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View Poll Results: Do your parents let you have ur bf/gf sleepover?
Yes 51 64.56%
No 28 35.44%
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  #51 (permalink)  
Old Jun 29, 04
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mna im 19 and i pay 200 bucks rent n mah parents say no but hell he does ne way !
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Old Jun 29, 04
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maybe if we were goin out for a while then the rents' wouldnt mind
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Old Jun 29, 04
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My mom's cool with it... as long as she kinda knows who they are and it isnt sum random guy... besides i wouldnt want a strange guy no matter what staying at my house!
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Old Jun 30, 04
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My bf sleeps over all the time. I'm almost 20 now but she was pretty cool w/ my bro and I having are gf's/bf's sleep over after we graded.
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Old Jun 30, 04
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I'm 22 and my parents don't let my boyfriend of almost 3 years sleep over in my room. If he sleeps over, he has to be in a completely different room...yet I've been sleeping over at his house ever since day one. I think I sleep over there more than I sleep at home. I don't know if they actually think I sleep on the couch every time...

But hey. I'm almost 23. If they think I'm not doing anything, I've got another story for them. But for now, lets just let them think what they want.
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Old Jun 30, 04
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i've never really had a problem with boys sleeping over... ithink my parents might actually trust me ..and think that i won't do anything stupid.. lol
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Old Jun 30, 04
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heres a thought. get your own place...;)
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Old Jun 30, 04
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Im allowed
but thats cause I usually get home between the hours of 3-7 AM so they are long asleep when I get in
So they really cant argue at the time
haha
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Old Jun 30, 04
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ya, every once in a while, or she just parks around the corner and doesnt leave my room till my rents leave.
they are only concerned cus she is 19, and they think her parents wouldnt approve. but they think i sleep on the couch:P
hah, ya..thats pretty much the same for me...if i have any girls(gf, or jus friend that spent the nite ;)) over for the nite, i always tell em b4 they get there "u cant leave till my dad and bro(yes..my bro is a dick) leave for work"

my mom's seen numerous girls come outta my room in the morning...sometimes more then one...hah, i think the most she's seen come outta my room was like, 5...

but like, i dont get it..they dont even allow me to have a girl in my room with the door closed WTF! i'm 20..my bro's 22 and he can do whatever...i hear them have sex all the time..i guess my parents are jus dicks cuz most of my x's have been younger(17/18)...but hah, i cant wait...payback for my bro's gonna be SUCH a bitch...
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Old Jun 30, 04
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my parents let my boyfriend (at the time, now we're maried) move in after a few weeks of seeing each other. well, i guess it was more like they just kinda let it happen without saying anything.
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Old Jun 30, 04
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^How old were you?
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Old Jun 30, 04
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im 19 abd if i have a gf it has to be sometime before she can sleep over. usually until my parents get to know her and yadda yadda.
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Old Jun 30, 04
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my parents get so sad when i tell them i think i want to move out. so im still at home at 21. its not bad though, i live in a converted garage type thing so its like my own bsmt suite with minimal rent, i dont have to pay but i feel mmuch better giving them somthing.

they get get a little upset when they see gf's sleep over, theyd comment on how there uncomfortable with it and how they dont want it to happen but its just a formality.

i think my dad gets the presure fom my mom to say he disapproves, secretly though i think he likes the idea that i have girls over.

hes a proud father i guess.
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Old Jul 01, 04
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My parents wont let me have my partners sleep over, but they will let me have my guy friends sleep over. And yet when my brother and sister were living at home...THIER BFS AND GFS WERE ALLOWED TO SLEEP OVER.

I got fucking shafted.
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Old Jul 01, 04
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When I lived at home, my parents didn't really care. I mean, at first I would have to sleep on the couch (while they slept in my bed), but in the morning I would always wake up early (like between 5 and 7am) and go cuddle with them for a few hours. My current boyfriend and I only slept separately for like, 1 night. Then we slept in the same bed with no parental comment. At least from mine. When we first started dating he lived on his own, but had to move home 2 months later. His dad wasn't cool with us sleeping together, but he would do the same thing and come crawl in bed with me in the morning.

My mom was cool with it before my dad was too.
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Old Jul 01, 04
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i had a bit of a double standard problem at home - my brother was allowed ot have his gf's sleepover as soon as he graded, parents had no problem.
i wasnt allowed to have boys in my room. im still not supposed to have the door shut when my bf is over, which is stupid and makes me a little bit angry. we do the whole snekaing out thing at 5 am, but that kinda sucks. we fell asleep once on the couch, parents came home, didnt say much, and got up and ate breakfast with them.... but it was super awkward.
but i stay at his house alot. my mom called me alot of harsh things, then i asked her what she was doing at my age (getting married\already married) and it shut her up. lately they have been alot more easy going about me staying there. not as many names being thrown around. plus being 20 in a couple of months helps the argument as well.
but really, when i think of my 16 year old little cousin having sleepovers in a year, it makes me a little bit upset. no way in hell do i want that happening. a bit of a double standard....
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Old Jul 01, 04
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If they've got a Volkswagen or like me a Mustang... they'd better have a short significant other.
Nah. You just have to be creative and flexible. My MX-6 worked just fine.
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Old Jul 01, 04
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Is that Kezia's mom?

She was so super cool!

yes! i love her so much, i pretty much lived there for 2 1/2 years.. had my own door key, i like slept there when no one was home lol, she made me breakfast sometimes. larrissa and kezia were so much fun, always energetic. They were like the family i never had, sigh.
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Old Jul 01, 04
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As I had lived on my own for 4 years, my parents didn't seem to mind me and my gf sleeping in the same bed.

That's changed most recently, but whatever. I don't like bringing people back to my folks' place anyways unless nobody's there.
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Old Jul 01, 04
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i've never been allowed to have boyfriends stay over night at my house, but i'm definatly ok with it. it makes my parents uncomfortable, so if thats how they feel then i'm fine with it. i'm not even allowed to have a boy in my room when my parents are home. i'm 20, and my brother is 23, and the same goes for him too. i think i would feel a little uncomfortable too if my parents were 2 doors away while my boyfriend was in my bed. its different for everyone anywyas....ive never had this problem because most of my boyfriends all lived on their own so i could sleep over there and they wouldn't have a problem with that at all.
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Old Jul 01, 04
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my ex's mom loooves me... i used to stay there all the time...she didnt mind at all... but we went out for 5 years...
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Old Jul 01, 04
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she can sleep at mine, i cant sleep at hers.
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Old Jul 04, 04
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same well with him
lol
no her
buahaha
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Old Jul 10, 04
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hmmm I don't know, i've never brought it up... in the past I usually just end up sleeping over at the guys house.
They're cool with having my guy friends sleep over because they know most of them. But in terms of letting a boyfriend sleep over... i'm really not too sure because I don't think i've been in a long enough relationship where they've been able to meet the guy more than once or twice and just been able to trust that he's a decent guy.
Also, most of my relationships have been very short-term except for the last one but even with that one, we fought most of the time and he was a metrosexual prude.
I'm sure if they know we've been together for a fairly reasonable amount of time and they've gotten to know he's a good guy they'd be fine with it.
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Old Jul 10, 04
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no they dont
.... fucking assholes lol
... they let me have sex in my own room yet he cant sleep over
... WTF IS UP WITH THAT?
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