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You're being a weiner if you don't say anything to her. Just ASK HER OUT FOR DINNER! I'm sure if you're 'close' with her then you probably know her schedule. Maybe start it off as "I'd like to take you to dinner." If you know she'll be available, throw a time out there. "I'd like to take you to dinner, how does 6pm sound?" Then let it take its natural course. And of course, PAY THE FULL TAB AND TIP. Obviously if she says no to dinner a few times then you have your answer.
Or you could use the direct approach and tell her how you feel. "I need to tell you something <pop the dinner question>". Once done, then be straight up and ask her if she will go out with you. Either she says yes, no or will have to think about it. At least you make your feelings known to her. It does work. BE YOURSELF, BE CONFIDENT, ASK HER! Last edited by Technix; Dec 15, 05 at 02:38 AM. |
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You guys watch to much tv man. Ok, lets say he does ask her to go for dinner, then she says no (every girl/woman knows what dinner with a friend means). All your suggestions are either leading to a positive or negative outcome, there's no in between and that can be a heartache.
Nabs do yourself a favour and look up 'Dave DeAngelo' on a torrent site, download that and listen to a real man giving advice and by real man I mean someone who knows women. I really dislike seeing guys go head over heels over one chick when there's so many out there and not knowing where to turn when they need a hand. Oh well, this gave me an idea for a thread... pm me if youre really interested in how the game works, I got hours and hours of audio and tons of books on the subject. here's a link to a torrent that might be helpful http://isohunt.com/torrents.php?ihq=...lo&ext=&op=and |
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Anyone who says "I KNOW WOMEN!" is full of shit. Not people who know women better than others. He said this guy knows women (which implies he knows how they think, etc.) You're putting words in my mouth. Does that give you a boner? |
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Someone who knows women is a very loose term and I wrote exactly like that.
I dont recall saying that he personally said that, it is only my opinion. I think that you are confusing the words 'knowing' and 'understanding'. Women just like all beings in the animal kingdom have a mechanism they live by, some are aware of it, most just act on instinct. This instinct is called attraction and it goes back hundreds and thousands of years before they invented photoshop and you could make dumb ass avatars that make people have seizures while reading your useless posts. I posted a little tutorial so maybe you can decide on your own if this guys in fact 'knows' women. Some of this stuff most of us already know but it is a confirmation of how it works. David Deangelo - How To Get A Woman'S Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her http://s17.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=2...F1NI30A1YWSC1L Quote:
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oooh how many times have ibeen down that path. if u like her and she dropes hints, go for it. dont worry about her saying no, things being awkward and possibly ruining the friendship, because she will understand. if she doesnt, she wasnt much of a friend in the first place and she isnt worth the time and the effort. things only get weired if you make it weired. one last thing, like bobby said, a lot of people dont like the labels. so just go with the flow, eventually you'll hit the ocean . . . or a water fall. (copyright that shit 2004) lol
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dude!
mannnn just make sure u dont get to be friends. you know friends that just like eachother and go shoppin. never get to anything sexual or romantic. but itd be good to do something other then shopping, like going out for some ice cream or early dinner. and like that guy said get closer sexual start off with a kiss to see if she wanna fuck you too man and "labels" are for shits.
good luck******** |
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Just remember:
if she says no then it means no. It doesn't mean get all clingy and stalky in hopes that she might changes her mind if only she realized how well you guys get along or some shit. If she says no - just move on. If she says "I only see you as a friend" that means no. If she says "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" that also means no. If she says something along the lines of "you're such a good friend, like a brother" then don't even ask. |
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HAHAHAH ya anything she says means NO unless shes yes :) |