maybe even grab one or two of your girl friends and go. i'm sure the school that you're at offers some activities. if you're up for some exercise, perhaps the gym offers some drop-in courses? i know that we have power yoga and tae boxing, although i haven't my lazy ass there yet. use the internet to search for classes/other stuff too! you'd be amazed at what you can find. i totally stress getting involved in something that you do on a very regular basis, at a certain time...something that you go to even if you don't feel like it. cause this past week, i got really depressed and i didn't go to dance, and in turn, i've become a total wreck. going to get back on schedule tomorrow though! :)

hang in there hun! summer seems far away, but the time will pass soon enough. *hugs*

[Forgettable]

three words:

deal with it.

[~snow*white~]

erica: we're both in the same boat basically. i go to the gym and blast my discman and just work out harsh to forget about absolutely everything. this one girl that i'm really close to helps me out every so often when i really need her. but i'm doing alot better because i know in 5 days, i get to go home for 10 days! i get to see family and my close friends and just to be in the comfort of home where everything is so comfortable. =P
so i'm excited about that now...and then back here and suck it up for another 2 and half months. =(

i'm doing better though.....studying has kinda took over my brain now......sucky midterms!!

[Erica]

i'm hearing ya on all of that. i haven't been to dance class for the past 2 weeks, and i've definitely felt a lot crappier. stupid midterms indeed. my friend and i had 2 papers that we thought were due on wednesday. found out on sunday afternoon that they were due on monday!! been writing like a frantic woman but i got them both in on time. *phew* where are you going to school right now? my reading break is in about 10 days, and i'm going home for 10 days as well. it's the only thing that's keeping me sane right now...i'm sure you understand the feeling. it makes the time go a lot faster though having that break to look forward to. last semester was so tough, cause i didn't get to go home until christmas and i got extremely homesick. is this your first time away from home?

glad to hear you're doing better though. :) it's good to just focus and channel all of your energy into your work.

[SEAN!]

poor girl i feel sorry for you, it must be hard going to school away from home.