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Jul 30, 05
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oh.
somewhere along the line i came up with the misconception that you were anti-jewish. my bad. /me puts the jew jokes on hold. 
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Jul 30, 05
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i thought they all were? if not openly, then at least they work toward their ends without knowing.
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Jul 30, 05
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haha, i had to reread my post a couple of Times to figure out if i knew what you were typing about.
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Jul 30, 05
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no im sorry but any female thats willing to put up with a guys bullshit like thatt is a fucking doormat...not a nice girl.A nice girl is someone who will put up with your bullshit to an extent but when it becomes excessive she puts you in your fucking place!Well i guess thats more so assertive and according to you and this other fuckhead who made this original post...im guessing "nice girls" arent assertive!!!!! I didnt mis read or miss the point of this whole damned thing...I got the point crystal clear.The author of this drivle is hurt very deeply by said "not nice boys" thus making her uber jaded.She also lets on that she has fierce self esteem problems,holds a grudge,generalizes,stereotypes,hypocrisi zes and the list literally goes on and fucking on. Any half wit would be able to see that and all sources pointing to you NOT being one of them! Im promiscuous so be it,that has little to no relevance to this thread.Oh and beleive it or not but "sluts" are nice girls too sug :)I happen to be one of them,however Im assertive which "nice girls" seem not too be...according to douche#1 and douche#2(you). Now,lets go onto the definition of a friend.A friend calls you on your shit...nuff said.
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Jul 30, 05
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so you're not as racist as we were led to believe?
i think that you are and that apex has made you plurry.
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Jul 30, 05
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Uhm I think said girl who posted this sounds a lil bit more then agitated with these *not so nice boys*,and it does sound like she does compromise herself time and time again...thus swaying on thier judgements and who they are! i think this calls for an...OH SHIT! now sttfu and gtfo :)
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Jul 30, 05
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normally, with those wumish emoticons, you're on the ball!
not today, wum...not today.
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Jul 30, 05
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The way I'm reading it, your description just screams "UGLY NICE GIRLS".
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Jul 30, 05
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I'm not a 'nice girl' but I can't stand a 'nice guy' at all. If I was with a guy who was a total doormat, I'd probably walk all over him. I need someone who can call me on my shit and not let me act like a total brat or princess, like tell me when I'm being a crazy bitch when I'm deserving of it..and stuff.
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Jul 30, 05
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Dude, although I have read that before, somewhere on another site, some of it's true... but it's sorta like girls bitching about being girls and all the shit they have to deal with... it's a part of life, deal with it and move on. Anyways, that's just my opinion, sure take a stand, but ranting and raving about it isn't really going to get anywhere, find a nice guy and then you can say something worth backing up, until then it's just not worth it. Being true to who you are is the main thing and if you're a "nice girl" well that's great, continue being one and it won't give you any regrets in the end because you're confident about where you are. Meh, this is an interesting thread, and WOO hoo for APEX!
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Jul 30, 05
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There's a huge difference between being nice and being an utter pushover with the misconception that subservience will lead to attraction. If you're so spineless that you won't call people on their shit, why would they want to be with you? This post is a prime example.
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Jul 31, 05
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theyres nice guys all around, who arent doormats. But theyre not gonna be the ones all up in yer business to the extreme trying to get in yer nice girl pants right of tha bat. Theyre the ones you refer to as "guy friends" or whatever.
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Jul 31, 05
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Hahahaha what a fucking joke!
Did you not read the post i made JUST BEFORE THIS POST?! this whole rant is about a friend of mine who i have watched over the past six months pretty much have her life ripped out underneath her.. And your right! NOT ALL GUYS ARE like that! I know that! im not stupid! and it said in the original post... Nice GIRLS well it was actually supposed to be about guys... girls... who fucking ever. and yes... people who are "nice" tend to turn into doormats much quicker... because they actually CARE so they do whatever they possibly can to make sure everyone is ok. thank god im a bitch. Slit my wrists? yes... im so emo! Wahhh wahhh wahh... i want to bleed and die. oh fuck off. Quote:
Last edited by pillowstealer; Jul 31, 05 at 10:32 PM.
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Aug 01, 05
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ya im soooo sure people really decide to attempt suicide to show how "emo" or whatever they are to their peers. Seriously now, do you really think its a 'statement' people are trying to make when they are so sick of their lives theyd go and do something like selfmutilation? Hmm, something tells me there are much bigger issues there than outcast kids simply aiming for a certain image wit their peer group. Get real, stupid. Maybe when you get some real problems in your life that trigger serious emotion, you can get off your high horse and quit making fun of suicidal people, fuckin loser.
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Aug 01, 05
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people that are nice are like me...we care until a certain point,then we tell you to go fuck yourself in the rear.People that are nice like me NEVER turn into doormats,ever. People doing whatever they possibly can to make sure everyone/thing is okay...is a people pleasing doormat.Which aint good.I call that the "mom" syndrome,cuz alot of moms are like that,until they have a nervous break down:)
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Aug 01, 05
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perhaps your friend doesnt have the self confidence to approach new people, namely, the countless decent looking "nice guys" out there. give her a makeover or something so she can feel better about herself. (i just got reminded of the family guy episode where meg gets a makeover, it did wonders for her lol)
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Aug 01, 05
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nice people finish last when they let them selves finish last......maybe she's ugly, fat, or even a perfect 10 but if u dont know how to approach people or her personalitlity plain sucks then it is really her fault now isn't it...... i mean there is a point where being anything at all weither it be nice, naughty, slutty or w/e becomes being stupid. And if she thinks because she is the typical "nice" girl it is getting her no where, it is the attitude.
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!!!!! Last edited by -Dubs-; Aug 01, 05 at 03:54 PM.
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Aug 01, 05
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What about us hot nice girls? It sucks for us because hot guys are (generally) assholes and we'd have to compromise looks to get a "nice guy" (therefore forefeitting sexual attraction which IMO is pretty important in a relationship). My problem isn't getting noticed, my problem is getting noticed by "nice guys" who end up being assholes in the end. I'm starting to think that all guys are assholes! Someone tell me how to differentiate between "hot nice guys" and "hot assholes" and I'll be set!
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Aug 07, 05
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Stop saying "nice", for the love of god.
It's like, anybody who can't stand up for themselves and take what they want out of life are therefore nice. I'd like to think I'm a nice guy and I've never really finished last in life. yeah, I've run into some bad patches, made some stupid decisions, hurt some people and just not been considerate in the past. I regret some things I've done but there's squat all I can do about it now except move on and keep going with life, trying my hardest to be as nice as I can be. But apparently I'm not nice because I have actually had successful relationships in the past.
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