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my significant other influences a lot of my decisions. i think what you mean is that they shouldn't make your decisions for you. there is a lot of give and take in a relationship and you have to realize that you doing e makes her uncomfortable, which is a perfectly valid feeling.
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I fully agree with rawb here ^^
Things I know for sure.
Everybody has a bloody RIGHT to be happy.
If what it takes is for you to be happy is to do E, then I say be honest with yourself, and your addiction to the drug, and be honest with the girl that doesn't want you to do it.
Lying to her is not an option- it just makes the situation worse, because when she finds out what you've been doing behind her back (AND MARK MY WORDS SHE WILL) you'll have QUITE a situation on your hands. You'll be responsible for really hurting somebody who trusted you.
Take a second and think.
You have 2 options. That's what an ultimatum is ALL about.
Choose, and I hope you choose what makes you happy