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Jun 07, 05
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friends ?
*sigh* I get along better with guys than i do with gurls but it seems like all my guy friends arent really friends at all ... now that i think about it, i havent had a single guy friend that didnt start to like me or just tried to be friends with me because they find me attractive:( Everything in my life is great right now and i dont hav time to stress about guys and i love it like that! howvere its really starting to bug me how these friends of mine dont wanna hang out with me since im not intersted in them like that. Does anyone hav advice that they could share with me..? (ps.. excuse me for not using any proper punctuation)
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i was considering that ...
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be friends with guys hotter then u :) that way they might not wanna sleep with u :) hahahaha ok im kidding ... I think maybe its true that guys and girls cant always just be friends ... someone is gonna be attracted to the other .. thats life babe .. u need some gf's :) that way they might not wanna sleep with u ... ok they might ... but u know what I mean
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not really. but it's a pretty common practice for girls that hang out with guys.
just further proof that regardless of initial intentions, our base desires direct our actions. (i'm just trying to say we always think about the poon, in a classy manner) course, i've got some cool female friends and it's all platonic. but i treats my female friends like the're one of the boys. because they are, as far as buddy status goes. my advice? don't really have any. it's not something you can actively avoid. unless you're gonna literally screen any guy friends. and you'd have to basically scream that you aren't lookin for any action. and at that point, he probably doesn't wanna be friends with you. (because you're screaming, not because of no action) however, it seems to be an extremely common practice where that guy is just waiting for his time. even if he is your buddy. but what the fuck do i know? good luck with that. i couldn't imagine what it'd be like if you had to constantly question your friends motives.
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I think girls need to be really careful with there guy friends. If you are a girl that is constantly hugging and cuddling with your friends.. they might think you are interested. If you always say things like "oh I love you" or "I care about you soo much" They will get the wrong idea. Being straight forward is also the best way to handle these kind of situations. Good luck hun =D
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hmm well babe maybe its u thats looking for competition ? maybe u think they are competing ? just a thought ... I dont think friends should compete but it does happen .. time to find new friends hon , I think so :) im free from 6- 9 pm on weds if u like :P hahahaha
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so ur free from 6-9 is that sum kinda joke lol? pleez tell me it is
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Its definately a joke.
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^i would love to! i wanna go to celebrities sumtime but i hav no one to go with!
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i use to have the same problem untill i got chubby..lol...
but i only hang out with guys and i just always stress how i love them so much and im soo happy that we are friends and nothing more...and how i love the fact that everything is soo cas i dont have any g/f ither they are to competative(bad speller sorry)you tell them you have a crush they go for them..or just need all the attention or are just too sensitive or catty... i think if the guys you hang out with are mature enough, you can just stress to them that this is the way you are happy with things..ppl cant control there feelings but if they care enough about what you guys have, then they should be mature enough to know that this is what they can have with you or they can have nothing at all, by pushing you away.
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thnx guys ! that kinda helped me out :)
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most girls get along with boys better then girls, get use to it.
All my friends are guys, simply becuase I hate girls, but I know what you mean by they end up liking you or something. You just have to make it loud n clear that your JUST friends. Tho, I have more of a problem, well I wouldnt call it a problem, of being considered the lil'sister, or the bebe of my friends..[being as they're all about 3 years older then me] also being considered being one of the guys. it just works out better. Just dont have yourself preceived as a piece of ass, and you wont be treated like one. G'luck.
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I have quite a few female friends, but noone that I'm really really close with anymore- not since I chose to stop speaking with my (ex)best friend after she totally flaked on me. *sigh* But I hope things work out for ya darlin. :)
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friendships at our age, really , are all driven by some form of attraction
friends never start off just as friends, someone always has an intention. you want to get to know him or he you because somewhere in the head there is the hope that the mating oculd happen. never do you approach someone and think...ya we are going to be super rad friends. Friends develops start the chick friend search. all girls can't hate you, it is impossible unless you are sleeping with their boyfriends
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im going to hav to search for gfs... so i guess that means getting out more often :S
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IMO
i have always had girl friends as buds. there are occasions that i start to feel for the girl... I have to assess the situation like this... if she isnt digging me then i let it be... i mean friends first right? i would never stop hanging out with a really close friend if she decided that she didnt want to take that next step. but thats just me. i would rather have that person in my life even just as friends rather than wreck everything by trying to push things. i think that these guys that bail after they cant get a piece were never really your friend anyways.. they were just waiting in the wings until they could jump in. this probably doesnt help but im just trying to say that there are guys out there that can respect your friendship and that not all guy friends are trying to get the poon.
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i wont give up on all guys as friends yet.. but it's just that i hav realized i dont hav very many friends anymore :( do to this problem
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