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All,
I need some whole hearted advice on something, I am affraid I may be in love. There's this boy who I have been friends with for some time now, and we flirt all day long, and we say things 2 each other that we say 2 no other. neither of us have a significant other, so its all open game for us, he knows my feelings towards him (at least he should!) and I think he may feel the same way about me, but my problem is - I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't talk to people or even do work, because whenever I go to do one of these things he is in my mind, and it is to the point where it's driving me nuts, I can not get work done (I work at a call center) because I may be talking to someone and he gets in my mind, and people talk to me like "hello?" "hello?" and I have to profusely apologise or make up some excuse. We have done little things like cuddled, friendly kisses and that kind of thing, but nothing else, so I was thinkig it may be lustfull urges getting to me. But having sex is not what I think about when they are in my mind, it's something much different, and now it is 2 the point where it has become mentally, physically and emotionaly exhausting to me, and now I am at a point where I just do not know what to do am I in love with him? I need some good advice!!! :( THANK YOU!! - Tamara 
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.... jeeesus, I am in a very similar situation.
But as BALIS said, love sucks in the end, lets hope you are not in love, because if he doesent feel the same way about you - then it will crush you, and of course with women being such emotional little creatures from the dark depths of the underworld, knowing he doesent love you back would be absolutely crushing for you. I would say, feel it out and if you still feel the same way in a week - then maybe it's time to step up to the plate.
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This is very exciting for you, i hope it works out.
I wouldn't exactly call it love though. It's young infatuation, puppy love. This is the best because if you already get along really well as friends but develop into a relationship over time, you have a great great relationship ahead of you. Sounds like you really have feelings for him and hopefully he's a nice guy who will return the favour. ahh to be young again.
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A feeling of strong attachment induced by that which delights or commands admiration; pre["e]minent kindness or devotion to another; affection; tenderness; as, the love of brothers and sisters. Especially, devoted attachment to, or tender or passionate affection for, one of the opposite sex. Affection; kind feeling; friendship; strong liking or desire; fondness; good wil. It's also a score of zero in tennis or squash; "it was 40 love" And from the Devils Dictionary: LOVE, n. A temporary insanity curable by marriage or by removal of the patient from the influences under which he incurred the disorder. This disease, like _caries_ and many other ailments, is prevalent only among civilized races living under artificial conditions; barbarous nations breathing pure air and eating simple food enjoy immunity from its ravages. It is sometimes fatal, but more frequently to the physician than to the patient. So, to pointing out "puppy love." I think if your mature enough to have such mature feelings about the opposite sex, then I would not classify everyone in a certain age group to have a "type of love." yaknow? :| I think, if this person takes up so much of your mind, heart, spirit and soul, then you most certainly are on the love boat.
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dont listen to these unhappy sobs.
it sounds to me like you feel like you are in live, but have never experienced it, so you dont know. well, you are the only one that will know. now all you have to do is be honest with this guy so he knows exactly how you feel. you know what happens when you assume. enjoy it eh
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Thank you 4 everyones input!
neoh hahaha, MangoFlavoredWater! puppy love, ya sure maybe, but like neoh said, what really *is* love anyways? you can't just define it into sub-genres I can't just flat out say: YA, I LOVE YOU OK? What if he goes "what do you mean! you barely know me, you cant love me!" I dont know what I would do
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what about a smith & wesson? lol~~!!
BACK ON TOPIC PLEASE
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It's something that strikes you when you least expect it. It's the kind of thing that makes you sit straight up in bed at night, or stop dead in your tracks walking down the street.
If it's love, you know it, you don't need to ask yourself or doubt anything.
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