social scene changing

[PHUNK]

just stop going to clubs. they are for kids.

maybe you are at the point where its time to grow up and be mature.

[ill-esha]

Originally Posted by PHUNK

just stop going to clubs. they are for kids.

maybe you are at the point where its time to grow up and be mature.

music is for EVERYBODY, and usually, performances happen to be at clubs! With the exception of the GM Place-type events.. and well, sorry if being into exclusively Top 40 is what you think being "grown up" is, because those are the only kind of events that happen there. For all of us in the music business - clubs are a venue for us to reach people. You think we make money off selling CDs? Ha ha. I consider myself "grown up" - I've gone through college, am common-law married, and raising 2 stepkids - but yeah, I go to clubs, to check out artists that I like, and to perform as well. Although I guess maybe you didn't go to clubs for the music?

Val is a dedicated music-lover, from what I've seen. She likes to go out to support her friends who play that music, and to hear the music. I think it's pretty damn "grown up" to support, encourage and enjoy the creative arts.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by PHUNK

just stop going to clubs. they are for kids.

maybe you are at the point where its time to grow up and be mature.

okay so what do mature grown ups do for shits and giggles then?

[ebbomega]

We go to clubs.

They're just better than the ones Phunk goes to.

Or you could always just go to a rave and get really high.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

well i do both already so i guess im a mature grown up then or something?

HA! thats funny.

[ebbomega]

Only if you bitch when your parents get mad at you for running up the phone bill.

=p

[Ragga_Wh0re]

does bitching at myself for running up my own phone bill count?

[ebbomega]

No. that's just not spoiled enough. I like my women needy.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

:(</3

[xxViceRoyxx]

Been readin alotta your posts lately, you sound like you need to go through some serious epiphany here, dont be depressed that wont solve anything, when i have so many problems in my life what i do is simple! I just take it easy and not think about it for a little while, you know clear my mind and start when im ready, it kinda sux what youre goin through and dealing with yet enjoy what you have and try to work harder for what you want! Trust me once you get what you work hard for, its like orgasmic! nothing feels better almost!
It sux that you have to deal with your friends like that, but try this, i dated this girl for about 10 months, only to end up finding out on the 10th months that shes cheating on me with my best fucking BEST friend that i had known for 12 years at the time! life sux and bites, all you do is stay strong :)

[Ragga_Wh0re]

^youre way off mark and im not even going to begin to point it out.

so in future...just keep your assumptions to yourself okay sweetheart?:)


thanx.

[xxViceRoyxx]

Originally Posted by ~*goddessa*~

^youre way off mark and im not even going to begin to point it out.

so in future...just keep your assumptions to yourself okay sweetheart?:)


thanx.

Guess i will, sorry if my yapping didnt help, hope u get over your probs soon tho. i guess.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by ~*goddessa*~

^youre way off mark and im not even going to begin to point it out.

so in future...just keep your assumptions to yourself okay sweetheart?:)


thanx.

For what it's worth, I tried to read his post to see whether or not I agree with this statement, but all I managed to do was parse it a couple of words before I'd hit a parse error, my stack would overflow and then some intruder could write some new assembly code of my brain to make me start speaking in tongues and completely subject to suggestion.

Therefore I still don't know if I agree with you.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

the thing is tho,ive worked damn hard for what i have,the friends i have etc etc etc.Nothing was easy,I do enjoy what I have...im just not completely impressed with it at the moment but hey it`ll suffice until things start to shift in my favor again...which will only shift because of my own hand.


can u dig it?!

[xxViceRoyxx]

Originally Posted by ~*goddessa*~

the thing is tho,ive worked damn hard for what i have,the friends i have etc etc etc.Nothing was easy,I do enjoy what I have...im just not completely impressed with it at the moment but hey it`ll suffice until things start to shift in my favor again...which will only shift because of my own hand.


can u dig it?!

wether what i said was off topic or whatever, i just wish you the best and glad that you realise that much, good luck with everything =)

[Mr Ektion]

I'm going through a very similar thing too. For me, when i started losing control of life, I sorta just let go. I let things sort itself out and just stuck to my own thing, and started doing the things that i needed/wanted to do. I call it throwing on the horse-blinders. It's super hard going from super social to not-so social over a short amount of time. So, just keep doing your thing!

I've been smoking a lot of pot to take up time, but that's gotta cut down because I feel that it's the root of my rut. I spin whenever i have free time. For me, It's like meditating and you can totally do it by yourself if you need alone time. You sound like you like to dance, drink and party. Why don't you call up some old friends to get the ball rolling? Or, take a chance on a stranger and do stuff you don't normally do (but with people you think that have similar interests). If all of your former friends were bomb-ass dancers and it took time to find them.. It might take even longer to find people like that again. But it's ok! you have your whole life to figure things out.

Life comes in lulls and ebbs. Take it all in stride dude.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

oh no no! Im still partying like the whore of babylon,just not at the usual places with the usual suspects ya dig?!
Im a social flutterbye,wherever i go i make new friends and make the most of the situation...i just miss dnb is all.
But i got my dnb fix finally last friday and it was a gooder!:D

Not having something for a while made me appreciate it a whole lot more,maybe thats what i needed.

anyways forwerd good luck with the hermit-time;)

[Mr Ektion]

^ You must spread karma, etc. etc .etc.

Thanks for the luck. But this hermit-dom has GOTTA go. I need to go through a hard core partying phase, and i think it's due time. :^)

[Ragga_Wh0re]

thats good to hear,maybe ill trade you for the hermit thing cuz then i could actually get some sleep:)