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wow, i dont even know wut to say...:(
my freind found out she has a tumour in her brain and she has to get surgey, shes in hospital and for a long time
i duno maybe no one cares but im so frustrated and upset at the moment, i just dont know what to do! |
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aww courtney.
im sure she'll be fine. just dont flee from her, its hard to be near someone who's in pain or is suffering or what not, but stay close to her. make her laugh, try and help her put her worries aside. i hope it isnt cancerous, and i hope shes ok! |
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just be there for her.
my grampa (who i was really close to) had a tumor in his brain, and as well got it removed, so i kinda know where youre coming from. even after the surgery, no matter in what state she is in, go visit her, and talk to her. its the greatest thing one can do in a situation like that. |
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A good friend of mine died a few years back from a brain tumour so I can understand what you're going through. The best thing I can say is pretty much what everyone else has said. Just be there for her. It's obviously a very scary time for her but so long as you stay close by and keep her spirits up there's not much else you can do. She'll appreciate it more than anything. Take time off work/school they're usually very understanding about this kinda thing. Instead of becoming depressed and mulling over the uncertain make the most of the time you do have together. Take her out on walks aroundt he hospital because looking at the same four walls all the time can really get to you. Just try to remain upbeat... don't dwell on something you and her have no real control over. If she's comfortable or wants to talk about it you should because maybe it will help her. There's not much else I can say other than stay strong, remain positive and take advantage of the time you can have with her.
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