how do u tell a friend you don't like their personality?

[project.one]

if he doesnt go away.

i have this friend you can call.

he and the organization makes things better.

but ive said enough as it is!










lol
;)

[Ragga_Wh0re]

make it explicity clear that youre a friend.only a true friend would do what youre doing,explain that to him.Stress the fact that youre a friend,point out your own flaws to make him feel less on the spot.Use humor.Bash your own damned self to get your point accross.Make him realize his own faults and appreciate them,discuss how THE BOTH OF YOU can work TOGETHER to resolve his and perhaps even your own issues.

[esoter1c]

Originally Posted by Goat

"Smarten the fuck up!"
If that doesn't work.
Shit in his shoes.

Standard.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by Ragga_Wh0re

make it explicity clear that youre a friend.only a true friend would do what youre doing,explain that to him.Stress the fact that youre a friend,point out your own flaws to make him feel less on the spot.Use humor.Bash your own damned self to get your point accross.Make him realize his own faults and appreciate them,discuss how THE BOTH OF YOU can work TOGETHER to resolve his and perhaps even your own issues.

That'd be sound advice if it weren't for the fact that people like the person she's describing typically aren't very good listeners. It's a good start but failing diplomacy action becomes necessary.

I say next time he tries to come over don't be home. People shouldn't be inviting themselves over to your house without your permission. Especially if they're starting to become a bad guest. If you keep bending to his whim whenever he wants to invite himself over, you're merely training him to think that it's okay.

Silliness,
Dave "Had to kick a friend out of my house at one point. Not for lack of love, really, but simply because it was the only way to deal with it." Leckie