another stupid love thread

ryantron · #1 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 04

i'm in love with my best friend. i want more than anything to tell him how i feel, yet i want more than anything not to tell him. i love him as a friend too. so, i guess it comes down to what is more important, friendship or love?

cinist · #2 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 04

freindship is love

Erin · #3 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 04

^ :339:

-ff- · #4 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 04

I'd say be careful

Sariel · #5 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 04

Unless telling him would cause irrepairable damage to your friendship, or there is no possible chance of him returning the feelings, being honest with him would probably be for the best.

Yes, it might change things, and possibly for the worse.... but if you are causing yourself emotional pain by staying silent, it's better to be open and honest about it.

mojo · #6 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 04

ur picture is creeping me out

ryantron · #7 (**permalink**) Feb 29, 04

you don't have a picture. and if mine can inflict fear in others, i win.

Chet · #8 (**permalink**) Feb 29, 04

toss off on him one day when he is sleeping
if he wakes up and is like "Doubleyou tee eff"
then it's a no go

NeVeRLooKBacK · #9 (**permalink**) Feb 29, 04

I went out wit my best friend once
I'd never do that again.. it ended VERY tragically and we've never talked since the breakup
oh well
Ive moved one

hardstylin · #10 (**permalink**) Feb 29, 04

yep never date friends it always ends up for the worse.

jaydream · #11 (**permalink**) Feb 29, 04

Quote:

Originally posted by Chet
toss off on him one day when he is sleeping
if he wakes up and is like "Doubleyou tee eff"
then it's a no go

lol

you always know what to say

ryantron · #12 (**permalink**) Feb 29, 04

thank you, everyone. theres something about annonymous help that i like. its so much more annonymous than the other kind of help.

robyn · #13 (**permalink**) Mar 01, 04

Quote:

Originally posted by mojo
ur picture is creeping me out

What are you talking about? His avatar is adorable! And that's not a word I just throw around.

Liqwid · #14 (**permalink**) Mar 01, 04

^^^....truth...

~Dalyn:008:

ryantron · #15 (**permalink**) Mar 01, 04

:D

sidekick · #16 (**permalink**) Mar 01, 04

i agree with the above statements...adorable.
Good luck with the friend thing....i told my friend i liked him and we're still cool....all depends on how deep your friendship is.

lildonkey · #17 (**permalink**) Mar 03, 04

i'm confused... is everyone in this thread gay or something? not that theres anything wrong with that... but uhh... and arnt u 15 years old? i dont understand... kids are gay at ages that young? i thought they are just undecided and curious at that age? .... ummm and your only 15???

SEAN! · #18 (**permalink**) Mar 03, 04

is your friend a fag? if not its probably not a good idea to tell him

ps. most gay people know their gay at a pretty young age

Rayeine · #19 (**permalink**) Mar 03, 04

Quote:

Originally posted by -ff-
I'd say be careful

^I agree. You wouldn't want anything to risk your friendship, but If you get the impression that he feels the same way just go for it...but in a way that its not *woosh* love in your face here I am.
I've been through that before...the friendship was never the same. Do what you feel is right, at 15 you still have many years ahead of you, more people to meet..high school *ughh* to finish.
Just go with your flow feeling. But realize how valuable your friendship is right now.

:p best of wishes.hope everything works out.

Sammy Skillz · #20 (**permalink**) Mar 03, 04

Quote:

Originally posted by SEAN!
is your friend a fag? if not its probably not a good idea to tell him

ps. most gay people know their gay at a pretty young age

exactly what my seanface said.

lil donkey...i'm sure you knew you were straight even when you were 15. suprise!!! it works both ways.

yeah it depends on whether or not your friend is fluent in fag. if not....i probably WOULDNT pursue it.

-s

sweetdream · #21 (**permalink**) Mar 03, 04

hey,
I went out with my best freind recently and yeah, we almost got to the point we din't talk like we use 2. So to get my best freind back and less pressure on teh whole thing. We broke up. I dont know its an iffy situation either way.

ryantron · #22 (**permalink**) Mar 03, 04

yeah. it's just a stupid crush. his friendship is too important to risk.
actually, last night, i found out another friend of mine is in love with me. i just thought it was kind of funny that i am in both positions. the other friend is a girl and didn't know if i was straight or not. crazy?

sidekick · #23 (**permalink**) Mar 04, 04

Quote:

Originally posted by lildonkey
i'm confused... is everyone in this thread gay or something?

I'm bi..so i speak both the languages.

...and by languages i mean of course french and spanish.

samosa · #24 (**permalink**) Mar 04, 04

well my frend is a lesbian and she told me she liked me... it was better off that she told me..im not weirded out or anything.. i understand.. we had a long talk and she felt better after we talked.. we're still friends .. atleast she got it off of her chest..... and everytime that ive had relationships with my friends it always ends up terrible with alot of tears it was sad i dont know but honesty is the best thing in my opinion because if ur frends u should be open..

lildonkey · #25 (**permalink**) Mar 04, 04

Okay now i know you use the word love so loosely.... You obviously don't know what your talking about at the age of 15.. however... if you tell your friend you love him and hes not a fag... and hes 15.... things could get very ugly when kids are that immature...