Help!!

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

k i have a problem, about 2 months ago i ripped off my bestfriend for 400$ i was on drugs and i admited it and have done everything in my power to pay her back

shes now saying that i owed her 500 and she lied about a check i got in the mail that i turned over to her it was for 260 and she told me it was for 150

i was about to give her another 200 bucks cuz i thought that i still owed her money cuz she lied about the amounts but in reality i only owe her another 34 bucks, she told me straight up that she didnt give a fuck about the other 150 she would take from me cuz she deserved it

i kno what i did was wrong i was messed up and i admited it right away, got in more trouble tryin to get the money then i did spending it, ive been through detox and have almost 60 days clean from the shit..i kno its no excuse and i deal with this shit everyday, but i got a kid and rent, and she lives at home with her parents and dosent have money troubles cuz she always has a back up...

dont really kno what to do i dont want to end this friendship over it but, i dont kno what else i can do, money isnt everything i kno that it just seems like she dosent

thoughts?

[cinist]

first post !

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

Originally Posted by cinist

first post !

ive posted b4, but i was alway a goof
this one is liget

[cinist]

well you've certainly moved past the goof stage, good luck

[~god~]

druggy moms = bad news.

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

Originally Posted by ~god~

druggy moms = bad news.

umm, im clean i go to NA meetings regulary

ignorant comments=bad karma

[Carrie]

if you don't like what comments you get then don't post here.

[~god~]

Originally Posted by PaIniNyErAnUs

umm, im clean i go to NA meetings regulary

ignorant comments=bad karma

if you're going to NA meetings, then good on ya.
But my comment is still well valid.

[neoh]

you owed her $500.

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

Originally Posted by neoh

you owed her $500.

you dont kno what it was over and she owes you 500...and i owe you half of that...this is a completley different matter

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Carrie

if you don't like what comments you get then don't post here.

oh shut up and stop acting like your the resident fnk bitch.

she can post here AND not like the comments if she wants. especially if they are calling her a 'druggy mom' when she's all clean now.

make fun of her if she's on drugs, make fun of her for cleaning up off drugs...you people amaze me in your ignorance sometimes.

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

Originally Posted by Carrie

if you don't like what comments you get then don't post here.

i dont care what comments i get i welcome negative and posotive, i just dont like comments that arnt true, i just corrected him is all and i do agree that druggie moms are bad, i will be forever in debt to my son for what has happend in the past, but the future is more important at this point

[robyn]

So if you were all cracked out at the time isn't it possible that you could be mistaken?

[sidekick]

any way you can check things at the bank. like that cheque she said was for less money...if she cashed it then you can check your statement and see how much it was actually for.

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

any way you can check things at the bank. like that cheque she said was for less money...if she cashed it then you can check your statement and see how much it was actually for.

i already did cuz i didnt want to believe it, i doublechecked it was for the larger amount

[sidekick]

^well if the cheque she cashed was for the larger ammount then you don't owe her any money. what's the problem? if you can print out a bank statement and show it to her then all should be good. you can't lie on a bank statement.

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

i owe her a total of 34$ but the whole problem is that she would have gotten another 150$ and she wouldnt have told me about it, just feelin betrayed, dont really kno what to think i thought her of all ppl would never lie to me about stuff like that..dont wanna dump our friend ship but money is a vice thats for fuckin sure

[sidekick]

well it's kinda tricky because you stole from her in the first place, right? so maybe she feels like she's entitled to some sort of interest charge. and maybe she is. that's something that you guys should work out. i suggest talking to her about it and coming clean about everything that's between you guys with this money issue. that's the only way you can put it behind you and continue being friends (or decide you can't be friends anymore).

[Bevvy Swift]

what jake said. in every way.

[Goat]

if you don't like what comments you get then don't post here.

If the things you have to say are only punitive and negative, shut your face hole.

Big ups for stepping up to the plate about being in the wrong. It wasn't cool but you dealt with it. That takes balls.
Jake is right about the bank statement thing though. Check it out and give her a copy of the statement. If you've paid her what you took and she's demanding more cut your losses and don't get fucked by shystee people.

No one in the world has the right to treat you like a doormat.

[Carrie]

Jake, thanks for the bad karma.

but.. pain, why did you give me good karma with a bad comment?

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

Originally Posted by Carrie

.

but.. pain, why did you give me good karma with a bad comment?

it was a accident

[Carrie]

oh. alright.

maybe next time okay?

[Carrie]

so is your friend still trying to screw you over?

I think you should pay her what you think you owe her and end the friendship

[Carrie]

ps. the answer to your question is no.