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Oct 29, 03
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spooky - 2 go or not 2 go....
ok, so seriously i have a problem. i really, really want to go to spooky. my friend says she kinda wants to go but she's nervous, first massive for her and all. i've tried talking to her about it and i even told her that i won't ditch her once all night. i mean the whole reason i asked her is because she's someone i could spend my whole night with and not get bored, but it doesn't matter what i say i can't really convince her to go. i don't want to force her and i don't want to make her feel bad by buying the ticket for her anyway and then having her go out of guilt. so what i'm asking is...
do i just go to spooky anyway without her? i'm worried she'll be upset with me if i don't go, but i don't want to stay home on hallowe'en, if you know what i mean! if i go anyway, i'm gonna feel bad all night, but if i don't go i may end up resenting her for not going with me. AAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you were in this situation(or maybe your own that's similar) what would you do?? i really like my friend but i really want to have fun on friday too. please help me, oh wise fnk'ers! :066: helpless in hope. 
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Oct 29, 03
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I would ask her about her concerns about spooky...and raves.
I was kinda nervous about going to my first party too I had this steryotypical idea of what it would be like, and the kind of people that would be there...but then I went and I loved it!!!!! It was nothing like I thought. If i were you I would try and convince her to come...tell her its not what she expects. But if you can tell she realy doesnt want to go...and has legitimet reasons...like shes realy against drugs and seeing people on them...or hates techno music...or hates to dance...she probably wouldnt enjoy herself anyway and then neither would you.
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Oct 29, 03
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give her some E and she will feel better
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Oct 29, 03
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she's been to some smaller parties and done E. and when i push to find out what's wrong, she clams up. maybe she just doesn't want to go, but is worried i'll be mad(which i won't). *sigh* i just feel really bad leaving her on hallowe'en, but sometimes you have to take care of your own needs. oh, well. i'll probably go anyway, and if i lose her as a friend over this, well then it was never meant to be. :)
thanks for the advice! sometimes it's just nice to say it 'out loud' because it helps get it out of the system.
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Oct 29, 03
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Just Go without her, I'm sure she won't mind u goin to the party and having some fun on a nite u wanna have fun on... Unless ur the only friend she's got, then I wouldn't kno what to do in that situation hmmmmmmmmm *thinking, thinking a little bit harder* I would go hahahaha :moon:
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Oct 29, 03
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^^ that's part of the problem...
she's had a few rough months and i know she has other 'friends' but not as close as we are. i don't want to leave her, but i'm itchin for some fun. hanging out watching horror flicks was what i wanted to do on saturday. aarrgghh! but yeah, i'll probably go anyway. sometimes you just can't do what's right for everyone else. not so helpless in hope after all!
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Oct 29, 03
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Just tell her that going is realy important to you, and your going. Tell her theres no pressure for her to come at all, but it would be awesome if she did. And if not...tell her to have an awesome hallwoeen ...whatever she does
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Oct 30, 03
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holly fuck everyone that can go GO!!!! i wish wish wish upon a start i could go to this fucker but i live to far away instead im goin to hand out candy and get drunk while u could be at the biggest party of the year. fuck i suck.
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Oct 30, 03
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oh yeah and Mc*Phee ur smokin hot!!!
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Oct 30, 03
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I'm havin' i dilemma of a similar type too. Can't decide on spooky with friends i haven'r seen in a long time or rocky with my best friend who lives on the island so i don't get to see her much.
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Nov 09, 03
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i totally know where you are coming from. I know this thread is a bit old, but i went through exactly the same thing. my outcome was me not going to spooky, having some mediocre fun, smoking lots o'doobies(that part was ok), and then having my friend pass out on me for the rest of the night. basically i spent that night alone. *whew* anyway, bye!
:blunt: - :y: :272: - :n:
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