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Apr 04, 06
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Yea, I agree with you all for the mostpart. It is simply too hard, especially when the person tells you they want to be friends and then completely ignores you. Its like some kind of perverse torture, i would never expect anyone to endure. I think the best thing to do is to not see or speak with the person for a period of time, the length of which depends on the length of your relationship. People change after a big breakup and somtimes you will find yourself loving the type of person you would not normally want in your life under different circumstances.
Time heals all wounds, so don't go pouring salt in them by reminding yourself of what was. 
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Apr 06, 06
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mash up da place heffmeister, mash up da place !
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Apr 19, 06
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^agreed.
although time dose work wonders. im friends with my ex. we dont hangout all the time but when we do its all good. and when your both active in drum and bass wich is such a small family like scene we know all the same people and see each other at every nite....you cant help but be friends. it just takes time.
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Apr 19, 06
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i will admit though, sometimes i see her in her bathing suit and just want to sex her rotten.
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Apr 19, 06
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My ex from 3 years ago, I just ran into him a few months ago. We haven't talked much at all. I broke his heart :( But we ran into each other and we were happy to see each other. I really wondered if that day would ever come; he was so mad at me. Then he found out I am with someone. He isn't and hasen't really been since me. He was totally in love with me, and it is still hard on him. Another ex, jeez we talk a few times a week! We are great friends, so much alike and prob should never have dated. Our split up killed me back in the day; but I am happy to have him as a friend and want nothing more then that; either does he. It was hard though, so fucking hard. Give your boy time. You WILL be friends in the future.
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May 08, 06
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its been 1/2 a year since my break up with a girl i loved, and i still cant be friends with her. Sure she was one of my best friends, but to be around someone who i had such vivid wonderfull memorys with, who i never wanted be without (dont get me wrong i wasnt a clingy infatuated creep), i was in love. to me thats unconditional. its been a while and ive swallowed the fact that i will never be with her again, i can live with that, but trying to be freinds with her just going to stir up some old feelings that i dont need to linger on. i can understand your boyfriends point of view on you being happy with someone else too, he still has feelings for you and if you cant be happy with him he would rather have you happy with someone else *root word = happy.* im not sure of your situation, but if its anything like mine, i can understand him completey. Last edited by Berzerk; May 08, 06 at 07:58 PM.
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