Turning the page

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

With the new year I've decided to change a few things in my life.

Time to lose friends who bring me down. Its hard when you've been friends forever but in reality..not all friendships are made to last forever. So many people in my life are slowly falling into the 'not so much' category. Whenever I see them..or talk to them..I get annoyed. I need to move on with my life.

Time to really save my money! Why bother working two jobs, seven days a week if I am just going to spend spend spend. Definately demanding the raise I deserve and the hours that I want. More saving, less spending.

Time to tell my boyfriend who's boss!! I lost all power after the first breakup. And I neeeed it back! No more following the leader. Time to tell him whats up.

Time to spend more quality time with family. Especially grandpa.

Wish me luck.

[Silverwinged]

Originally Posted by LLaaUUrrYYn

With the new year I've decided to change a few things in my life.

Time to lose friends who bring me down. Its hard when you've been friends forever but in reality..not all friendships are made to last forever. So many people in my life are slowly falling into the 'not so much' category. Whenever I see them..or talk to them..I get annoyed. I need to move on with my life.

Time to really save my money! Why bother working two jobs, seven days a week if I am just going to spend spend spend. Definately demanding the raise I deserve and the hours that I want. More saving, less spending.

Time to tell my boyfriend who's boss!! I lost all power after the first breakup. And I neeeed it back! No more following the leader. Time to tell him whats up.

Time to spend more quality time with family. Especially grandpa.

Wish me luck.

If your heart is set on these things that you have mentioned, your whole heart, there is no way you can fail.
You don't need luck.
Just be confident and stick to your guns.
You'll be just fine. :)

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by Silverwinged

If your heart is set on these things that you have mentioned, your whole heart, there is no way you can fail.
You don't need luck.
Just be confident and stick to your guns.
You'll be just fine. :)

Yea..im confident that this year will be successful. Its rough letting go of certain things. Thanks ;)

ps- Hopefully we get to meet again so I can show you just how un-miserable I can be!! ;p

[t-skywalker]

aww hugs...i hope it all works out...i too have a very similar feeling towards a few of my "friends" wondering if im just holding onto the past...they arent even the same person i fell to love anymore yet i keep holding on and swallowing my pride

it seems to be something ppl like us with big hearts go thru...sometimes ur friends change and so do u..

with boyfriend thing....never change who "YOU" are....ur a warm wonderful person....xoxoxox

AGAIN....good luck hunny=)

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by t-skywalker

aww hugs...i hope it all works out...i too have a very similar feeling towards a few of my "friends" wondering if im just holding onto the past...they arent even the same person i fell to love anymore yet i keep holding on and swallowing my pride

it seems to be something ppl like us with big hearts go thru...sometimes ur friends change and so do u..

with boyfriend thing....never change who "YOU" are....ur a warm wonderful person....xoxoxox

AGAIN....good luck hunny=)

Thanks Tiff.

Its so weird to grow up with people and then watch as your lives go completely seperate ways...but still you hold onto every little bit of that friendship. I know when its time to let go. And some people sure make it easier to do.

Good luck with your 'friends' <3

[t-skywalker]

^^^^=) `HUGE HUGgggg

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by LLaaUUrrYYn

Time to tell my boyfriend who's boss!! I lost all power after the first breakup. And I neeeed it back! No more following the leader. Time to tell him whats up.

just cutt him off. girls can always get the power back REAL fast by doing that :)

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by hardstylin

just cutt him off. girls can always get the power back REAL fast by doing that :)

Thats rough. But good idea! ;P

[Dr. Seuss]

heh well good luck to ya with all that stuff there in this year.

[Carrie]

paying off debts this year, buying a place of my own.

living life for me and only me.

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by Carrie

paying off debts this year, buying a place of my own.

living life for me and only me.

Those are definately good goals for the year. Good Luck =D

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by hardstylin

just cutt him off. girls can always get the power back REAL fast by doing that :)

lol, if my girl did that to me, i'd threaten to go and meet some old friends of mine.

she'd come crawling back.

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by crookedking

lol, if my girl did that to me, i'd threaten to go and meet some old friends of mine.

she'd come crawling back.

thats pro style :)

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by crookedking

lol, if my girl did that to me, i'd threaten to go and meet some old friends of mine.

she'd come crawling back.

Yea..he'd threaten the same type of thing ;/

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by LLaaUUrrYYn

Yea..he'd threaten the same type of thing ;/

then threatening to cut him off will do you know good. threaten to stop making him sandwiches and other various food items.

because you do make him food, right?

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by crookedking

then threatening to cut him off will do you know good. threaten to stop making him sandwiches and other various food items.

because you do make him food, right?

Ok..I make the BEST paper bag lunches EVER! Everytime he sleeps over I pack his lunch..but im seriously not the type to threaten anything. I am wimpy =/

The best way to gain back the power is to stop being so caring and considerate. My two best and worst traits! He will miss me.

[crookedking]

you can try that, but if it fails, do the food thang. he'll cave.

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by crookedking

you can try that, but if it fails, do the food thang. he'll cave.

I'll definately keep the food card in mind ;D

[mystique]

ah Laur laur, people grow, people change... someone we felt like we were soul mates with at one point, on the same page as, all of a sudden you realize stayed behind three chapters or maybe even has jumped ahead four... The only person you can control is yourself. Everyone has their own path to follow in life!

Time is our most valuable, most precious resource. You learn to choose carefully who you want to share it with.

A hammer is a tool that can either be used to tear things apart or to build them up. Friendships/relationships can be veiwed in the same way "is this relationship building me up and encouraging me in positive ways/ or is it dragging me down in its negativity?"

Its not always easy to walk away from people we have cared about, but when all is said and done if they are having a negative impact on your life, you have to put yourself first and carry on in the right direction for you, wish them the best, hold a special place for them in your heart and maybe one day you will find yourselves on the same page again.

Sounds like you have come to a cross-road type scenario in your life... I hope that all the roads you choose are filled with sunshine and happiness. If you ever need someone to talk with, spend some positive time with/.. watch a movie or coffee.... I would love to hear from you! XOXO

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by LLaaUUrrYYn

Time to tell my boyfriend who's boss!! I lost all power after the first breakup. And I neeeed it back! No more following the leader. Time to tell him whats up.

i hate to break it to you, but your relationship is over.

attitude like that? nobody's fucking boss in a relationship. you're about to turn your relationship into a power struggle. this is exactly how every relationship ends.

everything changes, nothing stays the same
piece by piece it falls apart until all that's left is blame