shallowness

[Partizan]

well im obviously not gonna "shut it" if i think im right .. im entitled to my own opinion about things and i can voice it freely

if im doing something absurd then the mods and admins can come and delete my posts .. no questions asked

i dont even know why you got all upset with my posts .. why does my opinion concern you so much?

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by Courtney

Like if a guy liked me and I thought he was ugly I probably wouldn't give him a chance..I know that's pretty wrong of me but its the truth.

I don't think that's really being shallow at all! It would be shallow if you wouldn't even be FRIENDS with the guy 'cause he was ugly, but to have a successful relationship there has to be physical attraction...and besides, it shouldn't be too big of a knock to the guy, either. Everyone has different tastes when it comes to the opposite sex - the guy that you find totally hot another girl could find totally unattractive, and the guy that you think is totally fugly, another girl could be totally attracted to.

[rawb]

i try my best to be shallow but really i cant bring myelf to act on it.

[Jingles]

Originally Posted by Partizan

you're just acting in your instincts

while people were still primitive thousands of years ago we looked for the most attractive mate.. if one that you felt was not worthy of you they didnt stand a chance .. thats what translates into being shallow today.. so basically you are just going along with your primal instincts and theres not really much you can do about it .. so technically its not that wrong .. its just wrong "socialy" because of the given state of society and people

Um. No
while people were still in a 'primitive' state in a hunter/gather society mates were chosen by physicality more then anything - a male looked for a robust female who had wide hips that looked like she could survive childbirth..this was important because if she died that child likely would as well and that would threaten the males chances of carrying on their lineage. Males and feamles were drawn by scent, and pair bonding wasn't a factor yet -- males would hump all sorts of females in order to make the most babies

What is attractive is subjective and often evolving, what someone would find attractive right now was unatttractive in the 19th century. early man, and most mammals now, made partner choices not based on looks -- Its todays society that puts emphasis on looks and beauty.

[Courtney]

well then I blame society for making me this way damnit!

[justa~gurl]

if you aren't physically attracted to someone then theres not much that you can do to chnage that..

i bet theres not a lot of good looking guys that you'd go out with either... only the ones that you feel a connection with... it goes both ways i think, otherwise you'd be fallin for everyone right?

[Ragga_Wh0re]

blaming society is a lame ass cop out. Its up to you to decide whats right for you, fuck societys ideals. Basically what your saying is that your pop cultures robot...they programmed you to think this way so thats why you think this way. So basically your spineless and not to mention insipid. what a combo!

*if you boys/girls dont snap her up...i will?!*

Also, I agree whole heartedly with being honest, but when your being honest try to utilize tact and take into account the other persons feelings...not just your own.

not only are you shallow, but your selfish as well.

good luck with your over haul sweety.:)

[Courtney]

ok I know i'm sshallow but how is that selfish?

[Partizan]

its selfish because [according to goddessa] you only care about your own feelings.. you only think about your own wellbeing ..

[ppcock]

Rhianna's ugly but she's a great girl. I'll give her a chance.


and to courtney.. BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN!

[Rhianna]

^You don't need to give me a chance. There is no way we'd ever have sex. You don't have to have hot msn friends!