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Oct 12, 01
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Do you girls prefer...
A) A guy that doesn't share his feelings/thoughts/emotions with you
B) A guy that does share his feelings/thoughts/emotions but since he says whatever he thinks he might come across as an asshole at times. 
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Oct 12, 01
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that's the best question. girls are so full of shit when they answer it... why can't they just say "all i want is your wallet"? i remember 1 girl said she wanted me to be honest with her... so i was... i said she was getting chubby, and she took offense and never forgave me... wtf... Last edited by bob; Oct 12, 01 at 04:38 PM.
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Oct 12, 01
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I definitely appreciate and respect a man that can open up and tell me how he really feels, his thoughts, whatever is on his mind, etc. I had being "in the dark" about things. I think I'd rather be hurt and know the truth, than to not know and be oblivious to what's going on. The key to a successful relationship is open communication, even if it hurts. If you want to say something that you know will hurt the other person, you don't necessarily have to throw it in their face and be brutally blunt about it. Cause if whatever you have to tell them is going to hurt, then why hurt them even more by using a harsh method of communicating to them?
Erica :AZN:
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Oct 12, 01
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hah.. i remember my chick friend from toronto.. was so honest al the time.. sumtimes it hurts but I love her for it because I know that every thing comin out of her, even compliments, are for real...
she told me straight n the face that "yoko ur gettin FAT!" and thought nothing about it... and it's cool cuz I know that she's not sayin it to be cruel or nuthin, n she's just being herself... so that was cool BUT when people who usually aren't this blunt say it in an attempt to be more "open" and to "change"... i don't think they should say such stuff... because coming outta THEM it would sounds like a harsh DISS.. for some people it juss kida comes naturally and once u get used to them u juss sorta accept it.. I personaly like guys that have intellect... a diff'rent kinda knowledge. I could't care less bout academic smarts.. It's kinda a turn on when guys have their own sets of beliefs n all... I used to have a real close guy bud that was pretty intellectual in that way... HE pissed me off BIG TIME sometimes but he's sum one that did deserve more respect than any one including me gave him.. but i guess it's all personal taste... sum girls don't like getting all seirous n in depth of "The meanig of life" n all sorts.. sum girls do.. *shrugs*
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Oct 12, 01
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------------------------------------------------------------ Anywayz, i would rather have a guy say what he's thinking and what not even if it would piss me off! i'm like erica.. i don't like being left in the dark [although i can do that to ppl sometimes.. but all ya gotta do is tell me that's how ya feel and i'll tell u straight out what the real deal with me is.. sometimes i'm clueless.. so i don't expect everyone to be so straight up bout everything with me either..] but i can be pretty blunt about certain things.. my ex even told me one thing he liked aobut me is he never knew what i was gonna say.. i always just said thing si was thinking just.. said them..even if they were stupid lil things i still said em.. haha it's more fun being like that then keeping everything inside. well in my opinion anywayz..
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Oct 13, 01
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hmmm
i think id prefer personally if he did share his feeling/thoughts/emotions...because then you can connect on another level...and you need to share those things to get close to one another...if i dont know your sexual fantasys then how can i fulfill them!...right!
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Oct 13, 01
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i didn't even bother too read all the posts but from the poll i can tell u that im # 2 and my gf is #1 trying to be #2 but gets mad at me becuz im a #2 and i try to get stuff out of her but apparently its hard for her becuz she's a #1......whatever....i dont' fuckin get it either....meh...
corrie
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Oct 13, 01
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(c) Whipped!@#$
That's the way it is. stina
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Oct 14, 01
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Personally....
...I prefer that he shares his thoughts/etc. with me. When you hide it all from whomever you're dating, it causes all these horrible thoughts/worries to arise. Mostly that is due to NOT sharing what's going on. However, I always understand if that's not the way the guy is & doesn't feel comfortable sharing. But ya, I think guys should share!
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Oct 14, 01
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just be open and share u're thoughts is the best way to go. there are SOME stuff u sorta hafta hold back and don't wanna spill... but the more open u are the happier the relationship is, even though as u said it could piss u off sumtimes... it's all worth it. tats better than not knowing things!
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Oct 14, 01
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personally im the kinda person that likes to share a lil then hide in my hermit shell and not say anything about how i feel and what not for a long ass time.. i dont like sharing my emotions, but i will share my thoughts. however, i like it when a guy shares what he thinks and whatnot, doesnt matter if he comes across blunt cuz im very blunt and i can come across as hurtful at times but i do it out of love i swear.
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Oct 15, 01
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If all girls wanted was my wallet then I'd never get any :P That and they would have insatiable jealousy towards my vinyl collection.
That said, I love spending money on people when I know it's appreciated. That and I fucking love eating out, but won't do it unless I have someone there with me :)
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Oct 15, 01
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i'd prefer the guy to be open..not totally blunt to the point where he'd pick out every single thing he felt and say it..but yeah..i wouldn't want him to be all closed up either cuz that way...i'd never know wut he thought..and it always nice to know wut the other is truthfully thinking sumtimes..ok..soo..i'd prefer the guy to be sumwhere inbetween totally open to never saying a word..balance of both is good..~ :035:
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