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View Poll Results: Do your parents let you have ur bf/gf sleepover? | |||
Yes | 51 | 64.56% | |
No | 28 | 35.44% | |
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I'm 22 and my parents don't let my boyfriend of almost 3 years sleep over in my room. If he sleeps over, he has to be in a completely different room...yet I've been sleeping over at his house ever since day one. I think I sleep over there more than I sleep at home. I don't know if they actually think I sleep on the couch every time...
But hey. I'm almost 23. If they think I'm not doing anything, I've got another story for them. But for now, lets just let them think what they want. |
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my mom's seen numerous girls come outta my room in the morning...sometimes more then one...hah, i think the most she's seen come outta my room was like, 5... but like, i dont get it..they dont even allow me to have a girl in my room with the door closed WTF! i'm 20..my bro's 22 and he can do whatever...i hear them have sex all the time..i guess my parents are jus dicks cuz most of my x's have been younger(17/18)...but hah, i cant wait...payback for my bro's gonna be SUCH a bitch... |
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When I lived at home, my parents didn't really care. I mean, at first I would have to sleep on the couch (while they slept in my bed), but in the morning I would always wake up early (like between 5 and 7am) and go cuddle with them for a few hours. My current boyfriend and I only slept separately for like, 1 night. Then we slept in the same bed with no parental comment. At least from mine. When we first started dating he lived on his own, but had to move home 2 months later. His dad wasn't cool with us sleeping together, but he would do the same thing and come crawl in bed with me in the morning.
My mom was cool with it before my dad was too. |
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i had a bit of a double standard problem at home - my brother was allowed ot have his gf's sleepover as soon as he graded, parents had no problem.
i wasnt allowed to have boys in my room. im still not supposed to have the door shut when my bf is over, which is stupid and makes me a little bit angry. we do the whole snekaing out thing at 5 am, but that kinda sucks. we fell asleep once on the couch, parents came home, didnt say much, and got up and ate breakfast with them.... but it was super awkward. but i stay at his house alot. my mom called me alot of harsh things, then i asked her what she was doing at my age (getting married\already married) and it shut her up. lately they have been alot more easy going about me staying there. not as many names being thrown around. plus being 20 in a couple of months helps the argument as well. but really, when i think of my 16 year old little cousin having sleepovers in a year, it makes me a little bit upset. no way in hell do i want that happening. a bit of a double standard.... |
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yes! i love her so much, i pretty much lived there for 2 1/2 years.. had my own door key, i like slept there when no one was home lol, she made me breakfast sometimes. larrissa and kezia were so much fun, always energetic. They were like the family i never had, sigh. |
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i've never been allowed to have boyfriends stay over night at my house, but i'm definatly ok with it. it makes my parents uncomfortable, so if thats how they feel then i'm fine with it. i'm not even allowed to have a boy in my room when my parents are home. i'm 20, and my brother is 23, and the same goes for him too. i think i would feel a little uncomfortable too if my parents were 2 doors away while my boyfriend was in my bed. its different for everyone anywyas....ive never had this problem because most of my boyfriends all lived on their own so i could sleep over there and they wouldn't have a problem with that at all.
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hmmm I don't know, i've never brought it up... in the past I usually just end up sleeping over at the guys house.
They're cool with having my guy friends sleep over because they know most of them. But in terms of letting a boyfriend sleep over... i'm really not too sure because I don't think i've been in a long enough relationship where they've been able to meet the guy more than once or twice and just been able to trust that he's a decent guy. Also, most of my relationships have been very short-term except for the last one but even with that one, we fought most of the time and he was a metrosexual prude. I'm sure if they know we've been together for a fairly reasonable amount of time and they've gotten to know he's a good guy they'd be fine with it. |
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