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May 25, 06
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This thread wasnt meant to be a "soppy pussy" thread (BTW guys, i think "sandy vagina" sounds a bit funnier :P ) I was just trying to figure out motives for actions. Not complain about the actions themselves. 
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May 25, 06
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Might it be possible she's still interested in being good friends? You know, coming to you for all the emotional support you gave her when you were together but without the comittment of a relationship? After all, finding someone, anyone, who you can confide your thoughts about things is pretty hard to find, and even if she doesn't feel any attraction towards you, she may still want you around because she can trust you with personal issues. The bigger question then, is whether you want to still be a shoulder to cry on or not.
Mind, she could also just be gloating as well, although I really don't see any reason for it if the two of you seperated on decent terms... It was on decent terms, wasn't it...?
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May 25, 06
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^^ umm no. It was not what we would call "good terms" Its really complicated. We have been through a LOT together. As far as the shoulder to cry on goes... isnt that what her new man is for? This may sound selfish, but why would I want all the crap parts of a relationship so that somone else doesnt have to deal with it? fuck that.
thx though
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May 25, 06
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i dont ..me and my ex have been best friends for four years now since we broke off our 3 year relationship. and my ex b4 that, we still talk too. but im not like most gurls lol=)
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May 25, 06
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you know.. its not ALWAYS the females that do the whole 'torture the ex' thing... I have an exboyfriend who I brokeup with over a YEAR ago, who still emails me almost daily right up untill yesterday. Hes had every chance possible for me to give, and for the last 6 months + I havent responded to him even once. howabout one of you GUYS tell me why some of you do these things?
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May 25, 06
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^^^^^^^^^^^^its cause ur sexy hahahahhahaha....
everyone always want whut they cant have...once they have what they wanted they get bored and move onto the next shinny thing.....hence taking things for granted...if only i could turn back time the things i would change, only to have learned lessons and hope the next relatioship will be wonderful;) ppl try to grasp onto what they have lost our of fear, insecurity, and some because they dont know how to be without someone and content with spending time alone. some ppl need to know they are wanted to get thru life. its when u learn how to love ur self, is when u become ready to share ur life with someone else....so spiritual hey!!!!>>>> i was taught this giggle*
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May 25, 06
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I find women are emotionally competitive more so than men.
That being said, you need to put yourself together right quick. Women who dump your ass want bigger and better things... for some reason I think they like to look back and check in on the ex to see where they've progressed to in life...Also to see your miserable ass still moaping like a little bitch. (It's weird how I've come to this conclusion, but I speak from experience) Lastly, get out more, find a girl that makes your ex look like spent $2 bill. Take the new girl out for dinner, better yet do things w/ your new girl that you never used to do w/ the ex. Then next time the ex she pops up on msn, or you get the random monthly phone call, brag about how much a great time your having. Don't sit around and mope.
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May 25, 06
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^^ true never ..for both female and male ....dont look/act all sad.....get out have fun move on...it kills the other person!!! they want to see u sad...dont let it happen
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May 26, 06
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My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago and last tuesday he decieded that his new girlfriend didnt like that we talked so he told me we couldnt talk for six months. He also told me he loves her and that he thinks their relationship is gonna go far. Why does he need to tell me that??? I really dont want to know!! Obviously i was really upset with him but by this week I had come to terms with it. On tuesday we exchanged our things said our goodbyes which was really hard but i felt cleansed. So today he calls me and goes yeah so she said we can be friends now. We ended up talking on the phone for half an hour about his problems with her. It is so hard to hear him talk about their relationship and he thinks it is alright to talk about there sex problems with me.I feel like he is trying to really rub it in my face that we are over and that he has moved on. He never seems to undestand why i get upset when he talks about this shit with me. I just hate that after I have come to terms with all this shit he calls me again, tells me they are probalby gonna break up because of their problems, tells me he doesnt really love her, and wants me to be there for him. Like he put me through all that shit in a week to make sure i KNEW we were over then he just decides that he wants to keep me in his life.
Last edited by Arrrika; May 26, 06 at 12:29 AM.
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May 26, 06
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May 26, 06
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Yes...
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May 26, 06
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i got an ex I haven't spoken to in damn near over a year and a half. i got nothing against her, but she got pissed off about me making a comment about her new relationship ("I think she probably should have waited a little longer but whatever.... not my problem anymore.") to one of her friends. She got snippy on me over IRC and I haven't heard a thing from her since.
I'd feel bad about it, but the theme of the comment I made was that IT'S NOT MY PROBLEM ANYMORE. She doesn't wanna be a friend, her problem not mine.
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