friends ?

[tahiti__treat]

Originally Posted by Kelster

i only have male friends, and they're all fucking gay. they're like having girl friends, but minus that crazy estrogen drug.

most girls have shown too be unstable friends.

thats what i have found aswell .. gurls are soo much drama :S not all of them but most

set2hate, have we met? i am honestly not snobby at all .. i may come off that way cuz im quiet and shy

[rawb]

IM TOO BEAUTIFUL TO MAKE FRIENDS TOO
I WISH I COULD TURN IT OFF

[Tea]

Originally Posted by Bitchin

most girls get along with boys better then girls, get use to it.

All my friends are guys, simply becuase I hate girls, but I know what you mean by they end up liking you or something. You just have to make it loud n clear that your JUST friends.
Tho, I have more of a problem, well I wouldnt call it a problem, of being considered the lil'sister, or the bebe of my friends..[being as they're all about 3 years older then me] also being considered being one of the guys. it just works out better.

Just dont have yourself preceived as a piece of ass, and you wont be treated like one.

G'luck.

This is was really well said. You set your own terms for yourself. Some girls have it in their head that they aren't something without steady cock in their lives, and you can only hope they get over that sad notion . Answer to yourself. If you know what you want for yourself you won't leave room for bullshit or the otherwise.

Be straight up. It's okay to say your not interested in dating, and if that person flakes off then...then i wouldn't consider that person good company/good times. You need to know you deserve better then that. esp. before anyone else can.

In terms of slecting girls, their are some prime choice ladies, but you havve to be 100 percent open about everything or shit can hit the fan. Never let a stupid boy get in the way of a friend, its not worth competing over, forfit because that friend is worth so much more then one or two night of sex. Jelousy is for losers.

Know what you got , be proud of it, just dont lower yourself for nothing or no one.

and be close friends with yourself. You 'd be suprised by all the fun you could have ;) you don't need em. Let them come to you.

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by Tea

This is was really well said. You set your own terms for yourself. Some girls have it in their head that they aren't something without steady cock in their lives, and you can only hope they get over that sad notion . Answer to yourself. If you know what you want for yourself you won't leave room for bullshit or the otherwise.

Be straight up. It's okay to say your not interested in dating, and if that person flakes off then...then i wouldn't consider that person good company/good times. You need to know you deserve better then that. esp. before anyone else can.

Exactly, plus who wants to be friend with some one that jsut wants to stick it in you?! Obviously they don't see the great person you are inside.

Originally Posted by tea

In terms of slecting girls, their are some prime choice ladies, but you havve to be 100 percent open about everything or shit can hit the fan. Never let a stupid boy get in the way of a friend, its not worth competing over, forfit because that friend is worth so much more then one or two night of sex. Jelousy is for losers.

Regardless if you 100% honest with your female friends, they're always not gonna like something you say. But true friends will be understanding of what you have to say and accept it and not be a cunt about it.

Originally Posted by tea

Know what you got , be proud of it, just dont lower yourself for nothing or no one.

and be close friends with yourself. You 'd be suprised by all the fun you could have ;) you don't need em. Let them come to you.

(Y)

[veN]

Don't worry girl! I think lots of girls have been there. Only in the last little while have I started to have quality friendships with girls. And I'm 22! I realized most of my guy friends (who made up my whole circle of friends really) were not the great "friends" I perceived em to be. I figured that out when they didn't wanna hang out so much whenever I'd have a steady boyfriend.

Really you've gotta be straight up with them (I am now with any guy I meet that I think is interested in me) and you don't hafta feel bad. If they flake out on you, y'know they weren't a good friend in the first place. And from there just cut your losses.

Good luck!

[veN]

And I think the key to finding good galpals is connecting with girls who've gotten over themselves and the competition of being female.

[Vitamin-X]

Okay just a thought here
Maybe try to befriend couples.
You would know the guy is already taken, so he wouldn't (shouldn't anyway) be after you and the girl could be a chick pal.

It's like two birds with one stone :you get your friendship claws into both of them.
:BOB:

[~Sc@ndelu$~]

I dont really know waht to say other than just open up and try to be more social with girls if u are shy.

[cinist]

Originally Posted by set2hate

maybe...jusss maybe if you didnt come off so stand-offish and otherwise snobby to a good portion of the people you deal with, you'd be better off.

no beef, no drama, just an honest thought.

people can apear to be snobby without having that intention at all. a lot of people ive known i at first thought were jerks or snobs but after i realised they were just shy ..


i know a lot of girls with this problem . it really lands up hurting their self esteem because they get the idea that all any guy wants from them is sex. it's too bad guys are so stupid.

[onefour]

Originally Posted by tahiti__treat

gurls dont like me ... i only hav 3 gf's:( i dunno why but its really hard for me to be friends with gurls cuz there always so competitive with one another

i think tis cuz u say mean things to them and make them sad like me :'(

but here my theory on this, do you have fun when u hang out with the guys, whethere they wanna bang u or not, they arent going too if you dont want them too. So, keep on rocking teh free world. its like i say, i dont care if someone talks shit about me behind my back because if they are nice to me to my face im still gonna have a good time around them. So who cares right?

[onefour]

Originally Posted by rawb

IM TOO BEAUTIFUL TO MAKE FRIENDS TOO
I WISH I COULD TURN IT OFF

OhEmGee Ur sO cuTe.

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by cinist

people can apear to be snobby without having that intention at all. a lot of people ive known i at first thought were jerks or snobs but after i realised they were just shy ..

SO TRUE!!!
You use to think I was the biggest snob!!!!

Also, a lot of people get shyness and snobbyness mixed up!

[miss.myra]

Seriously though, you'll meet the best friends you'll ever have by not trying. As cheesy as it sounds, if you be yourself then only the right people will learn to love your company.

[tahiti__treat]

thanx myra thats sum helpful advice :)

[cutienikki]

i know excatly how you feel...i have more guy friends than girls...ill be your friend :PartEkid:

.....but does it count if ur guy friends act like girls? so then can i say i have more girlfriends than guys? hmmm

[tahiti__treat]

oki we can be freinds :) lol

[tahiti__treat]

uhm i dont think it matters if they act like gurls :p .. have u ever thought maybe they think u act like a guy ? :p
add me to msn lol

[tahiti__treat]

uhm i dont think it matters if they act like gurls :p .. have u ever thought maybe they think u act like a guy ? :p.. add me to msn lol

[t-skywalker]

im walking proof...everyone thinks im this huge full of my self person...but im soo shy..thats my way of hiding it, by being bold...but its cause i dont know how else to act....QUOTE=Bitchin]SO TRUE!!!You use to think I was the biggest snob!!!!

Also, a lot of people get shyness and snobbyness mixed up![/quote]