Friends who are more than friends..

[SomeGuy]

Getting into a relationship with a friend is probaly great on the right grounds but I think there should be a few ground rules..

1) Don't fuck up your friends relationship just to get with them..
2) If you are taken don't start telling them thing's like, "oh, I really want to be with you" it just ain't right...
3) Tell them when your both free and willing, don't wait till they start going on dates with someone else and then tell them how you feel about them..
4) Don't tell them shit like.. "ewww I could never kiss you that'd be like kissing my brother" and then tell them that you love and want to be with them.. <--- WTF
5) Make sure the other person want's something more than friendship in there life.

[Crazy Dave]

or just cut the bull shit and have group sex.

[Miss T]

Originally posted by SomeGuy

5) Make sure the other person want's something more than friendship in there life.

it wouldn't be worth losing a friend assuming they want to be with you!

[sidewayz luv]

god sometimes going out with a friend is awsome but when all is said and done and you guys brake up it can be tough....it's hard to be just friends again after that....but it can work...but if it's a bad brake up then it could tear your whole group of friends apart..I've seen it happen and it's no fun...so whatever happens...you gotta be carefull dating a friend!!

[miss.myra]

There ought to be no rules whatsoever.

[if you watch seinfeld, it was the rules that contributed to the demise of jerry and elaine's attempt to do so.]

anyways, yeah...it's nothing you really have to think about so much...if it works, it works..if it doesn't, it doesn't- if the friendship is on a good enough foundation, things should usually recover.

M

[Jingles]

friends who have sex, and remain simply friends is good times - where it moves into the complication is if there is a move into the significant other realm ~ I have ex boyfriends who are now friends - and boys who are friends that i have slept with and remained friends -
Every situation is diferent - because a lot of the time you think your friend would be one way as a gf or bf and then you find out that they are the total oppisite of what you thought...you know?

Anyhoos rules in love and friendship are never very permanent...they are very breakable and it can be for right or wrong reasons
Jingles

[sidewayz luv]

all I say is don't let it change the friendship!!! if it's meant to be private and not serious then u can't be cuddling all the time, but of course u'r friends will probably know whats going on but it becomes an unspoken secret or whatever...u also have to keep in mind that it is'nt a relationship so are u free to see or sleep with other ppl if u want to??? a few things need be discussed and best are so that in the end there are no hard feelings!!

Hope that made sense...just smoked a joint so yeah...*smiles*

[Brad_Influence]

i got a few friends i'd like to fuck!!!! hehehehee.. .wont mention any names or nothin'.........