When you find out your parents want to divorce.

[Cdn_Brdr]

I can speak from experience here... my parents were together until I was 26 or 27 y/o and then WHAM.... splitsville.

I know it sucks, it's wierd and it hurts but honestly after all the dust has settled and you can see that they're both still moving on and living life it's better. Staying together and being miserable is even worse.

You'll get used to it.... it takes a bit but you will.

[LeeBrat]

Im so sorry to hear about this. I wish i could say I know how you feel, but I cant. If you ever need to talk or anything you know where to find me.

[.anya]

My parents split up last year and well, i wish i could say it came as a shock, but I feel like it's one of those things I knew was going to happen. There's no way you can actually prepare yourself for it happening, but once it does I think it's best to just stay out of it. They are the only ones who truly know their situation, and their reasons for splitting up are often more valid than yours for wanting them to stay together. I did not interfere much when the divorce happened, as I found that it was just easier for me to stay unbiased that way. In the end, each of your parents has a right to happiness, and if that doesn't involve them being together, so be it.

[Diamonite]

Divorces blow. I was 10 when mine split up. We had that whole family loving christian thing going on.Then out of nowhere bam cops at the door. Screaming, crying and the whole works. Shitty to hear. The thing I hate is the following years of them dating random people. Talking behind eachothers backs (At least that's how mine went...=S ).