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Apr 12, 03
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i wanna run away
i just go into a fight with my mom and i cant take it anymore she treats me like im a fucking kid and ya i know most of you will say but your only 16 u are a kid but still i gotta learn now about shit cuz she isnt gonna be der when im fuckin 40 you know like fuck i just wanna run away from it all and never come back i hate this and it sux ass! *cries*
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yes! run and never look back!
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Awwww hun I know how u feel. Ive felt like I have wanted to run away from home too. But running away is just not the answer. She may get on ur bad side sometimes and she may be bitchy to u but remember she is your mom. The one that is raising you. She is trying her best and its not all that easy to deal with us teenagers these days.
*~Cheer Up
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Tough to say much on this since you never really mentioned the actual issue that caused the fight, but, just generally speaking, some thoughts...
1. She probably, even though it is tough to see, has your best interests in mind... 2. If she is being petty about something, it is likely due to similar treatment that she has been receiving...most peeps, young or old, only get that way when they are being treated in a similar fashion... 3. Just cuz U have to learn something between now and 40 oesn't mean that now is the best time to gain that knowledge...many 40 year women have learned about divorce, career change, loss of love, miscarriage and parental death...that doesn't mean U need to learn about them now...I'm not suggesting that your situation is as earth shattering, but still, you have more time ahead of you than you realize... 4. Running away rarely solves anything...it usually only changes the issues that need to be dealt with, and not always for the better...
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fucken don't listen to any of them.....maybe just disapear for the weekend....take off and go to a friends place....or if u'r stuck u cacn come visit me.....call her when you get there and let her know u'r in a safe place so she doesn't worry and tell her u'll be home sunday night or monday after school (wichever u prefer) and that u can talk then once u've both had some time to cool off and think about things......this works pretty good most of the time cuz u'r mom might realize that u'r not a baby anymore and that u have a mind of u'r own....and that u'r gonna have to learn from u'r own mistakes and what not
I de no...might b worth a try but don't blame me if it back fires...
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^ HOW BOUT NO!!!! She's not like one of those drugs addicted people who leave for long periods of time!! Common Sence!!
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oops I started wrting that b4 tina and dan posted....so they might have good advice to give....tee hee
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ummm I never said she was tina I just no that sometimes parents need to wake up and except the fact that u'r not there lil baby girl any more....and it's not like I was saying to just take off I said call and let u'r mom know u'r ok and safe geez it's not like I told her to go do drugs and forget about it!!!
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well I don't know her parents or her exact situation...thats only if it's really bad or what not.....geez.....some parents would except it after a bit and then think about what they did wrong in handeling the situation and then want to talk to her like a adult rather than telling a child what to do.....other parents might call the cops...like I said it depends on the parents.....she knows what there like and if she feels like getting away then thats the best way to do it rather than just taking off n not comming back or what not
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Ya can't keep thinkin of runnnin away every time you get into an argument with your mom. That's not realistic. Mid-teens are a tough time. It's easy for people to shoot ya down just because you're "younger" than they, and to belittle your problems as "petty", but I'm sure that they themselves would reacall, that teen years could be an awkward rollercoaster at times.
I'm not much older than you, but considering the dynamics of the teen years, I'm sure you as well know that within even a year or so, things can change pretty quickly. just know, that things are likely to die down soon, and your mom's going to have to accept sooner or later that you're going to grow up. hang in there, give it some time. Chances are, in a month from now you won't even care so much. ;)
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that'll fuckin learn her!
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i no how you feel so just finger her and get the fuck outta there.......oops okay nvm scrap that last time i did that i never heard the end of it. talk to your mom tell her that wrongs have been done and that you 2 should talk it over
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Apr 12, 03
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thanks guys i appreciate everything but ya my mom isnt the type to talk about things you know i mean that's i guess the difference between me and her is that i can open up and express everything and yet my mom hasnt told me once that she will always be there for me to talk to or anything.......and like we got into a lil fight cuz i wanted to go shopping by myself not with her and she didnt trust me cuz she thinks im gonna go buy usless shit but then again i saw a nice jacket and it fit nicely but then i saw the price and i said nah nvm its too expencive........so i mean that's gotta show something there.......but the point is that she dosent trust me and take me seriously i mean im an only child and the youngest of the family and i hate it cuz i have so many expatations......and you know i have acautally thought about doing jib.........and thinking about running away but no where to go and i dont have a job so not that much money just what is in my account......
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thanks neal and if it dosent then twisted is gonna be my heaven for the night............:(
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ya but its still the point in responsibility right i mean i gotta learn some how and FYI im looking for a job.......and she makes the mistake in when we get into a fight she buys me stuff insted of talking to me and fixing it correctly
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