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Feb 26, 03
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what do u think???????????
if sumthin goes wrong in a relationship (it can be a one side thing or both)what is a good thing to do if u both love eachother , but ur separated?(feeling confused). should they take a chill pill and wait for that special moment or should they both move on?and also would u make tha move if it feels right while the other person is still confused bout bein together?
if ur confused and don't get well i don't get what i just wrote cuz i'm not in tha state of mind of making sense of anything . let me hear what u think. 
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Feb 26, 03
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i think your first priority should be to use less question marks.
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Feb 26, 03
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ok first off its not good to push somone back into a relationship if they are still confused. i took a very long break from my ex like 2 months and decided I wanted to try and get back together with him because I thought all i needed was a break and because we had a very good talk about stuff that we had never brought up before. what had happened in the first place was that after we had split up once for about 3 weeks I kinda shut down in the relationship. and although i still cared for him i no longer had intamate feelings for him. But i could not explain emotions to him so i had nothing to blame on how i was behaving on a personal level with him. after that long break we had that talk and i thought maybe it was unresolved issues that had caused me to finaly break it off. but after getting back together i still found myself with the same feelings. I know i had to end it again and he became very upset and could not even talk to me for a very long time. we were freinds before and then i decided to leap back in which turned out to be a big mistake because it hurt him very badly because he was still confused and dealing with our break up. we talk now but it took about 8 months to be on good terms again. so perhaps jumping in isn't the best thing to do.
it all depends on the ppl and the situation but if one person is still confused getting emotional again might make things difficult to finish dealing with the origianal problem and just burries it with the hope of finding love again. talk it out first then make a decision but dont just make a move on somone if you have things that need to be talked about. I dont know if that helped at all but thats all i got. good luck
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Feb 26, 03
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Well I think, if you still love eachother, then how can you move on. If you still love eachother, if necessary then have a small split up, and if it hurts both of you, and you miss each other, then you know that you are meant to stay together. But if you like it better apart, then...
Theres your answer!
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