EX-Boyfriends

[klockwize]

Originally posted by axion


he's obviously worried something happening between his girlfriend and this other guy, so im just telling him that instead of worrying about it so much he should just change the way he looks at the situation. its not a test just a change of perspective.

understandable.......but i just think you shouldnt need to be tested like that in relationships

alls im sayin is......check her, cuz i know how it feels i just went through that shit,(probly why im so touchy on it)

im not sayin guys are saints either girls, but in this paticular situation, this gurl needs to know what she wants, cuz come on people, havin an ex hang around, even some times is pretty shitty

[cerah]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize
first of all cerah...........are you blind......its her EX BOYFRIEND!

OMFG did you even read what I had to post?

paranoid??.....i dont think so,

I beg to differ... but whatever to each their own opinion right?

your saying that if your "new" b/f started hanging with his old g/f then went v-day shopping with her, you wouldnt get alittle curious??

Sure I'd get a lil curios... wondering if he was buying me something.

and if its a new relationship, i dont think there is goin to be THAT much trust and loyalty yet, im speaking for this guy in his situation, not your lame sex life self

Why get involved with someone if you don't trust them or if you don't think you can be loyal to them? That's just fucking retarded. Oh and as for my "lame sex life" I get fucked on a very regular basis and probably scream more then your mom getting fucked up the ass by a donkey.

more often then not, if you start hanging with your ex's there is still somthing there, YOU LEFT THAT PERSON FOR A REASON, ......DIDNT YOU?? UHH YEAH!! but now there is all this special "ex" time you have to fit in the relationship??

Something there... meaning you still care for them like a friend... hell fucking yes. Something there meaning you still have romantic feelings for then... sure that happens too. Again I've gotta ask... did you read my post at all??

Sure when you break up with someone there's a reason. Be it bad timing... the realization that you don't see yourself spending eternity with them... or so on it doesn't negate the fact that at one point in time you cared deeply for said person and therefore they shouldn't be cast aside so carelessly. If you can remain good friends I think that's amazing b/c there are few people in the world who will ever know you as well as a significant other will. I also realize that at sometimes people do end relationships on very bad terms and therefore wish not to be a part of that persons life anymore... but that's THEIR decision to make NOT their new boy/girlfriends.

shes a slutty,......can i be next??

So by your theory I'm a slut and so are all the other girls that try to establish & maintain friendships with people they care for. Damn I must be the uber whore then because I put a lot of effort into my friendships.

[klockwize]

your a fiesty one aint ya!

listen all im sayin is the world is not perfect, realtion ship dont end as youve explained all the time, some people just like to fuck thier exs.....with no regard to thier current relation ship

as for my mom, how the hell do you know what she sounds like being done by a donkey?

thats good that you get fucked on the regular, you must be good, can i try??

[klockwize]

not to be an ass, but if you put that much trust in to a new relationship, your probly being cheated on right now!.....some peeps do that kinda shit

[axion]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize

alls im sayin is......check her, cuz i know how it feels i just went through that shit,(probly why im so touchy on it)

i've been through it before too, its a shitty situation but as cheesy as it sounds you gotta learn something from it or its gonna keep happening again and again...

theres no need to check your girl, let her do her own thing and hang out with this guy. if she cheats then it wasnt ment to be, and then you have an actual valid reason to kick her skank ass to the curb.

[cerah]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize
your a fiesty one aint ya!

listen all im sayin is the world is not perfect, realtion ship dont end as youve explained all the time, some people just like to fuck thier exs.....with no regard to thier current relation ship

as for my mom, how the hell do you know what she sounds like being done by a donkey?

thats good that you get fucked on the regular, you must be good, can i try??

Yes I am fiesty =)

I agree that the world isn't perfect as I've seen it all too often but whereas you chose the negative and paranoid side of things I chose to be a little bit more understanding and open minded. Why make everything seem like lies and deceit when more often then not there most likely isn't any.

So you got hurt in your last relationship... that doesn't mean EVERY girl out there is going to hurt you or anyone else... it just means you got stuck in a shitty situation and such is life.

Slandering a girl you don't even know... demeaning a relationship you have no idea outside of what MAx has said about it... and instilling paranoid delusions into his mind is no way to go about life IMO.

Oh and as for me being good in bed... yes I am... extremely (and no that isn't ego talking) and no you can't.

[klockwize]

Originally posted by axion


i've been through it before too, its a shitty situation but as cheesy as it sounds you gotta learn something from it or its gonna keep happening again and again...

theres no need to check your girl, let her do her own thing and hang out with this guy. if she cheats then it wasnt ment to be, and then you have an actual valid reason to kick her skank ass to the curb.

its just the thought of them spending time by themselfs that bothers me, them bein all alone,then look into eachothers eyes,then theres the soft kiss and then just start humping!.........i can picture it in my head

i agree with you axion, but the whole "let her hang out" doesnt work for me!if your with me, your with me.........either you know or you dont, simple as that

[klockwize]

Originally posted by cerah
Oh and as for me being good in bed... yes I am... extremely (and no that isn't ego talking) and no you can't.

good to hear

we obviously have different opinions, and im not triin to start beef, i just have liitle tolerence for ex's, if your with me, you shouldnt need to see your ex, thats just wrong

everyone knows that you cant be friends with your ex's, it just doesnt work, and if it does, it works for a while, then slowly disinagrates, or you end up just fucking again,

but thats my piece, max, i hope youve leanrd sumthin bro

[MistressSpankME]

LAME

some of you sound like the CHILDREN in elementary school that would giggle and insist that two people were getting it on just because they were a male and a female in a room together. Grow up.

I've met and become friends with some (well one, haven't had the chance to meet any others) of his ex's and vice versa. The relationship was over for a reason and there is absolutely nothing wrong with someone still being friends with their ex's. The ex's I've stayed friends with mean alot to me, as do my boy so it's only natural to stay friends with the person in the first place, and want two important people in your life to meet and get along. How is that so hard to understand?

I can see people being a little uncomfortable with the fact at first, but if you can trust your other half (which you should if you are in a relationship together), and are mature enough to know that boys and girls can be friends even if they were more in the past, then there should be no problem at all.

And I must be from another planet, because I am not one of those people who "know" you can't be friends with ex's. Yes, i've had bumpy times adjusting to being just friends with someone very important in my life, but he is just that, VERY important to me and we do just fine being friends and nothing else. Then again it helps if you were friends before the relationship, and don't have the mentality of a 12 year old.

[klockwize]

Originally posted by MistressSpankME
I can see people being a little uncomfortable with the fact at first, but if you can trust your other half (which you should if you are in a relationship together), and are mature enough to know that boys and girls can be friends even if they were more in the past, then there should be no problem at all.

a little uncomfortable?....this all started about this chick going v-day shopping with an ex, and the new relation shipo was well..........."new"........that would be REALLY sketchy to me

but im a dumb male that is almost 21 in elementry right?

im sure alot of peeps can agree with me as well

sure it might work for some, but i havent seen it yet

[cerah]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize

we obviously have different opinions, and im not triin to start beef, i just have liitle tolerence for ex's, if your with me, you shouldnt need to see your ex, thats just wrong

Why shouldn't you need to see your ex? Maybe God forbid she just wants to chill with the guy AS A FRIEND. Maybe they're a good person... someone you like chillin with... you have fun being around and you don't intend on fucking them. Not every relationship in this world revolves around getting off.

You make it sound like you're an incredibly controlling boyfriend... someone I dearly hope a friend of mine or myself would ever get involved with. Controlling who your girl sees... that's just fucking idiotic.

everyone knows that you cant be friends with your ex's, it just doesnt work, and if it does, it works for a while, then slowly disinagrates, or you end up just fucking again,

Everyone eh? Well yet again I beg to differ. I've somehow managed to stay incredibly good first w/my first love even though we haven't been together for four years and I'm friends with another ex I haven't been with for over a year. I must be a freak eh? Able to maintain realtionships with people I used to sleep with and NOT fuck them again... I'm straaaaaange.

*rolls eyes*

You really need to stop worrying because if anything THAT will drive a girl away and make things worse (same goes for boys you jealous girls)

[cerah]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize


but im a dumb male that is almost 21 in elementry right?

Physical age has absolutely nothing to do with your psychological age... as you have proven to us all today.

[MistressSpankME]

AAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH I just read the rest of this thread and almost broke my ass laughing.

CERAH and a LAME SEX LIFE that is theeee funniest thing I have heard in a decade.


Mr. klockwize, I don't give a fuck how old you are. I've met people in their 70's that still talk, act, think like little children.
The fact that you are even more freaked out because of their valentines day shopping trip is completely ridiculous. THEYA RE GOING SHOPPING, most likely for their significant others. Not for eachother, and she isn't ditching her boy to spend "THE DAY" with her ex or anything now is she? She is just fucking shopping. would you feel better about it if they were going groundhog day shopping? You make no fucking sense buddy. Just because you had some scandalous chick fuck you around by the sounds of things, doesn't mean every girl on earth "can;t" JUST be friends with their exes.

[M.S.K.P.]

What would you buy on groundhog day?

[MistressSpankME]

YOU'RE A FREAK CERAH

not sleeping with your ex boyfriends, maaan what is wrong with you? You need professional help NOW!)(#&@*#^!@)&!@

[klockwize]

to an extent i am controlling, when i feel i should be......if i have reson to belive or otherwise think that she is cheating i will do what i can to find out or just move along

if a relationship is new, it is pretty stupid of either of the people to hang with thier exs, that just brings bad vibes to the relationship.

im glad youve managed to stay friends with your former parnters ...good for you!.......for me its not that simple, im not paranoid, ......far from, just dont like the whole idea of exs in a new relationship

we have different opinions, i told ya i dont want beef, but if you insist..............

[MistressSpankME]

Originally posted by M.S.K.P.
What would you buy on groundhog day?

I don't know, but as long as it's not related to love or sex then that means they aren't fucking behind their b/f and g/f's backs.

[cerah]

I know *sobs* please help me Jenna... I don't know what I'll do if I stay with my boy and never ever sleep with my ex's.

Oh no... wait... I do... I'LL HAVE MEANINGFULL TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS!

[Wood]

^dude, you need to have TRUST in a relationship - meaning, even though you recognize the possibility that you could be cheated on, you bestow your trust in that person because you care about them and you'd want them to feel that they could trust you as well. So you put aside your feelings of jealosy and give that person the freedom to associate with whomever they like. and if they don't return that trust, then at least you can move ahead knowing that you didn't ruin a potentially good relationship by being a jealous asswipe. A relationship without trust is doomed to fail.

if you really think your gf is never going to associate with any male human other than you, you have another thing coming. Personally i'd be more concerned about someone new, than an ex who they've already broken up with, already 'been there done that'.

[klockwize]

Originally posted by MistressSpankME
AAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH I just read the rest of this thread and almost broke my ass laughing.

CERAH and a LAME SEX LIFE that is theeee funniest thing I have heard in a decade.


Mr. klockwize, I don't give a fuck how old you are. I've met people in their 70's that still talk, act, think like little children.
The fact that you are even more freaked out because of their valentines day shopping trip is completely ridiculous. THEYA RE GOING SHOPPING, most likely for their significant others. Not for eachother, and she isn't ditching her boy to spend "THE DAY" with her ex or anything now is she? She is just fucking shopping. would you feel better about it if they were going groundhog day shopping? You make no fucking sense buddy. Just because you had some scandalous chick fuck you around by the sounds of things, doesn't mean every girl on earth "can;t" JUST be friends with their exes.

aiight, say what you will, but i think i speak for alot of peeps

[mugsy]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize


if your with me, your with me.........either you know or you dont, simple as that

that is absolutey rediculous.
if any guy, no matter how great the relationship was, ever EVER told me i couldnt hang out with my guys friends, it would be over. if he had mixed feelings about them, and he told me, i would do what i could to make him more comfertable with the situation, but i wouldnt go as far as having m boyfriend be my only male friend.

jsut because some girl left your sorry cranky ass doesnt mean that every girl out there is gonna do the same thing.

and no trust shouldnt happen right away in a relationship, trust takes a long loooong time (in my books) to be established. (but im talking full trust here, put my heart on a silver platter trust)

mr. dj klockwize, you say you are 21, i know 18 year old BOYS who know more about women then you do.

GIRLS AND BOYS CAN BE FRIENDS. there is absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with ex's.... yes it is an uncomfertable situation, im not denying that, yes personally i would feel extremely jealous, however, if i am with a guy i would have enough trust in myself and him that he would not do something with her. if there is true doubt in my mind that he would act, then i would analyze my situation. BUT OF COURSE IT WILL MAKE ME UNCOMFERTABLE. its human nature to be jealous, it shows you care. personally i would normally keep the jealous thoughts to myself, and realize that im just being a horomonal girl, and if it really bothers me, id bring it up.

klockwize, let go of the rim of your anus so you fuckin get your head out of your ass, ok?

[cerah]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize
to an extent i am controlling, when i feel i should be......if i have reson to belive or otherwise think that she is cheating i will do what i can to find out or just move along

if a relationship is new, it is pretty stupid of either of the people to hang with thier exs, that just brings bad vibes to the relationship.

im glad youve managed to stay friends with your former parnters ...good for you!.......for me its not that simple, im not paranoid, ......far from, just dont like the whole idea of exs in a new relationship

we have different opinions, i told ya i dont want beef, but if you insist..............

So you're going to sneak around and spy on your new girl?? That's even better!!

I'm not bring up "beef" I'm just stating comments and bringing my opinions and experiences forward so maybe you'll see and understand that not all girls are cunts.

If you won't listen to a girl's opinion try listening to Wood... he knows what's up.

[mugsy]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize
to an extent i am controlling, when i feel i should be......if i have reson to belive or otherwise think that she is cheating i will do what i can to find out or just move along

if a relationship is new, it is pretty stupid of either of the people to hang with thier exs, that just brings bad vibes to the relationship.

im glad youve managed to stay friends with your former parnters ...good for you!.......for me its not that simple, im not paranoid, ......far from, just dont like the whole idea of exs in a new relationship

we have different opinions, i told ya i dont want beef, but if you insist..............

^ so if a girl is to date you, she should stop her life at that moment until you feel comfertable with her so she can go back to having her guy friends again... buddy good luck ever finding a girl who would do that.

[klockwize]

all you " lameasses" sound like your in every relationship to get married!

i have my opinion...........shut up :finger:

what is this a counciling session now, you think you are goin to change somones opinion with a couple wise words??

im not paranoid, i my sound it, but im just proving a point

[mugsy]

Originally posted by cerah


you'll see and understand that not all girls are cunts.

preach on sistah.... preach on.....