Bi-sexuality, is it too trendy? - Page 4

miss.myra · #76 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

I don't really think it's a recent trend. Hell, even if you ask some of your parents, when they were in their twenties, in college it was a time to 'experiment', this is what young people do, they try things- dabble in drugs, bisexuality, orgies, travel to exotic places, exist in strange relationships. I don't think that because someone is trying something it makes their interest any less legitimate. A lot of people think it and try it when they're young and it doesn't necessarily carry on to adulthood.

for attention or not, i don't know many people that would kiss someone they weren't attacted to.

sidekick · #77 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

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Originally Posted by Avana

But I don't think the attention ones should call themselves bi, when really they aren't and what they really just like is sex.

but then we just come back to the issue of self-labelling our sexualities. what do you want? some sort of by-the-book categorization of sexualities? that ain't going to happen...because like ryan said sexuality isn't categorical. it isn't something that you can pigeon hole and label and then feel like you are done with it.

you don't want girls who kiss other girls for attention to be called bisexual? but really you don't know what is going on inside their head. are they kissing for only attention, do they feel some real attraction, are they lesbian and too afraid to admit it, are they just horny and drunk?

if a guy is attracted to two girls kissing and you think that's lame...then it's no loss. you didn't want that guy anyway, right?

why do you think all these terms exist: gay, bisexual, open-minded, unsure, queer, lesbian, dyke, homo, butchfem, transgendered, transvestite, transexual...

could it be because sexuality is so fucking weird and strange that it defies labelling?

Asheai · #78 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

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Originally Posted by miss.myra

I don't really think it's a recent trend. Hell, even if you ask some of your parents, when they were in their twenties, in college it was a time to 'experiment', this is what young people do, they try things- dabble in drugs, bisexuality, orgies, travel to exotic places, exist in strange relationships. I don't think that because someone is trying something it makes their interest any less legitimate. A lot of people think it and try it when they're young and it doesn't necessarily carry on to adulthood.

for attention or not, i don't know many people that would kiss someone they weren't attacted to.

personally i dont see any thing wrong with people in college experimenting and labelling themselves bi, but on places like myspace (which this topic started with) the majority of them are young... 12, 13, 14... and that i think is one of the problems - are they even old enough at that age to know what they are?

sidekick · #79 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

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Originally Posted by Asheai

personally i dont see any thing wrong with people in college experimenting and labelling themselves bi, but on places like myspace (which this topic started with) the majority of them are young... 12, 13, 14... and that i think is one of the problems - are they even old enough at that age to know what they are?

then maybe the problem isn't with the 'kids' but with the increasing trend to have kids select their sexuality from a list when they join these 'community' websites.

having anyone select their sexuality from a predetermined list of 3 or 4 choices seems very limiting...and confusing especially when you're just become sexually active.

Gusto · #80 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

^ great point.

diva · #81 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

I agree with gusto...ON EVERYTHING!

:P

barstar · #82 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

down with the bi. but not the cock hating dykes..ps my nuts are huge...

dabbler · #83 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

oh man, thats just asking for a burn...

barstar · #84 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

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oh man, thats just asking for a burn...

shut your mouth you little homo... "Hustling Beats " haha while your hustling beats... im hustling you mom !! FUCK YOU SKINNER

dabbler · #85 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

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Originally Posted by barstar

down with the bi. but not the cock hating dykes..ps my nuts are huge...

your nuts are probably just big in comparison to your small....

baby-phat · #86 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

bwahaha.. dayumn, this thread's goin to hell now. :p

barstar · #87 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

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Originally Posted by dabbler

your nuts are probably just big in comparison to your small....

... ITS SHORT BUT ITS CUTE

ppcock · #88 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

i think this thread is too trendy.

Just cause someone has bi-sexual on their profile in some msg board doesnt actually mean they are. Attention whores.

I cant really give an honest answer, im 100% straight and not involved in that community/culture. I dont think anyone who is not bi-sexual/gay can answer that question.

brittni · #89 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

I think barstars overwhelming display of intellect pretty much sums up the ridiculousness of the questions asked. Let people be who they are and have a chance to find out who they are without all the questioning and second guessing.

and by the way why are so many of you looking at pre teen profiles on the internet lol

barstar · #90 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 06

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Originally Posted by brittni

I think barstars overwhelming display intellect pretty much sums up the ridiculousness of the questions asked. Let people be who they are and have a chance to find out who they are without all the questioning and second guessing.

and by the way why are so many of you looking at pre teen profiles on the internet lol

u sound like a slut lets fuck...........

dabbler · #91 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

you're barking up the wrong kinda tree there mate

Prissypants · #92 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

Girls making out with other girls for attention is so amateur...It is almost an instant loss of interest for me personally...

My first thought usually is: "oh. lesbians. better move on..."

Gusto · #93 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

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My first thought usually is: "oh. lesbians. better move on..."

yeah same here. it definately doesn't make me pursue a girl.

Goat · #94 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

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yeah same here. it definately doesn't make me pursue a girl.

Same. Unless if I'm drunk and figure I can get one to suckle my testis while I pound the other.

It's a 50/50 chance really.

Gusto · #95 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

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Originally Posted by Goat

Same. Unless if I'm drunk and figure I can get one to suckle my testis while I pound the other.

It's a 50/50 chance really.

wow, i never really thought about it that way. is it too late to retract my post?

Goat · #96 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

Nope! Retract away.

Backpeddle like it's goin out of style.

fable · #97 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

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Originally Posted by barstar

u sound like a slut lets fuck...........

easy there hulkamania. Save yourself some tank tops, and fuck off.

barstar · #98 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

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Originally Posted by fable

easy there hulkamania. Save yourself some tank tops, and fuck off.

u can puff me off

barstar · #99 (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

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Originally Posted by gusto

yeah same here. it definately doesn't make me pursue a girl.

your a queer....

Serotonin · #**100** (**permalink**) Jan 14, 06

i think being bi and being bi curious is a whole different story. Ever have a girl bad mouth you to your girl and then try to hit on her? What it comes down to is all girls just want their vag's eaten and girls have less stubble.