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Old Aug 31, 04
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Younger Guys.

This has never happened before

Normally, i'm all about the older men, all of my boyfriends have been older then me by at least 2 years.

I find myself deathly attracted to a kid younger then me.
not by much.. a year and a few months.

bit still
it feels taboo, a girl liking a younger boy.

anyone fallen for someone younger? and felt slightly odd about it?
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Old Aug 31, 04
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i dated a younger guy once.... ehhhhhhhh. it was ok. the whole taboo thing never came into play because he looked older than me.
the relationship wasnt so grand because of maturity and intelligence level on his part. he just looked real pretty....
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Old Sep 01, 04
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i dated a younger guy once.... ehhhhhhhh. it was ok. the whole taboo thing never came into play because he looked older than me.
the relationship wasnt so grand because of maturity and intelligence level on his part. he just looked real pretty....

this kid looks older then me, alsto his maturey/intelligence isn't a problem he more mature then most people i know.

and he's soo man pretty
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Old Sep 01, 04
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younger men....come on, you date them older and they are barely at your level of maturity......younger is getting a little babysitter-ish risky.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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I've had two g/f's that were younger than me... and I must say, for me to ever date younger again, they had best be FAWKIN' impressively more mature than I (Not that I don't have my 12 year old moments) But hey, if you like the Guy, I'd say hang around with him for awhile to probe the full depth of his character then make a descision.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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I've had two g/f's that were younger than me... and I must say, for me to ever date younger again, they had best be FAWKIN' impressively more mature than I (Not that I don't have my 12 year old moments) But hey, if you like the Guy, I'd say hang around with him for awhile to probe the full depth of his character then make a descision.

Thats my plan. its always friends first.
i mean, i've dated guys older then me, who i've had to babysit. it drove me crazy.
This kid seems very together for his age. hes only a year in a few months younger then me.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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A year isn't too bad. The best relationship I had was with a Girl 3 months older than me. lol
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Old Sep 01, 04
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I've dated younger guys before and I also spent three years in a relationship with someone before who was 7 years older than me, and really you can't take these kinds of things as weird or taboo as a whole because each relationship should be different for you.

Once you become an adult, age is about as big of a deal as you really make of it, a lot of times age can do little to indicate maturity, etc. each person is different.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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Originally Posted by Discord
This has never happened before

Normally, i'm all about the older men, all of my boyfriends have been older then me by at least 2 years.

I find myself deathly attracted to a kid younger then me.
not by much.. a year and a few months.

bit still
it feels taboo, a girl liking a younger boy.

anyone fallen for someone younger? and felt slightly odd about it?
My boy's 2.4 years younger than me....

and very very *very* well trained.

sometimes you just stumble accross a really great guy who is younger, and you can hardly sense the age gap.

boys are very easily trained the younger they are :P

Don't feel odd, Sweety!!! It's just a number!! go for it!! :)
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Old Sep 01, 04
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i am a couger in training :)
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Old Sep 01, 04
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My boy's 2.4 years younger than me....

and very very *very* well trained.

sometimes you just stumble accross a really great guy who is younger, and you can hardly sense the age gap.

boys are very easily trained the younger they are :P

Don't feel odd, Sweety!!! It's just a number!! go for it!! :)

I totaly agree with you
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Old Sep 01, 04
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trouble.

younger men....come on, you date them older and they are barely at your level of maturity......younger is getting a little babysitter-ish risky.
fuck girls are funny, you all think your so mature YA FUCKING RIGHT ive dating girls that are so fucking immature about everything just thinkin about it makes me sick, and im talkin girls that are older then me, i wish i had some of there little spaz's on tape, the shit they come up with and fight about or wine about is so fucking highschool style pathetic!!!!!

dont even worry about his age just go for it and see what happens!
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Old Sep 01, 04
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dont even worry about his age just go for it and see what happens!
Thats been my thoughts.
everyones like.."hes younger.. ohhh never mind then"

I mean, i'm not saying "OMG I LOVE THIS DUED i'm gonna marry him"

I don't even think hes sigle at this point in time. but there an undeniable attraction between us. so were just going to be friends.. if something happans, i'm not gonna denie it cuz of his age.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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age is irrelavant (well to a point atleast), everyone is different... if you two click then go for it.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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age means nothing to me at all in my social life, i have friends that i party with play hockey with paintball rave ect ect from 16(little bros age) to 27.

GO FOR IT!!!! woot woot!
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Old Sep 01, 04
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age is irrelavant (well to a point atleast), everyone is different... if you two click then go for it.


exactly.

age is a number...why bother dwelling on it

if your maturity levels are at the same place...and you really like each other age should have no bearing on considering whether to date him or not.

follow your heart....not the age on your birth certificate.

i've dated younger guys...i've dated older guys...they've all been mature at times and they've all been stupid at times...then again i've been the same way.


as long as they arent like still in highschool and you've been out for a good couple of years...why not?!


i mean i do have my limits when it comes to younger guys...anymore than 2 years ...no way... (cause most of the time they are just at a very different place in life than me)...

but i would never ever just say no..
it differs with each person
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Old Sep 01, 04
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What Myra said.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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Originally Posted by Discord
This has never happened before

Normally, i'm all about the older men, all of my boyfriends have been older then me by at least 2 years.

I find myself deathly attracted to a kid younger then me.
not by much.. a year and a few months.

bit still
it feels taboo, a girl liking a younger boy.

anyone fallen for someone younger? and felt slightly odd about it?
now, by saying this, im risking sounding old and creepy, aw fawk i'll just say it.... ever boy ive ever dated, gone out with, whatever has always been younger. thats not to say that i havent messed around with older boys .... but that was in MY younger days. i sort of felt that the older ones had some sort of a hidden agenda? i couldnt really trust them. younger boys are sweeter, care more about you, or they've just been like that in my experience. i never found any of them immature, or at least not any more than me... most of them were only a year younger, and one was a whole 3 yrs younger! the gap was huge cause he was 16 and i was 19. yikes i know! but it also didnt seem as bad because it was summer time so he wasnt in school. i have to add in that he was SMOKING hot! (hahah i thought so anyways.) and if they're younger, i guess they have to be! hahaha. no one lasted anything more than a couple of months, except the last boy. he was only 3 months younger and that lasted 3 yrs. thats my piece. ive been liking the younger boys. i say go for it. at least once. but they HAVE to know how old you are. its not cool to lie.

have fun! BOYS DO IT ALL THE TIME! GIRLS SHOULD TOO!
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I don't even think hes sigle at this point in time. but there an undeniable attraction between us. so were just going to be friends.. if something happans, i'm not gonna denie it cuz of his age.[/quote]

WAIT TIL HE IS SINGLE!...
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Old Sep 01, 04
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WAIT TIL HE IS SINGLE!...
for sure.
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good! ur one of the few non whores out there!:)
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Old Sep 01, 04
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good! ur one of the few non whores out there!:)

I don't know how serious they are.. i mean shes younger then him.. and hes younger then me, so... we all know how long rocky teenage angsty realtionships last.

I'd never do anything to brake them up... all i can do, is just be there to hang out with. as hard as that is right now.
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Old Sep 01, 04
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yahh true... i guess it kinda depends on how long they have been going out for... cuz ive been in a relationshionship where some girl 'fell in love' with my bf! worst feeling ever! to this day i still have no repect for her because she definatly knew about me cuz we were friends! its making me mad just thinking about it.. hah but this post is about u hah soo yah go for it when/if they break up.. and maybe he will break up with her for u!
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Old Sep 01, 04
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my last boy friend was a day yournger then me.. I alwyas got for older guys just cause I cna't stand the immaturity! but it's really not that bad...

Right now at work, I have a wee lil'crush on a boy I work with, nothing I'd presue... but I knew he was younger then me.. but when I found out how old he really was.. I felt gross.
I dont think I could... just to have so much more experience over some one.. no thanx.
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I dont think I could... just to have so much more experience over some one.. no thanx.

hahaha no way, school that little bitch!!! youll have fun :)
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