being shy...

[Aki]

i hate it sometimes! i get so nervous around some people it makes me stutter. i don't know what my problem is...its usually around guys i like too :soak:
sometimes i'm fine, other times i like can't form words!
it sucks

[matéo]

I THINK ITS HOT

[candytabi]

i know!!! I am the same way sometimes. Fuckin annoying. It sometimes gets in my way of meeting people. I am so shy sometimes that people think I'm stuck up or sumthin.....

[yoko*]

haha. me too. I think i come across as stand-offish a lot of the times..especially when I'm feeling anti-social and am forced into a social situation. I'm just better and more comfortable with talking to some one ONE ON ONE rather than in a group situation. Otherwise, I'm girly shy.

I think that immersing yourself in social situations helps sometimes. Working retail got me into the groove of forcing fake smiles and pretending to be somewhat social and happy all the time.

some guys seem to like shy girls.. it gives them a sense of control maybe?.. so it might work in your favor some time.

[Crazy_Cat_Lady]

I hear ya!!!! Damn, sometimes I'm so shy i can't utter a word...I hate it! :kimmie: :kimmie:

[axion]

Im pretty shy if im in a group of over 3 or 4 people. I get so nervous sometimes i end up blurting stuff out without really thinking about it, and i usually make an ass of myself. :soak:

[alia]

Originally posted by yoko*
I think that immersing yourself in social situations helps sometimes.

Definately. Im shy as... but getting adrenilan rush from meeting new ppls... (*chuckle* now that i type that it sounds lame)... :kimmie: Besides they are probably just as shy as you are.

:)

hope you dont feel too uncomfortable... whenever i see someone in a group that im in who is even more shy than me.. i try to go out of my way to get them talking... soon enough they forget that they were shy :-P

A.

[Kelster]

i'm not too shy...i just get really nervous round strangers

it's bad cause i don't know what to say, but i don't want to be lame and say nothing, so i'm just spewing out the stupidest stuff ever

[Chet]

Originally posted by Aki
i hate it sometimes! i get so nervous around some people it makes me stutter. i don't know what my problem is...its usually around guys i like too :soak:
sometimes i'm fine, other times i like can't form words!
it sucks

oh aki, I don't mind when you stutter around me


plus you're hot so you can get away with it

[soma]

hey aki! it's all up here (taps own head) the greatest fear in the world is public speaking so don't worry it happens to everyone. you just got to find a way you can do what you got to do with out turning on the freak out nervious

[lola_phyne]

i get shy sometimes and stutter. Or when i get excited. I feel kinda selfconcious about it but some people say it's cute. I don't think so...

[Aki]

its wierd, sometimes i'm fine sometimes i just have a loss of words. so awkward

[mojo]

im sorta the same way....if im around a women who i am not attracted to, im totally myself and act like a freak.....if those feelings change, or if its a women im attracted to, i start to think WAY too much and analysize what they say and shit....this usually leads to me making an ass of myself.

if this problem is generally with guys your into, i suggest forgeting about them in that way and think of them as just a friend. that approach seems to seldomy work:P

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

its one of those things you get over with time
I used to be the shyest kid EVER!
fuck its an uphill battle now for you to get me to shut up

[samosa]

im so so extremely shy... i get nervous when i talk to ppl and u stutter and liek fuck up wat im sayin i hate it.. i dont kno.. i dont seem to b shy at raves tho hahaha for sum reason i dont stop talkin to ppl?? Hmmmm... :soak:

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

the best way to get over shyness
get absolutely hammed
everyone will know you by the end of the night :kam:

[samosa]

HAHA YES EXACTLY ... then when u go to tha next party... everywun will kno u and u wont remember them.. haha shit when im hammered i meet everywun but i make a fool of myself... oOo well :284:

[Aki]

^^thats the worst advice you could ever give someone
i know people who have become alcoholics because of this. (adults too) no confidence, get hammered before going out or going to meet people and think that it would be easier for them to get through the night. its a huge problem

[Chet]

you should just go *shake it

[decypher]

Originally posted by Aki
^^thats the worst advice you could ever give someone
i know people who have become alcoholics because of this. (adults too) no confidence, get hammered before going out or going to meet people and think that it would be easier for them to get through the night. its a huge problem

that is a very huge problem for me, i have a hard time hanging out with people or going out and partying without alcohol and other things.. it sucks..

[Jrock]

Welcome to the club...

I have difficulties meeting new people. I have the same problem with not knowing what to say. Once I meet them and have talked to them for a good hour or so, I can usually chat it up like it was nothing.

Try and just pass them off as a good friend of yours. So what if you don't know them... a stranger is just a friend you haven't met. Or they're a person who you don't want to know, but haven't figured that out yet

-jay :209