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Sep 02, 04
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Last summer I sat down with my girlfriend of 3+ years/fiancee/ first love and we mutually decided that it was time to call it quits. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to bear, but after much drinking and mastubating, I finally got over it. You'll still think of him years from now, it's just a matter of how you think of him. Maybe he'll be the guy that "taught you a lot about something (love, yourself, midget basketball)" maybe he'll be "the asshole who broke your heart and turned you into a lesbian" or maybe you'll look at him as a learning/living experience that helped make you into the kickass chick you are today. Either way, you'll survive and what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Trite but true words. In the mean time, if you need some rebound sex to get your mind off things, gimme a ring :)
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Lisa I know exactly how you feel..... right down to the bones. I've been where you are and it hurt like hell..... it hurt for a long time after too. The thing is that I got over it and I learned a lot from the experience....it made me a better person, a stronger person, and I'd dare say a smarter person.
Losing a love is never easy but when you have the support of friends and family who care it sure is a lot easier. My only advice is this: Talk about it, CRY, remember it, cherish it, don't take it for granted, keep your head up. It may be a hard thing to deal with but people always get past these things.
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Sep 03, 04
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*phew*
Good thing I'm not 24 either.
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Sep 03, 04
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Dear Miss Behaviour
You give so much love and yet it truly hurts when that love is not reciprecated back. Please do not fall into a fit of depression as this solves nothing and makes daily duties and resposabilities that much harder. Use this time to focus on you: Your future, Set New Goals Long term and Short Term, Take the time to get to know your friends all over again. With so much to give do not allow this to taint your future. Not all guys are the same and not all relationships will end in such a sad way so stay posative and leave that heart on your sleeve. It's where it belongs!
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those are some good words :)
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I'd give you karma for it if I didnt have to spread it around first.
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FUCKIT! *hugs everyone who responded to this thread or sent me good karma*
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Okay!
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*blushes*
Awwww...I feel the plur.
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Sep 05, 04
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Hey hun, that's too bad to hear...hopefully (and it sounds that way) you've been managing to cope ok...
Just remember, for every door that closes a window opens...so use that window to either flee to somewhere better or push someone out of it! Feel free to msg if U want, U know sleep isn't a part of my vocabulary...
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