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Old Aug 17, 06
Trying to find a balance
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
B-rizzo is on a distinguished road
Ugh what to do :(

Soooooooo I broke up with my ex the other day and well heres the background on the situation

2 girls.
1 Guy
1 tough choice.

I had 2 girls to choose from, i made my choice. lived with it, lived with the fact the other one didnt like it and i had made my decision. After about a month the other girl (The one i didnt choose) started talking to me again... which was good cause shes really great and i wanted to remain friends with her. This pissed the current girlfriend off. Anyways things from the get-go were kinda rocky between us and i honestly didnt see us lasting long together and what do you know she broke up with me the other day. A little bit before we broke up tho i sorta realized that i wasnt happy with my decision of chosing her and i would prolly be happy with the other girl... but i had made my choice and i wasnt going to break her heart and do that to her. So I stayed and i tried my hardest to make things work but she still broke up with me.

Now the story gets fucked. Talk to the ex earlier tonight and we talked about everything and she basically said to me; "Theres 100% chance we're done" and im fine with that.. and she wants to be apart of my life as a friend and we would do that sorta thing... then she dropped the bomb.

"But if you choose to go out with Danielle then i dont think i can be apart of your life, any other girl im fine with but if you choose her i will say goodbye"

What. The. Fuck. You say you dont want be with me then you pull that shit? I also found out she sorta started to go out with me cause she was jealous that dani may have had me instead.

So now im left with this choice. Be happy with a girl that treats me amazingly (and we're not even going out yet) and lose someone i still want in my life. Or break her heart(Dani's) again just so the ex can have her way?

Sigh... things were just looking up for me too :(
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Old Aug 17, 06
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Join Date: Aug 2005
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Go with Dani. Trust me if shes pulling that shit you do not want her in your life. Your hapiness doesnt matter to her. just the fact that she "won" over the other girl.

Thats my opinion but by the looks of it your ex doesnt give a shit she just wanted to be the girl you chose not the girl that made you happy
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Old Aug 17, 06
Trying to find a balance
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
B-rizzo is on a distinguished road
Your totally right now that i think about it... cause she said "If it was any other girl i wouldnt care, but if its her then goodbye" I just wish there was a way i could have both its just shitty that she would pull this off
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