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Jun 14, 05
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Sex on the first date?
So what are your thoughts on this?
its been said that if you have sex on the first date, the relationship wont last... but what if things are just headed that way? do you just hold off? wait it out... do girls really respect the guy more if he can hold out for some time first? thoughts? opinions? otherwise? 
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Jun 14, 05
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i'll get their number and tell them that i'll call them again.
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There's plenty of things that can be done that have nothing to do with actual penetration. ;)
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Most of the relationships I've been in have started from just being fuck buddies, so yes we had sex on the first date. I think it really depends how you treat it. If you both act like all you want is to fuck and you don't care at all about who the other person is, what they want etc. then for sure it's doomed, but, if you are both feeling each other and it just happens, there's no shame there. It can be exhilerating to comply to your animalistic instincts immediately, and if it's good, you'll be sure to come back for more.
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I think everyone is different ... for me ... sex on the first date is not my thing ... however I have seen some of my friends get married ... from a sex on the first date thing ... so I guess it depends on all the parties involved ... I respect men that respect them selfs and others ... them waiting on sex has nothing to do with it .
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Jun 14, 05
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^id do it with you on the first date :D
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Jun 15, 05
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hehe, hi babe! ;) If two people connect on a mental/physical connection then it wont matter. People who feed me these rules about sex on the first date ruining your chances of another encounter/say the relationship can only be about sex are so wrong...you cannot generalize this stuff. There are way too many exceptions that i know of, which have made me realize you should not say "this is how it goes"... you will know when its just about one thing...and even if you see him three times and on the first two times you dont have sex, it can still just be about that...people can become objectives for other people, sadly, some do people like they do a chess board. make a few swift moves then.. check mate. game over.
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Jun 15, 05
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Jun 15, 05
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big nono for me. even though if it was all to be "meant well" and sparks continue to fly after that first date, id get insecure with myself and question his intentions with me and question if "humps" is the only thing that triggers him to stay with me. why jump the gun for bumps when the first few bases could be just as fun and exhilerating. u only go through the butterfly stage once.
is it really that hard for a guy to just be a nice gentleman on the first date? sheesh.
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Jun 15, 05
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So much for the butterfly days . . . sniff sniff lol
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i am definately all about trying to keep that butterfly feeling... its awesome..
like when you are sitting beside the other person and you accidentally touch hands or something... and then your mind races ... "did she mean to do that?.." i love that shit... much more than the first sex, the butterfly feeling is much more rewarding to have longer i feel. but i suppose it would totally depend on the situation or what we are both looking for at the time... :257:
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Jun 15, 05
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i think it could work if you wanted it to. i don't believe in hard set rules like relationships not working after sex on the first date. that said, everytime i've had sex on the first date, the relationship hasn't worked out. i think that was more about my connection with the girl than the sex though.
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Just because someone has sex on a first date doesn't mean that they're going to be stupid and not use protection. Next thing you're going to try telling us is not to have sex before marriage.  To each his own, which also goes with sex on a first date.But thanks for coming out, kiddo. :)
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Jun 15, 05
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Im indifferent, and it dosnt mean anyhting.
gotta get the white out son! p.s actually i take that back, i dotn particularly like fuckin someone i dont care about however the fact remains that all motha fuckahs need to get the white out. Last edited by SEAN!; Jun 17, 05 at 12:22 AM.
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Jun 15, 05
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I never say never. Usually I dont think its a good idea. Sometimes your caught up in the moment and feels right and blah blah blah...but then it twists everything around. Also I start questioning the guy and what kind of person he is, and personally I enjoy waiting and having all of the passion jazz the first time. It just means more when you wait and truly want to go through with it. On the other hand I have had one experience where it felt so right that I went throuhg with it the first date, and it msot definitly was not a mistake. I guess it can go both ways but I would say usually wait it out.
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