Fuckers that you cared about and they played games (boys and girls)

[cutienikki]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

Yea its gonna hurt each time but that feeling, god damn that feeling is so good... But like i said what only hurts make you stronger, and if you made mistakes or your ex made mistakes you learn from them and they make you a better person :D

Dont worry Things can only get better :D!

thanks, but the thing is that am i willing to take the risk? or am i done..i mean right now im done i don't want to put myself out there right now because i am hurt....

is there anyone out there who does really want to take it slow and really get to know someone? it just feels like im the only one...

[B-rizzo]

I felt the same after my ex broke it off with me, there was this new girl who immediatly wanted to take my ex's place and i had to tell her no. I dont know really is that sounding like an asshole, saying that "you know im not ready yet i dont want to rush into something else so soon" It's gonna take time, the best advice i can give you is to go out, be with friends, enjoy the extra free time you've been given. The friends thing for sure, They will help you alot through this.




Btw Dr. Phil, Im coming for your job :D

[cutienikki]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

I felt the same after my ex broke it off with me, there was this new girl who immediatly wanted to take my ex's place and i had to tell her no. I dont know really is that sounding like an asshole, saying that "you know im not ready yet i dont want to rush into something else so soon"

ur not an asshole because you were honest and if she didnt understand that then shes stupid because a lot of guys wouldnt say that they would just go for the rebound. I mean im over him but the fact is i cant get over

1) what he did to me
and 2) that i let my guard down and was stupid and fell for his shit...

[impure]

this kind of thing kills me.
it drives me to do crazy things.
dude, don't lie to me.

[zarlon]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

Btw Dr. Phil, Im coming for your job :D

Firstly that was the right thing to do, secondly, Dr Phil can give some damn good advice at times!

[B-rizzo]

Yea i thought it was, but turned out it "hurt her" I dont know, i've always considered myself a nice guy and one to be honest with people even if the truth would hurt them. Sucks though cause nice guys finish last :(


k i've had my emo moment :P

[cutienikki]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

Yea i thought it was, but turned out it "hurt her" I dont know, i've always considered myself a nice guy and one to be honest with people even if the truth would hurt them. Sucks though cause nice guys finish last :(


k i've had my emo moment :P

well its up to her how she wants to take it...if it was me (however i would never try to "replace" me for someones ex) i would rather him be up front and honest and tell me that hes not ready than getting played...

rather have a friendship than nothing and if things happen later then that's awesome

[Sarah...]

ALOT of people out there are very selfish.
Dont become vulnerable to anyone who isn't in it for the Love.
I have dated some ass fucks who didn't appriciate me...
And let me tell you the feeling of becoming stronger from a relationship like that is beautiful...
I am very very careful with who I let in...
Sometimes love can come in disguise as infinatuation...If that happens...get over it and blast
"other fish in the sea" by PHARCYDE....

[Heffy]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

Sucks though cause nice guys finish last :(

Unfortunatly that is true. Don't worry though. The way i see it, karma gets the bitches that do this shit to guys back. You see, a nice guy can only get his heart ripped into confetti so many times. Then he slowly but surely becomes a little more self centered, not in a bad way, but your get a thicker shell so to speak. Before the whole debacle with my ex, i was TOO nice. Now, im still nice, but I wont take shit from chicks, and i certainly dont play their fuckin games.

I've seen some really nice guys turn into women using assholes because they got trampled by a girl.

The funny part is that when the ladies get older, or rather want to finally meet that nice guy, most of them have been fucked over enough times that there are mainly assholes out there. Quite ironic.

[B-rizzo]

Originally Posted by Heffmeister

Unfortunatly that is true. Don't worry though. The way i see it, karma gets the bitches that do this shit to guys back. You see, a nice guy can only get his heart ripped into confetti so many times. Then he slowly but surely becomes a little more self centered, not in a bad way, but your get a thicker shell so to speak. Before the whole debacle with my ex, i was TOO nice. Now, im still nice, but I wont take shit from chicks, and i certainly dont play their fuckin games.

I've seen some really nice guys turn into women using assholes because they got trampled by a girl.

The funny part is that when the ladies get older, or rather want to finally meet that nice guy, most of them have been fucked over enough times that there are mainly assholes out there. Quite ironic.

Totally true, im not worried, as far as im concerned it was her loss if she didnt want to be with me, im hurt but i'll get over it. Sure i miss her and sure she will still have a place in my heart, but The way i see it, You dont know what you got till it's gone, and i already know that she regrets breaking up with me, her best friend told me. But yea The nice guys do finish last, not to try to grab pity from anyone or anything but its true. And yea i also have seen some great guys just become the biggest assholes because they've been hurt, and then they hurt girls. Which sucks cause then they dont trust guys like me hahhaha its a vicious cycle :428:

[Heffy]

^^ pretty much.

Oh well. Just remember that for every girl that treats you like shit because you are a "nice guy" there are about 10 , 5 years from now that will have been jerked around by assholes.