No Sex

STORIE · #1 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

do you think its okay to make someone wait to have sex.. to proove that theey care about you..??????

project.one · #2 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

Yes.

The only thing I see wrong with something like that is that people actually wonder if they are bad or if it IS bad to make someone wait!

wishbone · #3 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

it's ok to wait.

project.one · #4 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by wizzfish

it's ok to wait.

Its more then OK.

I dont think enough girls these days actually do. I think its given out a little too freely these days.

But thats just me!

**sNyx** · #5 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by projectone

Its more then OK.

it's super dooper okee doukee

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Originally Posted by projectone

I dont think enough girls these days actually do. I think its given out a little too freely these days.

hey now don't cockblock the rest of us

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Originally Posted by projectone

But thats just me!

phew.

t-skywalker · #6 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

i actually incourage it. i thinks it mean more when u do it. and builds trust.

wishbone · #7 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

lol myles wins this thread hands down.

project.one · #8 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

haha miles

You must spread some Karma around before giving it to $userinfo[username] again.

baby-phat · #9 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by STORIE

do you think its okay to make someone wait to have sex.. to proove that theey care about you..??????

It's totally ok. And something more girls should really do, imo. :)

Pussy*Kat · #10 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

^^ lol

wishbone · #11 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

hahaha kat stole my response.

t-skywalker · #12 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

^^why are u laughing at angel?

angel i agree ppl should do it more often...when feelings are involved its different...it means something.

tiedye · #13 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

as long as you don't start using it was a weapon.

project.one · #14 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by tiedye

as long as you don't start using it was a weapon.

word!
/hate

t-skywalker · #15 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

hahahahahaha^^^ i assume this is something that has happend to u guys?

project.one · #16 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by t-skywalker

hahahahahaha^^^ i assume this is something that has happend to u guys?

Nothing in particular.

Pussy*Kat · #17 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

^^ girlfriends......

there horrible for this, i personally hate it to

i need my play, just like every other person

girlfriends get pissed off, say there not pissed off, then when you want make up sex they say no cuz they really are pissed off....LIARS

KenJi · #18 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by projectone

Yes.

The only thing I see wrong with something like that is that people actually wonder if they are bad or if it IS bad to make someone wait!

Ya nowdays alot of girls think if they don't have sex with the boy that he will leave them. That shouldn't be how it is if they are in a true relationship.

Note the word *TRUE*

Pussy*Kat · #19 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

^^ this a true statement

my last relationship pretty much ended cuz of that :(

B-rizzo · #20 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

hah true story;

this girl i was seeing thought i didnt want to be with her because the 2nd time she saw me she tried to have sex with me.. i was like jesus its not something i like to give out right away... sorta build up that trust thing like everyones saying... mind you it was 2 weeks or so after a long relationship so that coulda been why i said no.. but none the less, she thought i didnt like her... which turned her into a psycho bitch.......

WOMEN, Cant live with them, cant get off without them.

oh god i so shouldnt have said that :294:

Play-it-hard · #21 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

yeah I like to wait, but somtimes you just get caught up in the moment and just can't say no haha. Why say no to somthing sooo good. I figure you don't really know a person fully until you get them to bed, people can be so different then you ever thought in bed.

tiedye · #22 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by t-skywalker

hahahahahaha^^^ i assume this is something that has happend to u guys?

it's been attempted. I just went without and that pissed her off even more because her little tricks didn't work on me. She was a crazy bitch, and not in the good way.

mapleleaf4ever · #23 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

^ "Fine! You won't put out? That's okay, I've got a subscription to Hustler and some spare time. Talk to me later!"

galaxie · #24 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

I don't see this as being a problem.
If you're scared that they aren't genuine, then you're probably not comfortable having sex with them, and therefore you shouldn't have sex until you are comfortable!

stabmyhead · #25 (**permalink**) Jul 03, 06

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Originally Posted by STORIE

do you think its okay to make someone wait to have sex.. to proove that theey care about you..??????

I think this is kind of a weird way to prove trust, just because someone waits to have sex with you doesn't make them trustworthy. I think if you don't trust how they feel about you, you're probably with the wrong person.