has anyone ever been in love that it made them cry?

[sexynat429]

has anyone been in love so much that they cried for their b/f or g/f? i have and it's great. i have never been happier. we have been going out for a little over five months and want to live together and get married when we are older. do you think 16 is too young to have sex with someone you love??? and do you think we are to young to think about marrage?

[Asteroid]

u r too young to even talk about it...

[bob]

Originally posted by sexynat429
and do you think we are to young to think about marrage?

you shouldn't be thinking about marriage until you know how to spell it.

[bren]

love hurts some times

sometimes it really fucking hurts

b.

[inkster]

fun, isn't it? i remember my first love...

okay. that's as sappy as i get. are we allowed to start a pool here?

[g-RocK]

Love is an amazing thing, my advice is to not to look into the future to much, and just enjoy what u have, if u guys are meant to spend the rest of your lives togther then it will happen. I feel the same way right now! :)

[mugsy]

16... love?
i donno... lust at a young age is constantly pressumed to be love... its deceiving.
16... marriage?
think about marriage after you graduate college. your life isnt even close to bein half over.... live for the day. your a kid, be a kid. enjoy cause it will more then liekyl be over before you know it.
sex isnt always based on love. mostly its based on lust and thats not a bad thing.

[Partizan]

i know what ur going thru..

protected sex.. yes
marriage.. dont get too cocky.. thats what my girl was thinkin of too.. but things change VERY quickly...

[Anjew]

Marriage...... 3 words
ARE YOU STUPID
how's this move out together...
for i say 2 months. pay bilsl together. do everythign together..
haha if you guys are stil ltogether hell go get hitched up.
as for making love and making them cry/
WTF
what's wrong with you?
hahaha jk jk jk jk jk jkj kjk jk jk.
not about the top party...
but none the les.. marriage.. hoenstly... no.
um.... you and making love.... sure y not.... if it feels good keep doign it.. but if it makes you cry..
I gotta say look out..
cause if there is ever a break up between you two....
i'm not saying it will happen
but if... it does...
and you are already this emotinoally attached...
look out....

[Magi]

AAAAAAAAAAAAARGH!!!!

[Lil Bunny]

-been in love? yes
-so much in love that has made me cry? ummm no and i hope i dont have to. i mean being in love is a good happy feeling. dont have to cry about it.
-16 and being in love?? COULD be possible but after only 5 months i dont think you can really tell if its REAL love or not. so just give it time. i've met my boy when i was 16 and we still 2gether now (3 years later). so it is possible.
-marriage?? so soon in a relationship?? at this age? dont think THAT far off in the future. for now what you gotta do take things one day at a time and enjoy every single moment.
-move in 2gether? why dont u finish school first (college/university, where ever u gonna go) and after u have a carrer then move out. it will be way easier and less stressing. you could pass by with havin a mim wage job but u'd be missin on all the fun things.
-if u 2 feel that for sure your gonna end up 2gether then just let it be and dont think about the future. enjoy the present. plans change and if u make plans way in advance u'd be dissapointed when those plans get screwed.

altho i used to think that i was gonna be with my bf for ever, we broke up last week. bein at this age and bein "tied down" to one person is not fun. (well it could be but after awhile everything is the same). try to enjoy your freedom as much as u can and when u feel u've had enough fun then settle down. personally im so happy to be single now after a 3 year relationship. and i'll stop blabbin now.
thank you come again

[kozmo_jr]

Im greatfuly happy that ur...happy but I don't want to bring ya down by ranting..
but I thought I was in the same position as you are in when I was younger.
I would put a kindney on the line that you have not weighted all your options.
School, your still young friends area major part of your life. You have not met
everyone you are destined to meet. Regarding sex, I have chosen abbstinace (sp?)
You might want to try that, don't be pressured into anything and don't do anything
out of spite. Team CowBell Wishes you luck**

luv
Junior



**
The point of views of this post do not relex thoughs of
Team CowBell and all its members.

[sweetdreams]

personally i have never been in love i just started goin out with this really great guy i met at appex...so i hope that works out...love is a really strong word n i'm 17 i don't think that i kno the meaning of that word yet...i don't believe in sex b4 marriage so 16 is pretty young....personnaly i don't even want to think about marriage rite now...just enjoy life...

[normal josh]

i say love is possible, i've been with my g/f for just over 3 and a half years, we met when she was 16 and im not gonna say anything about sex cause thats really up to you and your morals and your responcability...

if your game to be ultra protected and take all the precausions then do it... if you cant screw the one you love then who can your screw??!?!?!

i say yes i have been and am so in love that when i think of her i grin so big and sometimes want to cry out of joy so thats possible...

moving out together?!?!?!? WHAT ARE YOU NUTS?!?!?!?!

dont even think about it 'till a couple of years after high school... you still have to finish that first, then mabye think about it while your going to college...
i have seen countless relationships fail due to living together too early... me and my g/f still dont live together (we practicaly do) its still nice to have your own bed whenever you want it and have the freedom to be alone if you want

but i say 5 months... JUMP HIS BONES!!! just be smart and get tested and get on the pill and use them damn lated baby batter catchers

you will have fun :kimmie:

[yoko*]

being overwhelmed with the intensity of an emotion, has made me cry..
but only since I started on the stupid pill

everything makes me cry.

[*STARFISH*]

i was in love at 16.
and i bawled my eyes out for him.
however, we had been dating since i was 14.
but marriage?
youve GOT TO BE KIDDING ME
thinking about marriage at 16 just means youre too immature to get married.
for me anyway.
if youre that happy, do whatcha gotta do.

[Lostcause]

I thought about marriage when I just turned 16.
I'm happily married to that person now.

Do what you want and feel the way you want to feel.
Make sure the other person feels the same.

[masked Poly]

it all depends on how hard you want to work on it.
Love, marraige... it doesnt matter what KIND of relationship that you are in. As long as you are both comfortable in it.
Sex and intimate relations is something that no one can tell you when to start having them.
Its when both of you are ready. may be right away.. may be later on.
just make sure you're making the right moves. at the right pace. cause if you arent... then marriage down the road isnt going to matter.

dayatatime

[Lostcause]

Right on Right on....

I cry when I masturbate...am I ok?

Concerned and confused.
tim

[Chet]

^ he's absoulty right

[beach*bum]

i agree with starfishy!!!!
if you really have to ask a public message board then how do you think you're ready to do ANY of the things that you mentioned?
including sex.



and i would just like to say that don't harp on this grrl because she's young and asking. some wouldn't even ask. they would just go ahead and then have their whole life to deal with the stupid consequences.
and yes. i have been so emotionally attached to someone that i have cried for them. although when i was 16 and crying over some guy i thought it was "love"...now looking back i know that it wasn't...

[Chet]

^ shes right
and if your any type of girlfriend you will put out

marriage on the other hand will scare the fuck out of him
don't get to clingy, it's not cool

so in retrospect

Ass = give it up
Marriage = he'll give you up

[Jingles]

I tihnk that one of my greatest pet peeves is how quick people are to dismiss teenage love as 'lust' or somehow not real. Love is something we are capable of our whole lives - and it evolves. My definition of love now, is not what it was 5 years ago and certainly not what it will be a decade from now - we love in every stage in life the way we know how. A 16 yr old doesn't love the same way a 25 yr old does - they aren't at the same place, but that doesn't mean their love is any less real or any less valid

I say enjoy the beauty of the moemnt -enjoy one another - don't worry about things like marriage just yet - marriage is not the ultimate way to express your love anyway - You have forever and a day to think about marriage, and in your heart if it is love - you know you can wait to make that commitment anyway :)

[Chet]

I was in love when I was 16
then she broke my heart
Bitch

the first love is the best
it's the one you fall right into with no defences up because you have seen all the movies and you know nothing can go wrong
then they rip your heart out and tango over it
not that I'm bitter or anything

[beach*bum]

^hah. so true so true.

and jingles i do agree with you. but it does say something about the maturity of someone if they feel the need to ask on a message board what they should do....