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Aug 17, 05
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when you tell people your goin for a goal.
And the person you tell is A) to chicken shit to even think about doin it and B) doesnt have a slice of talent/knowledge in the area and they have the nerve to say, you dont have what it takes or starts talkin like there experts on the matter and you should totally listen to them if you know whats good for you.
im to nice to straight up tell someone to shut the fuck up and get a fucking life but i wanted to :) 
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Aug 17, 05
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I hate people like that.
but that what the vast mojority of people are like, well atleast the people I know. it was like, when I told people I was gonna quit smoking.. they'd just laugh. umm.. yeah thanks for the suport asshole. I dunno, but I'v gotten to the point where I dont tell anyone my goals at all.. I just do it. and when I get there... I'm satisfied cause I got there. then everyone else... is jsut like.. how the fuck did that happen?! People are just too negative... where's the positive energy at, y0?!
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Aug 17, 05
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ya i didnt come out and tell pieface :) he like came up to me and asked what i was doin, which made it even more aggravating.
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Aug 17, 05
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hahaha i was to in shock with this guys attitude, oh well he pissed me off to go even harder so its all good.
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Aug 17, 05
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This is why I don't like telling people what my big goals are until i've at least started to take actions towards getting to that goal.
In my first year of school my gpa was pathetic, and had I told people then that I want to get to Goal "X" at that time, most people would have probably nodded their heads sceptically. Now that I've actualy bumped up my grades significantly my goals are more realistic and I can tell people with more confidence that I want to get to such and such goal. I can kind of understand the other side of the story... Some people make too many goals and never follow-through. It's easy to make big goals but harder to follow through on them. Plus, being young means plans are bound to change often.
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Aug 17, 05
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ya im like 6 years into this one, and im good at it, not to mention i work at it everyday and not half assed either hardcore. so i normally have no problem telling people whats goin on, cept you get the odd cockhead who thinks if he cant do it neither can you.
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Aug 19, 05
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My input on this subject is negative, but I definetly dont consider myself a negative person. Truth is nobody cares about you as much as you do to yourself. When something good happens to you, it doesnt affect people the way it does you, therefore nobody can understand or relate. That's where that saying comes from I guess. You do it because nobody will do it for you. Someone correct me if the saying goes different
Anybody get what im saying?
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Aug 19, 05
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Aug 19, 05
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ultimate goal-- take the belt from matt hughes :)
goal for this year-- get my first legit mma fight under my belt
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Aug 20, 05
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some friends just dont know what to say, especially when yer probly hunting for a certain type of response. If they said "good luck with that", or "i know you can do it because your good at what you do" with an air that they knew what theyre talking about or have some expertise, you probably wouldnt have been so quick to shoot them down for not knowing what theyre talking about.
But ya. im my experiences. personal goals are only something i can really talk about with my immediate family members. Besides the fact that people tend to spout negatitivity when others talk about tryin to better themselves....It just seems like it almost jinxes your goals/plans when you go around tellin everyone what you want to do/or happen with your life when the goals arent exactly within reach yet.
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