how important is finishing?

[junglequeen]

is it really worth it if you dont finish??

[Chet]

if I really needed to just "finish" I would beat off

sex is fun no matter what

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

it doesnt matter where you finish
aslong as you have fun :p

[Jingles]

YES it's totally worth it even if there is no orgasm
Orgasm is not the pont of sex, it can be good without it --

As I have said numerous times before - Most women don't orgasm during sex anyway -- it's clit action that gets us there and the clit is no where near anything during "intercourse"

Our society has this huge fixation on orgasm and don't get me wrong IT'S RAD -- but I can feel totally satisfied if I don't have one
IN the world of women (refer to my sig) I think that fake orgasm is rampant because of the value we place on orgasm - we think we haven't done our job if our partner doesn't cum.

Sex isn't like the movies -- porn or otherwise

[rawb]

i see it as a race that im very very very good at.

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

^hahaha

[Pussy_Kat]

MmmMmmMmmMm
Sex is good
definatly

[tested01]

sex is fuckin great.
finishing is quite necessary though i think.

[Crazy Dave]

With a regular sex partner I quickly stop finishing. Hell I think it's unfair if a girl has 2-3 orgasm a few times a day, and I might take up to 2 weeks,,, heheh j/k I don't think it's not fair; it's just tantric practices.

See with the guy not coming (like most guys in 10-20min) you can go for hours, take a short break and go at it again. AND THE SHEETS DON'T GET 1/2 AS MESSY!!!

[sweet~kandy]

You get what you get

[Crazy Dave]

^ yea I guess it hard to finish for girl if she will only do anal.

[MistressSpankME]

I agree with everything Maryah said.

Sex does not equal orgasm. I rarely ever don't "finish", but even when I don't orgasm I am more than satisfied. It's more of a process and experience than just the end result.

I'll admit that sometimes I am a little dissapointed in myself if my partner doesn't cum, and I dont mean right off the bat I just mean sometime during or near the end of our "session". As Dave mentioned, control is a great thing especially when a man excersizes it (at least from my point of veiw because I get longer sex :P it's not an issue for me because I can orgasm multiple times and keep going). However, considering we don't really practice tantra which wold entail controlling orgasm for long periods of time, not just to prolong one sexual experience, I guess I feel that I want to make him feel as good as he makes me.. so the least I can do is get him to orgasm once.

however, this doesn't happen often either so even if it was just the end result that was important to me/us, we are doing juuuuuust fine :)

[miss.myra]

Not overly important...


The sex itself can often be as good as the grand finale

haha grand finale...I'm so lame.

[crackdragon]

I always make it a point to make sure the girl finishes, me on the other hand, I would prefer it but I guess its not mandatory to have a good time. Really though, how often does a guy not finish during sex??

[jim]

Originally posted by rawb
i see it as a race that im very very very good at.

words to live by.

[G-Style]

Sex is just a whole lot of fun. It can be whatever you want it to be it really depends on the people(s) involved and how much fun they want to have with it.
G

[baby_bluez]

i voted for the "take it or leave it" thing... cuz... sometimes ya both just get tired and cant go on... then its mutual.
but if one finishes and the other doesnt it isn't good... girls it isnt even that bad cuz we can multiple *some of us can* butif the boy doesnt... then i feel bad. :(

[mugsy]

i agree with jingles that sex isnt always good because you orgasm, sex is good cause its good.... however there can be plenty of clitoral stimulation during sex, depends on how you do it.

[Sue Bitch]

sometimes you just get to tired but then you take a smoke break and get right back on that horse

[Flip]

Originally posted by Sue Bitch
sometimes you just get to tired but then you take a smoke break and get right back on that horse

eewwww HORSE-FUCKER!!! Atleast it's not a German horse....

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

at least he isnt a chicken fucker

[Tattoology]

Damn it!! Reminds me of my first time. I gave up after an hour. Pity that girl.

[decypher]

of course its always important that the woman is satisfied, but for me, i can't just have sex or get a bj and not finish... its like going to the PNE and not going on any rides...

[Hot Karl]

haha i've faked an orgasm before.

i was really really really tired.

[-ff-]

fishing is very important. Just think of the generations of children who would never have bonded with their dad if he hadn't taken them fishing. Cheee...

Oh, wait, finishing...