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im gonna bump this.. im currently really mad/fustrated and feeling gross. so over the past few weeks i found a wonderful friend who i amazingly get along with.. just one of those keeper friends. and he's leaving to another country tmrw for god knows how long. another wonderful example of friends that come and go. im pissed off.. we're gonna keep in contact over email/phone etc, yes its nice blah blah blah, but i still feel like i lost a friend. its tough to find ppl like that nowadays and it so happens i had to find a friend who was leaving. seriously.. i dont think i can go backpacking/travelling, id just get so glued to ppl i meet and like.
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bebu dear, think about why you are pissed off...
don't take this the wrong way, and maybe its just the way i'm interpreting what you have typed, but it seems as if you are mad that this friend is leaving you, and that's rather selfish. if this person is such a good friend as you say, you should be happy for them for heading down their own path and exploring the world. he won't be gone forever! now when you say that you get so glued to people.. that makes me worry about you! yes friends are awesome, and i know i love mine to death, but ultimately we only have ourselves. you seem to get so upset over losing a friend... and that makes me wonder if you are you using friends as a distraction from yourself? <3 |
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I believe that people will enter and leave your life for a reason and it is up to you to figure out what that reason is.
If the time that was allotted is spent then they leave and may come back into your life in the future. Honestly, friends will come and friends will go but only family is forever. It took me a while to clue into this as the truth and I hope everyone else can one day as well. |
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im definately happy for him.. its an oppurtunity of a life time. not like im mad him and told stay for me just cuz im the new friend...i was definatley not goin that direction. im pretty much just upset and grumpy about just being able to meet someone i totally click and understand..and losing him in a short period of 3 weeks. i hope its understandable. i guess it could be a lil selfish that im feeling this way but i do think its normal to feel this way... think about meeting a possible bestfriend and losing physical contact with him/her after 3 weeks.. u dont find this type of person on a daily/weekly/even monthly basis. and also..he'll be back.. which makes me smile. my friends mean the world to me.. i love every single one of them and just get attached and absorbed into them. thinking of them make me smile.
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I have only 2 friends in my life who I can call my brothers, but sometimes we don't talk for a week or so. Personally, friendship to me isn't talking everyday, going out all the time, sharing every detail of everything with eachother. To me it's when you leave for a year and you come back and they are still the same as they were when you left. Trust and Loyalty are what I base my friends on. No matter how many different groups of friends each of us has, no matter what; we stay loyal to that friendship we have together because it's like an unspoken bond that is there.
On to your newest problem... Bev you have knowen him for couple weeks. Are you sure he isn't another one of those friends who in a month or so will drop off the map? |
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You know what I hate?
Friends who come, borrow your shit, don't return it, then go! Pisses me off. A "friend" of mine has had something of mine for 9 months. I know it's ruined, which is why every time I ask for it back she says "You can come pick it up....but I don't think I'll be home." !@#$% biatch! |
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family is forever? ok. i don't know.
i know friends aren't that important if i have school and work to deal with first. that doesn't mean i don't care about my friends. it just means that there is only 24 hours to a day and you can only do so much. hanging out with friends can wait especially if that's all i been doing before i got serious with my life. |
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