How would I do this!

[nabs]

I have never officially asked a girl out before. But this girl in one of my classes is amazing, i talk to her like ive known her all my life. And she is just simply Amazing, ive gotton to know her real good after only about a month. Weve been shopping and stuff togather. We have almost everything in common. But how do i ask her out? Like ask her "out" out? any suggestions?

[Bobby_T]

Some are afraid of labels. You don't need to make the fact that your want to be involved romantically explict. JUst hang out with her as much as you can and each time get closer. If you get too close for her comfort she will let you know. If not, play ball!

[justa~gurl]

^ WERD

i couldn't agree more!

people are so distracted by labels..

[gratia]

just ask her! worked on me ;)

[mindgurl]

aweeeeeeeee. just as herrrrr !!!

[Toxxin Ephekt]

come on.... we aren't in elementary school dude.... unless she's like drop dead smoking hot, then it might get a bit intimidating.... otherwise, Man up!!

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by BoBBy_T

Some are afraid of labels. You don't need to make the fact that your want to be involved romantically explict. JUst hang out with her as much as you can and each time get closer. If you get too close for her comfort she will let you know. If not, play ball!

i disagree with this tactic. unless you want to waste your time and emotional energy on trying to figure out if shes really interested or not, i say make sure to make your intentions clear. ask her out for dinner. she will understand (you dont ask some girl out for dinner if you just want to be friends), and then you will know right away if shes interested trying something more. dont waste your time with the friends bullshit. it honestly only confuses things.

my 2 cents anyways.

[nabs]

well we are close, and she is sending signals. and she is not intimidatingly hot, lol. but she dosent say anything when i get close. she leans on me, and when she laughs she grabs my arm, and she playfully hits me sometimes. if those arent signals. i dont know what that is.

Its just hard. Any more advice?

[miss.myra]

approach-->shove tongue down throat-->ask questions later.

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

approach-->shove tongue down throat-->ask questions later.

that an even faster method! but the possible repercussions arent always worth it. im not a big one for getting slapped.

[Bobby_T]

Originally Posted by Cheez

dont waste your time with the friends bullshit

Good luck finding a meaningful relationship that way. Assuming, of course, that is what this guy is looking for. But if your looking to just have a fling, go with the Cheez-myster.

[Bevvy Swift]

thats the opposite of my experience. the shortest relationshipo i ever had was a week, and we were friends for a year before, as opposed to my longest relationship (6 months), where we basically skipped the friends thing and got right to it.

but everyones different i guess.

[optimum sound]

My favourite topic!!! well, I would suggest making her a cd...WITH SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES!!
Here's the trick, when you record this, you have to speak in the first person.
example: oh I love Nabs (or insert whatever your name is here)
example 2: oh, he's so wonderful
dont record in third person, it wont work that way.
loop the shit out of it and put it in the mix below 20db...
if that fails just tell her how you think you will be friends forever. When girls hear that it messes with them royally.

[Bobby_T]

Originally Posted by Cheez

thats the opposite of my experience. the shortest relationshipo i ever had was a week, and we were friends for a year before, as opposed to my longest relationship (6 months), where we basically skipped the friends thing and got right to it.

but everyones different i guess.

Isn't life complicated!!!...haahah....where is ebbomega with that "follow those who seek truth, but be careful of those who say they have already found it" quote when you need him?

[dabbler]

Originally Posted by optimum sound

My favourite topic!!! well, I would suggest making her a cd...WITH SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES!!
Here's the trick, when you record this, you have to speak in the first person.
example: oh I love Nabs (or insert whatever your name is here)
example 2: oh, he's so wonderful
dont record in third person, it wont work that way.
loop the shit out of it and put it in the mix below 20db...
if that fails just tell her how you think you will be friends forever. When girls hear that it messes with them royally.

yes mixtapes always work...

[miss.myra]

so does being straaaaightforward.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

approach-->shove tongue down throat-->ask questions later.

Oh Myra darling, I just love the way you think! :) hehe

[dabbler]

yes myra, but minus the tongue. i'm with bevan, i would rather not be slapped.

[mojo]

"i want to kiss you eventually"

say it. see facial reaction. proceed.

it works man. then you can figure out what you two are afterwards.

[dabbler]

that's actually not a bad idea. hahaha

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by dabbler

yes myra, but minus the tongue. i'm with bevan, i would rather not be slapped.

yeah you can be straightforward without the tongue, of course.

the thing is, when it comes to being attracted to someone and the possibility of mutual attraction is that one or both parties will probably overanalyze the shit out of everything, trying to pick up on some obvious message that can seem hidden at times. the best thing for both parties is if it's real, just be straight up if it feels right, no games, no guessing, no running the risk of two people trying to read eachother for so long eventually they end up in the 'friendzone' and nothing ever happens.


woooosh!

[C_squared]

Originally Posted by nabs

I have never officially asked a girl out before. But this girl in one of my classes is amazing, i talk to her like ive known her all my life. And she is just simply Amazing, ive gotton to know her real good after only about a month. Weve been shopping and stuff togather. We have almost everything in common. But how do i ask her out? Like ask her "out" out? any suggestions?

dude, just show her your penis... you're home free!

[nabs]

the problem is i dont know what to do. i dont know how to ask her. do i ask her out? or whatt?

[optimum sound]

havent you been reading? show her your weiner, haha. Just ask her out, be casual, fuck dinner, go for a coffee that way theres less pressure...

edit-I had to write casueal the right way, haha

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

invite her on a outing that is romatic..or grab a case off beer and with a evil grin go "wanna come over to my place"