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Younger Guys.
This has never happened before
Normally, i'm all about the older men, all of my boyfriends have been older then me by at least 2 years. I find myself deathly attracted to a kid younger then me. not by much.. a year and a few months. bit still it feels taboo, a girl liking a younger boy. anyone fallen for someone younger? and felt slightly odd about it? |
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i dated a younger guy once.... ehhhhhhhh. it was ok. the whole taboo thing never came into play because he looked older than me.
the relationship wasnt so grand because of maturity and intelligence level on his part. he just looked real pretty.... |
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this kid looks older then me, alsto his maturey/intelligence isn't a problem he more mature then most people i know. and he's soo man pretty |
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Thats my plan. its always friends first. i mean, i've dated guys older then me, who i've had to babysit. it drove me crazy. This kid seems very together for his age. hes only a year in a few months younger then me. |
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I've dated younger guys before and I also spent three years in a relationship with someone before who was 7 years older than me, and really you can't take these kinds of things as weird or taboo as a whole because each relationship should be different for you.
Once you become an adult, age is about as big of a deal as you really make of it, a lot of times age can do little to indicate maturity, etc. each person is different. |
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and very very *very* well trained. sometimes you just stumble accross a really great guy who is younger, and you can hardly sense the age gap. boys are very easily trained the younger they are :P Don't feel odd, Sweety!!! It's just a number!! go for it!! :) |
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I totaly agree with you |
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dont even worry about his age just go for it and see what happens! |
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everyones like.."hes younger.. ohhh never mind then" I mean, i'm not saying "OMG I LOVE THIS DUED i'm gonna marry him" I don't even think hes sigle at this point in time. but there an undeniable attraction between us. so were just going to be friends.. if something happans, i'm not gonna denie it cuz of his age. |
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exactly. age is a number...why bother dwelling on it if your maturity levels are at the same place...and you really like each other age should have no bearing on considering whether to date him or not. follow your heart....not the age on your birth certificate. i've dated younger guys...i've dated older guys...they've all been mature at times and they've all been stupid at times...then again i've been the same way. as long as they arent like still in highschool and you've been out for a good couple of years...why not?! i mean i do have my limits when it comes to younger guys...anymore than 2 years ...no way... (cause most of the time they are just at a very different place in life than me)... but i would never ever just say no.. it differs with each person |
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have fun! BOYS DO IT ALL THE TIME! GIRLS SHOULD TOO! |
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I don't know how serious they are.. i mean shes younger then him.. and hes younger then me, so... we all know how long rocky teenage angsty realtionships last. I'd never do anything to brake them up... all i can do, is just be there to hang out with. as hard as that is right now. |
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yahh true... i guess it kinda depends on how long they have been going out for... cuz ive been in a relationshionship where some girl 'fell in love' with my bf! worst feeling ever! to this day i still have no repect for her because she definatly knew about me cuz we were friends! its making me mad just thinking about it.. hah but this post is about u hah soo yah go for it when/if they break up.. and maybe he will break up with her for u!
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my last boy friend was a day yournger then me.. I alwyas got for older guys just cause I cna't stand the immaturity! but it's really not that bad...
Right now at work, I have a wee lil'crush on a boy I work with, nothing I'd presue... but I knew he was younger then me.. but when I found out how old he really was.. I felt gross. I dont think I could... just to have so much more experience over some one.. no thanx. |