Sex on the first date?

[Kraig]

I laugh at the various types of classifications or words meaning other things that younger peeps use today.

Case and point "dating." Some people say they are dating someone when they are actually just fucking the person. They just don't want to say, "yeah we're fucking" as it makes them come off as being slutty, etc. and helps them personally accept/feel okay about what they're doing.

The older you get, the more direct and less "classification-based" you get. More so the older you get, the more you are in tune with what you want, when you want it and what you're ready for (a relationship) or not.

Say what you want, but the deed is what it is.

[project.one]

Originally Posted by Kraig

I laugh at the various types of classifications or words meaning other things that younger peeps use today.

Case and point "dating." Some people say they are dating someone when they are actually just fucking the person. They just don't want to say, "yeah we're fucking" as it makes them come off as being slutty, etc. and helps them personally accept/feel okay about what they're doing.

The older you get, the more direct and less "classification-based" you get. More so the older you get, the more you are in tune with what you want, when you want it and what you're ready for (a relationship) or not.

Say what you want, but the deed is what it is.

HAHA THANK YOU!

[heatherness]

i dont see how sex on the first date could make the relationship last or not? its just one aspect of it...

[galaxie]

I think it really depends.
If you've known the person for a long time and it's your first offical date, I say go for it if it feels right. On the other hand, if it's a brand new person, I'd wait awhile to get to know them.

[t-skywalker]

i agree=)^^^

[STORIE]

this is somehting you dont plan....
if theres no chemistry and u dpont get along obviously you wont sleep wiht them...
i would prefer not to sleep with someone on the first date but if it happens bcus it feels right and its in the moment! then i guess your having sex on the first date HAHA

[Play-it-hard]

From my experiances, it doesnt work out, and someone gets hurt in the end.. people need to be more carefull these days, somthing they think may be real, can be the complete opposite.

[G3N3R4L]

whether you do or don't, remember people.. condoms..

because well, Clymidia, and that shit is everywhere.

[tiedye]

Originally Posted by G3N3R4L

because well, Clymidia, and that shit is everywhere.

Male Customer #1: It's too bad Chlamydia has to be a venereal disease. It's such a pleasant-sounding word.

Male Customer #2: Chlamydia?

Male Customer #1: Chlamydia.

Male Customer #2: Chlamydia. I think I might name my daughter Chlamydia.

[Drafted]

or you'll end up with H.A.G.S. (herpes,aids,gonorhea,sypholis)

and you'll only be able to eat pizza and pancakes cause it's the only they can fit under the door.

Originally Posted by G3N3R4L

whether you do or don't, remember people.. condoms..

because well, Clymidia, and that shit is everywhere.

[G3N3R4L]

for reals, don't NOBODY want herpes.


or aids for that matter... well.. except for these people..

they are called bug chasers... and yea... speechless.

http://www.rollingstone.com/news/sto...50/bug_chasers

[Varney Rae]

I think its best to wait a little while atleast simply for the tension and suspense. When theres a build-up its just that much better, especially the first time. Ofcourse it doesnt always happen that way and sometimes you give in and it turns out great. I think it really depends on the person and how quickly they latch on. For many sex=attatchment...which usually ends UGLY.

[Skitzo_Style]

sure i would.

if the attraction is there then yeah, i course i would. but only if she is the one dragging my ass back to her place then ripping my clothes off, not the other way around. i believe that first date sex is something that should be deligated by the woman and not by the man.

[G3N3R4L]

Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

sure i would.

if the attraction is there then yeah, i course i would. but only if she is the one dragging my ass back to her place then ripping my clothes off, not the other way around. i believe that first date sex is something that should be deligated by the woman and not by the man.

you know.. i like that rule...

im kinda sick of always being delegated into making first moves on females. if the girl is down, then for god sakes just jump me.. quit this game bullshit and you take the chance.

/signed

(.... damn this fear of rejection)

:209:

[Skitzo_Style]

it's not fear of rejection (at least it shouldn't be), it's peace of mind knowing that you don't have to feel obligated to (or be put in the position to) make the first move. girls nowadays are alot more "sexually" aggresive than they use to be. so there really is no need to feel bad if you "should have" made the first move, but didn't.

sure you can give strong signals, but in the end it will be up to her weather or not the both of you will be sharing a bed together that night. so why bother worrying about it?

[t-skywalker]

andrews very right=) we are very sexually agressive;) lol

[BongMan]

I'm always down with sex on the first date

[heatherness]

^^^ sweet! so when are you taking me out? hahaha

[G3N3R4L]

^^ its been 2 days.. he's missed his chance.. haha