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Aug 16, 05
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Why Do People Act Diff.?
*sigh* Why do some people act soooo diff. when their intoxicated/under the influence of chemicals COMPARED to when their sober/normal?
Anyone experience this in the past with your friends? Just a lil disheartning when this person is so luving/caring/fun to be with when their intoxicated/under influence of something but when we talk on the phone or when I do see her once ever so often it's like the complete opposite. :( 
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Aug 16, 05
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I experience this with boys....but it usually means there just shy and i intimidate(sp?) them...as for friends i usually try to avoid the ones who arent consistant with me..i cant take the hot cold situation well....usually means they arent as REAL as you think...at least in my case, with past my experiences...it sucks so much too:(
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Aug 16, 05
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Aug 16, 05
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I'm sorry we were mean to you Peter and made you drink soooo much the other night...But at least you didn't have to do a shot of that asswater...
P.S: You should see the bruises that Tom and Selena got from building jumping...eeek! :) Quote:
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Aug 17, 05
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I know EXACTLY what you mean.
Some people just don't know how to balance it. Like say they're really shy in life... in reality (being sober) and there's this person they really want to be but they're just to shy to be it so when they're under the influence it allows that person to come up. That is just one possible explaination that I can think of and well through personal experience (experience it meaning me), just talk to them and be open about it because they probally don't realise it. Once they do realise it, they are able to work on it and find themselves because it is most likely that they are lost and don't exactly know who they are if they are COMPLETLY different people when they are sober than when they are intoxicated. But yeah just remember though... that being intoxicated is to change your personality somewhat so that is a VERY big factor so yeah they just need to find their balance. AHhh hope I made sense!!!!
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Aug 17, 05
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interesting.
i'm guilty of this on many counts. it's not something i'm proud of either. i find that when i really want to escape reality and get really drunk (smoking weed doesn't have this effect on me), i'll turn into some sort of extreme something. the alcohol just fucks with me and i wake up the next day with my head pounding and with people ignoring me or my friends telling me i was over the top. i guess the self conscience gets to me and i just wanna drink more to not have to worry about that shit for the rest of the night. but when i've got nothing major to worry about and i've got my life in order, drinking doesn't affect me in that way. as for wanting to be this person but not being able to do it sober.. yet you feel like you can do it under the influence.... theres alot of truth in that.
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Aug 17, 05
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I feel your pain, and it goes the other way too. My ex (who was normally sweet and nice) would turn into the biggest asshole everytime he got drunk. He'd spend the whole night being spiteful and saying very mean things to me, all the while trying to belittle anyone else in his path.
...quite sad really. Have you confronted her about it?
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Aug 17, 05
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drugs change people.
if you seriously want consistant people in your life as friends, get away from the drug doers and the booze drinkers. If thats not an option, which probly isnt really (cuz most people i know anyways seem to have vices of som sort). quit bitchin that your boring friends are only fun when theyre doped up. the world aint never been a happy little ball of joy which stays the same. its a great big ever transforming shit tornado that mowes over whatever and whoever the fuck it wants. and everyones gotta deal with it. lots of people deal with it by usin drugs. so accept it kiddo , and be glad that those druggies are even your friends and take time to phone you up or hang out just to bore you to death with their fleeting moments of sobriety. cuz the truth is were all fucked up sometimes, even you ! and if you aint fucked up at least sometimes, yer totally wastin yer time tryin to understand these people that youd never be able (and probly never want to) to really understand.
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Aug 17, 05
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People act different around other people and in different environments.
So I just ignore it usually and if it bothers you that much just tell them you dont like how they are acting and tell them to be themselvs around everyone. Not to change around other people.
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Aug 17, 05
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i act the same around everyone no matter what im on :)
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Aug 17, 05
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That's what intoxicants do. I'm normally fairly quiet when I'm sober... and when I'm drunk. I'm rather more extroverted. :p
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Aug 17, 05
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just tell the person to kindly not talk to you when UI
and then you have to do your part and not deal with them when they are UI.
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Aug 17, 05
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And she gets all fighty like!!! It scares me when she gives me the evil eye and shakes her fist....she's burly... :P
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Aug 17, 05
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Thanks for the input/feedback guy's! :y:
As some of you mentioned...I myself pretty much am who I am when UI...Minus times being sketchy off E. Other than that...I'm pretty much the same when I drink... It's just baffling how she's so fun/luvin/caring towards me when under the UI more recently seeing her @ Apex and I just wished she treated me the same NORMALLY :(. As I do with my friends. Keep in mind we barely see each other/talk rarely due to our busy schedules but we've known each other for like 3+ yrs.
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