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Sep 01, 04
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oh I'd feel soo aweful. it doesn't sound very solid tho. and i feel guilty inviting him out, and stuff... i don't want her to feel bad, cuz i know that feeling it sucks. my boyfriend had soo many little girls crushing on him allll the time, and I was jealous to no end... Oh well. we'll see what happens. 
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Sep 01, 04
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I was always concerned about the age thing. Then I got a boyfriend that was 21 years old, that's a 3.5 year age difference. After a week of hangin out I really didn't notice a difference at all. Maturity levels are more important. Oh and also the sex was great. I can vouch for that fact that age doesn't matter much in that department either!! We aren't together anymore - but that isn't because of the age difference...
Though I think it does make a difference (generally) if you are 20 and the guy is 17 or vice versa because the maturity and experience of a teenager to the 20's is more. But when it comes to the 20's it all starts to become an even playing field. That's my opinion anyway. Age is nothing but a number. If you really like a person don't put a stigma on a number. Pay more attention to the personality traits and compatibility because as we all get older the age matters less and less. Don't discount the options because it seems to be too much right now eh. Think ahead.
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Sep 01, 04
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i've been w/my boi since he was 18 and i was 21. (i'm 23 now) at first i felt wierd about it- he's younger than my friends younger siblings, but we clicked and then it became a non-issue for the most part. some things stand out, and i notice his perpective is sometimes skewed by his age (but hey so it mine!) but in the long run, you don't want to miss out on something great because of a number.
if you hang out, and forget about the age diff. cuz u'r having so much fun, then it's a go! AFTER he is single that is.
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