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Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr
Did you ever stop to think that maybe he covered it up because he was afraid of losing the friendship completely? He might have said something to his friends but to you he seems to have respected his boundaries. Maybe he figured it was better to have you as a friend and keep his feelings quiet rather than not have you as a friend at all.
I think your anger is misplaced.
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Dammit. I wish I hadn't given you karma for the other thread now.
This same thing happened to me a few years ago - I acted like I didn't know, we were still friends, and eventually he stopped liking me, realized that I didn't want anything more, and moved on.
It's been, oh, about 5 years now, and we're still good friends.
Basically, my advice is to let it blow over. Just don't lead him on or make ANY sexual comments about the two of you, etc.. If he REALLY cares about you, he will let it go for the sake of the friendship.
Good luck :)
Jan 19, 05
