Boyfriends and Stripclubs - Page 3

Aki · #51 (**permalink**) Dec 09, 03

you're freaking out because you don't want your boyfriend to go to a strip club?
i'd actually suggest that for my boyfriends birthday and when we got there i'd buy him a lap dance. seriously here, if you and your boyfriend have built trust in your relationship you have nothing to worry about.

kandy kid · #52 (**permalink**) Dec 09, 03

I wouldn't care if my bf went to a strip club. But I would kinda be upset that he didn't want to spend his birthday with me. But it's his birthday I guess! Actually it'd be more mandatory that he was at mine than the other way around meh..

Kalypso · #53 (**permalink**) Dec 10, 03

Who said I was freaking out....It's not like I've told him that he can't go out with his friends or like I've gotten hella pissed off at him...Hell I've told him I'm okay with it and I expect him to be okay with me doing the same thing.

I was just posting up in here to see what other people thought of the situation. No need for some of you to be lashing out at me like I've done something wrong by wanting to hear other opinions on the matter. I wasn't asking for you to tell me whether or not I'm a "trusting" or "insecure" girlfriend or "a hassel" of a girlfriend. I was asking what you thought about "boyfriends going to stripclubs"

I'm very comfortable in my relationship and I love and trust my boyfriend. Hence why I was fine with him going that's all there is to it. I may have some issues and see things diferently than some of you other people but that's no reason to be hostile towards me or to frown upon my point of view or anybody elses. Everyone's intitled to their own opinions and just because you feel yours is a good opinion gives you no right no slam on somebody elses. Werd I'm outties.

ebbomega · #54 (**permalink**) Dec 10, 03

Backpedalling. What a great thing.

mugsy · #55 (**permalink**) Dec 10, 03

if you feel that way then dont post a question like this on a message board... get outa the kitchen if you cant handle the heat. everyone merely gave their opinions.... and now you say they cant have them?
tsk tsk.
what did you expect anyways?

rawb · #56 (**permalink**) Oct 27, 06

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Originally Posted by rawb

DONT LISTEN TO THESE PEOPLE.

I WENT TO A STRIP CLUB ONCE WITH MY BUDS AND MY GIRL TRUSTED ME AND I ENDED UP FUCKING 7 CHICKS (AND 2 DUDES BY MISTAKE LOL (LONG STORY IM TOTALY NOT GAY)). IT WAS ALL CUZ I WAS DRUNK AND THERE WAS NO OVERBEARING NEEDY GIRLFRIEND TO WATCH OVER ME. THATS THE WAY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS WORK.

ANYWAYS, IN THE END I DIDN'T TELL HER BUT IT CAST A SHADOW OVER THE RELATIONSHIP,.

RESULT: I STOPPED LOVING HER AND GOT ADDICTED TO POT.

MORAL: STRIPCLUBS ARE WHERE DUDES GO TO MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE AND GET FREE SEX.

NEVER FORGET

Gusto · #57 (**permalink**) Oct 27, 06

this one time i was at a stripclub and got raped by a dude (rawb).

crookedking · #58 (**permalink**) Oct 27, 06

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Originally Posted by Kalypso

GOTTA QUESTION FOR YOU LADIES OUT THERE..... If your boyfriend is invited to go to a stripclub with all of his guyfriends for his birthday celebration and you know that all the other girlfriends involved with the guys have all been told that they are absolutely not allowed to come (this includes you) do you think you have a right to feel upset and/or threatened by this news?

(Note that you have been let know by inside sources that he will be receiving lapdances and he will be VERY VERY drunk.)

I told my boyfriend that I would be more cool with it if I were there to join in the festivities but the fact that I know his friends and I know how they treat their girlfriends has me worried that I'm going to hear about some very nasty goings-on after tonight. He doesn't understand why I feel the way I do (jealous and upset) and thinks I should be cool with it. But he also gets jealous and mad at me if I talk to other guys at the bar or dance with girls (and I don't even bump & grind) It seems he is setting a double standard and I just want to know what you other ladies think.....and you guys as well.

stop controlling his Life.

edit-i just saw that this is several years old.

2nd edit-i'd be ok with my gf buying me a lapdance, but i'd never buy her one. THAT'S RIGHT! I'M AN "INSECURE" ASSHOLE!

shebavpg · #59 (**permalink**) Oct 27, 06

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Originally Posted by rawb

NEVER FORGET

:330: are you fucking serious lol

onefour · #60 (**permalink**) Oct 30, 06

break up with him right now, with trust issues like this it isnt going too last anyways. stop wasting your time :)

prozac · #61 (**permalink**) Oct 30, 06

LOL. I'll never have to face this question because I know my bf is way too stingy to pay for a lapdance.

CodaDrummer · #62 (**permalink**) Oct 30, 06

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Originally Posted by Hot Karl

the reason they are having a boys night out is because you are clearly the type of girlfriend that is a hassle. ie: calling him every 5 minutes when it's his fuckin birthday. gettin all drama queen on this guy. his buddies wanna go party OLD SCHOOL. ie: no ball and chain.

boom shakalaka boom shakalaka boom shakalaka boom.

Karma... Fuckin Karma!

PwInCeSs · #63 (**permalink**) Oct 30, 06

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Originally Posted by prozac

LOL. I'll never have to face this question because I know my bf is way too stingy to pay for a lapdance.

haha
thats awesome