shallowness

[Courtney]

I think everybody is shallow in some ways. I can be shallow, sometimes I wonder why I got to be this shallow? I don't even mean to be but it just happens. Like if a guy liked me and I thought he was ugly I probably wouldn't give him a chance..I know that's pretty wrong of me but its the truth. It makes me feel like a shitty person too cuz even if he was the nicest guy ever I still wouldn't be able to see past it. I know that most girls won't admitt to it but most of them are the same..guys too. And sometimes I'm a total BITCH about things and to certain people just because of what they're wearing or something... I'm working on a big change......I don't like being mean anymore.

[Partizan]

you're just acting in your instincts

while people were still primitive thousands of years ago we looked for the most attractive mate.. if one that you felt was not worthy of you they didnt stand a chance .. thats what translates into being shallow today.. so basically you are just going along with your primal instincts and theres not really much you can do about it .. so technically its not that wrong .. its just wrong "socialy" because of the given state of society and people

but judging people by and bitching at them for waht they're wearing or something is wrong .. just put urself in the other persons place .. have a little empathy

[sidekick]

^^so true.

don't feel bad, everyone looks for someone that is attractive.

they could have a great personality and be the best person in the world, but if you're not sexually attracted to them, chances are a relationship isn't going to work.

but that's the stuff best friends are made of!

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Courtney

I think everybody is shallow in some ways. I can be shallow, sometimes I wonder why I got to be this shallow? I don't even mean to be but it just happens. Like if a guy liked me and I thought he was ugly I probably wouldn't give him a chance..I know that's pretty wrong of me but its the truth. It makes me feel like a shitty person too cuz even if he was the nicest guy ever I still wouldn't be able to see past it. I know that most girls won't admitt to it but most of them are the same..guys too. And sometimes I'm a total BITCH about things and to certain people just because of what they're wearing or something... I'm working on a big change......I don't like being mean anymore.

Courtney, I don't care how nice a guy is. If you're not attracted to him then it's not going to work out.

I'd kill someone if they were like "Well, Rhianna's ugly but a really great girl so I guess I'll give her a chance."

[bob]

whatever... as long as you're honest, you get a thumbs up.

some bitches would tell an ugly guy some bullshit story like, "yea umm i'm actually dying of cancer tomorrow, but yea for sure call me sometime. here's my fak...faktory job # where you can reach me anytime during the day. nice to meet you. yea i'd kiss you but you know, the cancer thing yea ok bye" just because they're too ashamed of their damn thoughts that they have to conceal them...

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

^^so true.

don't feel bad, everyone looks for someone that is attractive.

they could have a great personality and be the best person in the world, but if you're not sexually attracted to them, chances are a relationship isn't going to work.

but that's the stuff best friends are made of!

OMG we think the same! It's like were sisters!

[Partizan]

great minds think alike, no?

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

OMG we think the same! It's like were sisters!

do we need to go shopping with each other now? or what's the deal?

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Partizan

great minds think alike, no?

you can be the third sister!

[Partizan]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

you can be the third sister!

hah .. i prefer brother :257:

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

do we need to go shopping with each other now? or what's the deal?

Pillow fight?

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Partizan

hah .. i prefer brother :257:

hey! if i have to be a sister, YOU have to be a sister.



and rhianna...only if we can fight in our underwear.

[Partizan]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

hey! if i have to be a sister, YOU have to be a sister.



and rhianna...only if we can fight in our underwear.

underwear? pillowfights?

.. haha call me whatever you want as long as girls are involved ..

for a second i thought sidekick was a chick ..

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Partizan

for a second i thought sidekick was a chick ..

:o

why did you call me bro in the karma you sent me then?

i'm happy being a boy thankyouverymuch

[Partizan]

well rhianna called you sister so i wasnt sure ... its kinda hard to tell over forums .. :p

note: .. i think we whored up this thread enuff for now .. lol

[sidekick]

it's never enough!

okay i'm done.

[trance4life]

change is never easy

[Partizan]

^^ it is if you're doing something morally good .. like being open minded .. it makes you a better person in total

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Partizan

well rhianna called you sister so i wasnt sure ... its kinda hard to tell over forums .. :p

note: .. i think we whored up this thread enuff for now .. lol

Can't you see, my sister and I make this thread better. So it's ok if we whore!

[Kelster]

courtney i used to have it bad!

i've gotten a lot better tho, and now i try to keep it to when i'm only with close friends that understand me.

it's really not that attractive to be so negative. and nobodys perfect, we're closer then a lot of other people, but we still have our flaws that i'm sure that rare person that's cooler then us is pointing and laughing :(

fuuuuck sometimes when you see some hurt bag you just wanna open up and spit it, ehh it's hard keeping it in.

[Goat]

Originally Posted by Partizan

you're just acting in your instincts

while people were still primitive thousands of years ago we looked for the most attractive mate.. if one that you felt was not worthy of you they didnt stand a chance .. thats what translates into being shallow today.. so basically you are just going along with your primal instincts and theres not really much you can do about it .. so technically its not that wrong .. its just wrong "socialy" because of the given state of society and people

Quit talking out of your ass.
1. Someone attractive in the cave days would look nowhere like today, estetichly. <sp?

Lets pretend for a sec, that it's 10,000+ years ago. You're on the hunt for a mate. Assume you're a 'caveman' with an iq of 25 tops. Would you take the dainty fragile thing with
a decent rack, narrow hips. OR would you take the bountiful boosum'd wide hip thing that looks like it can pump out youngins, your future seed by the dozen. someone who looks like they'll survive the winter, hunt for your offspring and fight for their survival?

You know what? you'd probably take them both, not that consent was much of an issue back in the day; Stick your dick in as many holes possible, pass on the seed, "Be a man". The times have changed. Society has changed. People have changed. Physically, biologically, and otherwise.

Sadly, we havn't gone that far. Life isn't about the "Almighty Fuck", though a good chunk of people still worship the past.

Part of growing up is personal/mental/physical development, becoming aware of surroundings and the cause/effect of your actions.

"You are a flower in a blossoming meadow" - relevant metaphore.

END RANT.

[Partizan]

whoa chill the fuck out buddy

i was just stating that it transends into todays society .. like any other mammalian species we look for the MOST attractive mate and its been going on for a looong time .. its in our instinct believe it or not .. what people find attractive or not is up to them and thats how society changes things

[Goat]

Originally Posted by Partizan

if one that you felt was not worthy of you they didnt stand a chance .. thats what translates into being shallow today..

No dood. Being stuck up/immature/bitch is different from being shallow. There's a line, about 3 feet across.

so basically you are just going along with your primal instincts and theres not really much you can do about it ..

This is a Krock. The way you treat people and what you find appealing in a mate are two completely different issues. One is not an excuse to become a stuck up/immature/bitch to the other.

anyway: it's your thread Courtney...

[Partizan]

i dunno what you were reading man

i never said that "way you treat people and what you find appealing in a mate" are the same things .. first i talked about how people still use their instincts to find mates and reject mates .. which was founded by mr "caveman" and his pet "mister class mammalia" ... then i went on to saying that its socially wrong because of today's society

while people were still primitive thousands of years ago we looked for the most attractive mate.. if one that you felt was not worthy of you they didnt stand a chance .. thats what translates into being shallow today.. so basically you are just going along with your primal instincts and theres not really much you can do about it .. so technically its not that wrong .. its just wrong "socialy" because of the given state of society and people

then i talked about being stuck up and bitchy about peoples appearances

courtney said:

And sometimes I'm a total BITCH about things and to certain people just because of what they're wearing or something... I'm working on a big change......I don't like being mean anymore.

then i used a line to seperate this from the previous thing which talked about primitive attraction in all off us so people do not mix them up .. and said:

judging people by and bitching at them for waht they're wearing or something is wrong .. just put urself in the other persons place .. have a little empathy

like being open minded .. it makes you a better person in total

and thats the end of that ..

arguing over the internet is retarded.. so lets just leave it at that

[Goat]

^you articulate and reiterate like a bitch.
shut it.