Sex on the first date?

[Custard]

If i think there will be a second date, no.

[wum]

Originally Posted by MissBehavior

Sex on a first date =/= HIV transmission. Not using condoms = HIV transmission.

Just because someone has sex on a first date doesn't mean that they're going to be stupid and not use protection.

Next thing you're going to try telling us is not to have sex before marriage. To each his own, which also goes with sex on a first date.

But thanks for coming out, kiddo. :)

actually i've read that condoms are only 67% good for blocking AID's

[Haze]

"I'm not a slut! I'm a time saver!!!!" :D

- ë

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

i voted yes cuz ill go home and masterbate and think of whoever i was on a date with...so physically i didnt fuck em but mentally..i had a hay day

[LeeBrat]

umm....NOPE.
i think thats hella slutty (unless thats what yer going for).
but yeah, personally i wouldn't have sex on a first date. i liike to wait. :)

[ty_guy]

Originally Posted by James

whats a Date?

i think it's something along the lines of "wanna come over and watch a movie" but i may be wrong on this.

i wouldn't, shows you got control of yourself. i agree with Nat, to me it'd seem like she's a little slutty. might not be the only guy she does it to on the first date either. there are girls out there who act like the majority of guys. plus teasing is always so much more fun=)

[G3N3R4L]

Originally Posted by ty_guy

i think it's something along the lines of "wanna come over and watch a movie" but i may be wrong on this.

yeah your exactly right... i dont mean the traditional ... dinner / movie / dancing date..

i just mean like spending the time together semi alone for the first time bit... could be any situation really


just a loose term for this example ... ya dig?

[t-skywalker]

i think you know when the time is right... and sex is a plesure, so if you are both feeling all hawtt go for...we were blessed with this beautiful thing called an orgasm and if its on the menu....DAMN dont make me smack you... just do it!!!!

[Cranke65]

Originally Posted by G3N3R4L

i am definately all about trying to keep that butterfly feeling... its awesome..

i love that shit... much more than the first sex, the butterfly feeling is much more rewarding to have longer i feel.

Exactly... everything's exciting when everything's new, so why bother racing into it? I mean, I think everyone has to make up their own minds, but for me, it's just better if it's an expression of something other than lust. Self control can be tricky to deal with, but that flirty "I'm tempted to cross the line" stage right before sex is lotsa' fun too... I think the longer you're anticipating it for, the better it'll be, and the more you'll both want it.

Then fuck like bunnies.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by wum

actually i've read that condoms are only 67% good for blocking AID's

I've read somewhere that 80% of all statistics are made up on the spot.

Was it by chance literature from GAP?

[broken_angel69]

I used to be against sex on the first date, but it all depends on the people and the circumstances. Me and my bf were friends for a long time before we actually started seeing each other so it just felt right when we got together.

Its been about six months and i still get butterflys when i see him across the room. :)

[Bevvy Swift]

i guess im kinda hypocritical, cos i dont turn down sex on the first date (although i dont usually initiate it) but if the girl puts out on the first date, it totally takes the fun out of the chase and i tend to lose interest.

[LastWerd]

first date, usually is WAY to quick. but i tend to not wait too long, i mean if you are thinking about a relationship.. you have to know the sex is gonna be good, LOL. what... its true.
but avoidance of the first date sex, well just dont drink on your first date, it is that simple

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by LastWord

but avoidance of the first date sex, well just dont drink on your first date, it is that simple

good call

[Bevvy Swift]

but im the kida guy that goes for it anyways, just cos that the male instinct. i tend to regret getting it so soon though cos then theres nowhere further to go

[LastWerd]

ya, same. well minus the guy instinct, jsut the human one. MUST REPRODUCE!

Originally Posted by Cheez

but im the kida guy that goes for it anyways, just cos that the male instinct. i tend to regret getting it so soon though cos then theres nowhere further to go

[Bevvy Swift]

i guess. and its girl instinct to find the most handsome, intelligent, capable guy possible so i cant say i blame them for wanting me i guess

[IntakE]

first date?
never had one of those.
if you feel that conection why not?

[Lil Jenna]

^ Exactly

I slept with my ex on our first date and we ended up being together for 2+ yrs.

But now I wouldnt do it. Its too risky... and I havnt been on a date in over 10 months :(

[islandgirl]

i say wait!!!!!

[zarlon]

nope, waited a long time and its been 1 1/2 yrs so far :)

[Prissypants]

whether.u.wait.40.dates.or.1.the.person. is.still.goin'
to.be.the.same.I.say.go.for.it!!!...If.y ou.think.less.of.a.person.for.having.a.s trong.sex.drive.I.kinda.feel.sorry.4.u.. .:(

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by Prissypants

whether.u.wait.40.dates.or.1.the.person. is.still.goin'
to.be.the.same.I.say.go.for.it!!!...If.y ou.think.less.of.a.person.for.having.a.s trong.sex.drive.I.kinda.feel.sorry.4.u.. .:(

those periods made me realise that that is the weirdest post you have ever submitted.

[Prissypants]

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It's.cause.my.keyboard.is.messed...
:(

[crookedking]

it doesn't seem as weird now :(