closure

[icey]

I know closure from a relationship is a very personal thing, but I can't help but feel like mine came from another person.
Something tells me that this is unhealthy.
Thoughts?

[brittni]

closer from finding another person or??

[mojo]

not all rebounds are bad news.

[Chewy]

Originally Posted by icey

I know closure from a relationship is a very personal thing, but I can't help but feel like mine came from another person.
Something tells me that this is unhealthy.
Thoughts?

all i know is when i ended my relationship.... Having another person to somewhat fill in the empty time really helped.. Im not saying i used someone to fill in the gap, but sometimes a person comes around that you feel really comfortable with and keeps your mind occupied on other things. What im saying is after my relationship i thought getting over it was gonna be the hardest thing but this other person really helped it out and it went by very fast.

[SWIFTBEATS]

im dowwn with the reboundd

[icey]

Originally Posted by mojo

not all rebounds are bad news.

If the feelings this person has for me are genuine though, the last thing I want to do is be selfish and hurt them for personal gain.
There is a lot of grey when it comes to this situation for me.
I can't really tell at this point if it will turn out to be a rebound or a healthy relationship. And attempting to explain that to the other party is like shooting myself in the foot.

[Tania]

how long ago did u get out of a relationship?

[icey]

Originally Posted by Tania

how long ago did u get out of a relationship?

Just a little over three months.

[mojo]

Originally Posted by icey

And attempting to explain that to the other party is like shooting myself in the foot.

do it anyways. they will find out eventually either way, friend or lover.

good luck stranger

[Tania]

i just got out of a long term relationship a few months back. Its rough, but its gettin better each day.

[Tania]

mojo,I totally agree

[Chewy]

Originally Posted by icey

Just a little over three months.

remember we are all still young and many more encounters will occur in our lives.. Im pretty sure much more difficult issues will arise during your time, bigger decisions must be made..

[justa~gurl]

i'd say be completely honest with the other person.. tell them your situation and that your not sure if you want to get really serious yet.. if they are still down then go for it.. that way your not doing anything wrong, and the other person has fair warning

things will go a lot more smoothly that way

[Lil Jenna]

How long was the relationship you just got out of?

I find that the longer the time your with a person the harder it is to get over them. Sometimes you are stuck with feelings forever and you just cant shake them...

But...

You can always move on even if the feelings are still there. I always stick to the motto "out of sight, out of mind." Just make sure that you dont set yourself up to be hurt. Be honest with the person you are with now and just give it some time to see how everything turns out :) Maybe the person you are with now will treat you better..

I wish you the best of luck.


How has everythign been going so far? Since this post was made a few weeks back..