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Dec 07, 03
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wow, my opinion is so different. maybe i'm just "insecure". Then again, my boyfriend (now my ex) cheated on me, and wanted to go to a strip clubs...it's definitaly a trust issue. My ex was a sack of shit, so maybe that's why i hate the whole idea of strip clubs...
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Dec 07, 03
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i would just suggest going out and having fun with your gfs! go see some male stippers thats always fun and out of control!! :c-tard:
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Dec 07, 03
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^^True. I don't know...I just don't trust men!
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Dec 07, 03
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If you can't trust your boyfriend in a room with a shitload of bouncers who could quite honestly kick his ass if he even went so far as to try to touch the stripper and a couple naked women, how the fuck can you trust him to walk down the street at night when there's a shitload of hookers just dying to get in his pants? or go out to a club when there's a possibility that if he tried, he could play the mack daddy and get play that night?
Seriously. Get over it. Have a "look but no touch" policy and just leave it at that. Fuck, the number of times my girlfriend has been distracted by cute girls almost supercedes the number of times I have..
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Dec 07, 03
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yeah, it seems more like a trust issue.
if he wants to have a guys night out, let him. you can't say you've never had a girls night out before. i definately have, it's just something we do. you don't always need to be with your s.o. i don't see anything wrong with the hotel afterwards, but i don't know the guys. seems more to me like they wanna have fun, get hammered and celebrate his birthday without the worry of designated drivers and getting home and what not.
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Dec 07, 03
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If I had a girlfriend and she ever wanted to have a girls night out and no guys bla bla bla bla bla fine with me I woul just go get shitfaced find some random party like always and go home and have a wonderful drunkn sleep..
You should have no worries about ur boyfriend goin out to a stripclub without ya.. The Hotel thing well what selfe respecting guy would wanna fuck around with a dirty diseased hooker when they have sombody else to come home to.. Just call him and tell him u will wear some secsy underwears :kam:
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Dec 07, 03
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I agree that he deserves a night out, but it's way unfair that he doesn't trust you with other men. You should turn the tables a little and take the opportunity to go to a male strip club!
Maybe it'll knock some sense into him about how you could possibly feel threatened by the whole thing and you can have some fun while you're at it :)
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Dec 08, 03
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a night out with the boys often gets blown up in the eyes of the partner that can not come out. Every activity and ewvery celebration does not have to be together -- And sometimes a NO partners event is just a chance for the guys to act like guys without having to worry about pffending their ladies - Let him out to hoot and holler unabashedly, drink without concern and maybe even touch a fake boobie.
the fact that he gets all puffy if you would want to do the same, or hat he can't handle you dancing with others ..shows his insecurity. You can't make him more secure, that's something he is going to have to work on himself. If you love him, or want to be with him, then lead by example and show him your trust. And let him know in the future you'll expect the same treatment.
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Dec 08, 03
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DONT LISTEN TO THESE PEOPLE.
I WENT TO A STRIP CLUB ONCE WITH MY BUDS AND MY GIRL TRUSTED ME AND I ENDED UP FUCKING 7 CHICKS (AND 2 DUDES BY MISTAKE LOL (LONG STORY IM TOTALY NOT GAY)). IT WAS ALL CUZ I WAS DRUNK AND THERE WAS NO OVERBEARING NEEDY GIRLFRIEND TO WATCH OVER ME. THATS THE WAY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS WORK. ANYWAYS, IN THE END I DIDN'T TELL HER BUT IT CAST A SHADOW OVER THE RELATIONSHIP,. RESULT: I STOPPED LOVING HER AND GOT ADDICTED TO POT. MORAL: STRIPCLUBS ARE WHERE DUDES GO TO MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE AND GET FREE SEX.
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Dec 08, 03
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^^What does that have to do with ur addiction to pot?
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Dec 08, 03
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Did I miss something? I didn't read anything about him not "allowing" her to have girl only nights... or did I?
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Dec 08, 03
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LOL @ rawbs posts
by the way: "(LONG STORY IM TOTALY NOT GAY)"... anyone else see the irony here as for this thread, you need to be more trusting, youre probably just imagining the worst that could happen, and turning a guys night out into a "who can fuck the most strippers tonight" contest
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Dec 09, 03
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men arn't to be trusten in my opionion, which is different then everybody elses. Fucking guys :finger:
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Dec 09, 03
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if my bf went to a strip club thats ok, but as long as hes carefull.. they are sneaky muther fuckers! i had a bf once and they did 'stuph' ... and it all depends on who he goes with..... and how much hes had to drink.. he could be spending the money he spends on the stripper ON ME damnit!
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Dec 09, 03
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the reason they are having a boys night out is because you are clearly the type of girlfriend that is a hassle. ie: calling him every 5 minutes when it's his fuckin birthday. gettin all drama queen on this guy. his buddies wanna go party OLD SCHOOL. ie: no ball and chain.
boom shakalaka boom shakalaka boom shakalaka boom.
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