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Oct 23, 03
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max, i've told you before and i will tell you again, i have been there, it may not seem that way but if you want some help let me know, i have the resourses that you can use for free and can get you feeling beter, remember there is no way to find a perfect solution by yourself...
it takes people to help with a problem that you canot fix by yourself... you have tryed to think your way through it, and tough truth here, but your ways havent worked so far, its not a matter of if you dont like how you feel change what your doing... its more a matter of change how your feeling while changing what your doing and it takes time to learn how to do that... 2 or 3 weeks of time without drugs is no solution for a problem that you have een having for most of your life.. just let me know of you need anything and i will do my best :) 
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Oct 23, 03
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so true sal.....sad but true....even your family!! people will turn on a dime and stab you in the back...be careful who you trust. :(
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Oct 30, 03
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Sorry I Wasnt There...
I had no idea, I thought i was your friend, I didnt know this was inside. i wish I could have been there bore. wish I could have known. U were a good kid max, and I know things are pretty rough right now, I know. I have done all this before. I am still getting over a considerably bad withdrawl. One of the worst I have experienced. And yes, this is now about the fifth or sixth i have gone through. I know the depression, I know the emptyness you feel, and I know u wont open up unless U want to. But i am telling you that I will be here if u EVER need to talk, or u ever need help. Just remember, Things WILL always get better, it just takes time. I think leaving Vancouver was a good Idea, and when you are ready to return, I hope to see you. Good luck, and Keep safe. You are a good guy max, Just remember that.
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Oct 30, 03
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although i've been there (through the shitty times, i mean), and it hurts to be snapped back to reality by the seemingly cold words of a compassionate person like cinist, "suck it up" is probably the best advice i got (although not in those words) when i was feeling sorry for myself. although it may seem like it's nice to give someone in a difficult situation consolation and pity, etc, it is possibly the worst thing one can do, as it just adds to the self-pity, which doesn't get us anywhere. Although i don't know you, i have been where you are, and it does suck. but self-pity and shame are the ast emotions you want running through your head. strength brother. although it is hard, deal with your shit and move on. that's the best advice i can give you. peace be upon thee.
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Oct 31, 03
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Looking back now, I can't beleive my headspace was back at that sort of place. There's been a lot of talking with so many supportive people, people i didn't think were there, from the time this post was originally made. Things are nowhere near worked out, but it's babysteps in progress.
Everyone who's been there, you know who you are, there's too many to count, thank you for being that shoulder to cry on, that hug, and that voice telling me to toughen up. I felt so lost and at the end of my rope, i feel now, that i can make it through, that it is worth fighting on. again, thank you so much. sincerely, -Max S.
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