EX-Boyfriends

[klockwize]

Originally posted by mugsy
real life and morals.... i thougt they were related.....

just shut up!

[mugsy]

*oh snap*

[SEAN!]

Originally posted by axion


i've been through it before too, its a shitty situation but as cheesy as it sounds you gotta learn something from it or its gonna keep happening again and again...

theres no need to check your girl, let her do her own thing and hang out with this guy. if she cheats then it wasnt ment to be, and then you have an actual valid reason to kick her skank ass to the curb.

werd up homie.

[Aki]

keep in mind that they are ex's for a reason!
if i was someone who was such a freak about things like that i wouldn't be dating them in the first place

[MistressSpankME]

aahahahaha

man that was a good one

JUST... JUST SHUT UP, YOU POOHEAD!!

[klockwize]

Originally posted by MistressSpankME
aahahahaha

man that was a good one

JUST... JUST SHUT UP, YOU POOHEAD!!

i thought so too :c-tard:

[MAx]

thanx guys....its all good..the answer to the question of how long they went out for is a year and a half.....ive been dateing her for 3 months...lol....but thanx 2 a few people on here im not being immature anymore....klockwize thanx 4 the input

[galaxie]

If you're that insecure you definitely should NOT have a girlfriend.

Trust is everything in a relationship.
Without trust, you have NOTHING.

[MAx]

:keebler: right on galaxie.....but im not "THAT INSECURE".....

[axion]

although i completely disagree with klockwize's point of view, i dont quite see the point in everyone attacking him. at some point in our life we've all held his point of view and no matter how many times some one told us we are wrong it changes nothing. its human nature to oppose someone even more when they tell us we are wrong.

[ebbomega]

Hah. This is hilarious.

Originally posted by dj_klockwize
first of all cerah...........are you blind......its her EX BOYFRIEND!

Thanks for the triple post bub. Wouldn't have looked at it if it weren't for that.

(Ever consider deleting the other two so we wouldn't have to scroll all the way through them? Fuck almighty)

You must not trust your girlfriend much. You know that cliche about how trust is the basis of every relationship? It's true. So if you want to be overbearing domineering asshole boyfriend then by all means do it. Just know that you're the one pushing her away. And if it's anybody's fault that she cheats on you, it's yours.

i dont know what kinda v-days youve had, but the ones ive had are all about sex, mushyness, more sex, cuddling and then more sex

My last valentine's day was a nice dinner and a movie. I don't actually think there was any sex involved. The one before that we made an active effort to do absolutely nothing in boycott of the holiday. Prior to that every time I've tried to do something on V-day it's blown up in my face so I gave up on it a long time ago. Plus it just pisses off single people. It's a fucking Hallmark Holiday anyways. Kudos to your girlfriend for not giving a fuck about a saint that nobody even knows about really, that got blasphemed almost as badly as Christmas (at least people still remember what Christmas is actually about).

paranoid??.....i dont think so,

"That is why you fail" -Yoda

your saying that if your "new" b/f started hanging with his old g/f then went v-day shopping with her, you wouldnt get alittle curious??

I'm great friends with one of my ex-gfs on a really good note. As my gf is with one of her exes. In fact, if there's anybody that we trust more than each other, it's our exes. So no, I wouldn't get a little curious. It's called a friend. People have them, you know. And if you can't differentiate between "Friend" and "Ex" then you have issues.

and if its a new relationship, i dont think there is goin to be THAT much trust and loyalty yet, im speaking for this guy in his situation, not your lame sex life self

If there's not that much trust or loyalty yet, then if she cheats on you it's no big deal.


Oooooooh, wait, maybe it is, meaning you have a bit more loyalty to her than you're willing to admit. Or is it that you want control over her? You're either wrong or an asshole.

more often then not, if you start hanging with your ex's there is still somthing there, YOU LEFT THAT PERSON FOR A REASON, ......DIDNT YOU?? UHH YEAH!! but now there is all this special "ex" time you have to fit in the relationship??

Maybe you still have feelings for your exes, but I sure as hell don't.

i dont know??

Truest words spoken in this post.

thats just the way i look at it, its not jumping to conlcusions, its obviouse observation!!

If there's one word I absolutely despise on the internet, it's the word "obvious" or "obviously". Because 90% of the time, when someone uses it, it's not that obvious.

I think this instance it hurts even more because there's no e in it.

I think you're being an overreactionary child and should put a little bit more trust in your relationship. If she really doesn't care about you and cheats on you with her ex, then it's good you find out now rather than a year down the road, wouldn't you say?

[ebbomega]

Originally posted by cerah

synonym see WIT

Sarcasm is witless irony.

[gibbonmunkey]

i recall deepdickin' a few of my ex's while their current boyfriends were out shopping, or in school, or at work etc. i think their boyfriend's trusted them... they were 'good grrls' too but sometimes they just wanna get so naughty.

DTA max. if you think she's crackin' her thighs for this wanker, then she probably is.

[klockwize]

Originally posted by gibbonmunkey
i recall deepdickin' a few of my ex's while their current boyfriends were out shopping, or in school, or at work etc. i think their boyfriend's trusted them... they were 'good grrls' too but sometimes they just wanna get so naughty.

DTA max. if you think she's crackin' her thighs for this wanker, then she probably is.

finally someone see's it my way

coodo's buddy :y:

[klockwize]

and i just want to let it be known that i have had 2 very good and long relationships in my life, the longest one being a year and 5 months.......and we do still talk occasionly......but there still is an element of sex there.....so dont tell me im wrong

[MistressSpankME]

^ at one point I was still sleeping with my ex, but as soon as I started getting involved with other people that ended. Completely.

Now we can sleep in the same bed without ANYTHING happening or having any sexual feelings or tension between us. Of course I'd boink him, he's a hottie for sure, but we are both mature enough to have TURNED OFF that part of our relationship with eachother.

Maybe the problem is that you need to learn how to control your dick...?

Nobody ever said you were completely wrong except when you stated it was impossibnle for people to have patonic relationships with their exes. Wich with certain types of people, is true but for certain reasons such as: immature outlooks on life and relationships, lack of trust, lack of honesty, insecurity etc etc.

[gibbonmunkey]

i let the lumber control me. we're working our way to 150. go team!

i know, i know... it's not a wilt chamberlin or gene simmons number, but for a mere mortal it's totally respectable.

[klockwize]

Originally posted by gibbonmunkey
i let the lumber control me

preach on my freind...........took the words out of my mouth

[ebbomega]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize
and i just want to let it be known that i have had 2 very good and long relationships in my life, the longest one being a year and 5 months.......and we do still talk occasionly......but there still is an element of sex there.....so dont tell me im wrong

A public service announcement:

Get over it.

I've been in 2 major relationships too. I still haven't gotten over one, well, because I'm still in it. But the other one is ancient history.

Not to mention I love my girlfriend enough that I know how to say "Hells no" if anyone offers me play.

If your girlfriend doesn't have that, then she must be pretty weak-willed.

[galaxie]

holy shit

I honestly can't believe the severe lack of maturity and common sense in this thread.

You people who are saying that she shouldn't be friends with her ex need to check yourselves. If two people are in a mature, loving, trusting relationship, there should be no question whatsoever of either parties' faithfulness. If there is, you shouldn't be in a relationship together, PERIOD.

Max, you should consider yourself damn lucky...if I were your girlfriend and I read this thread.......well let's just say you'd be back on the market REAL quick. You'd better hope she doesn't read this, or that she's stupid enough to stay with someone who doesn't trust her.

Oh, and don't even try the "I trust her.......I just don't trust her ex!" statement. That's the biggest cop-out excuse EVER. It takes two to tango.

[klockwize]

Originally posted by ebbomega


A public service announcement:

Get over it.

I've been in 2 major relationships too. I still haven't gotten over one, well, because I'm still in it. But the other one is ancient history.

Not to mention I love my girlfriend enough that I know how to say "Hells no" if anyone offers me play.

If your girlfriend doesn't have that, then she must be pretty weak-willed.

it seems you cant let it go either.....

[klockwize]

Originally posted by galaxie
holy shit

I honestly can't believe the severe lack of maturity and common sense in this thread.

You people who are saying that she shouldn't be friends with her ex need to check yourselves. If two people are in a mature, loving, trusting relationship, there should be no question whatsoever of either parties' faithfulness. If there is, you shouldn't be in a relationship together, PERIOD.

Max, you should consider yourself damn lucky...if I were your girlfriend and I read this thread.......well let's just say you'd be back on the market REAL quick. You'd better hope she doesn't read this, or that she's stupid enough to stay with someone who doesn't trust her.

.......................aiight :sick:

Oh, and don't even try the "I trust her.......I just don't trust her ex!" statement. That's the biggest cop-out excuse EVER. It takes two to tango.

[ebbomega]

Originally posted by dj_klockwize


it seems you cant let it go either.....

Let what go?

Enjoy that crack you had for breakfast?

[gibbonmunkey]

Originally posted by galaxie
holy shit

I honestly can't believe the severe lack of maturity and common sense in this thread.

You people who are saying that she shouldn't be friends with her ex need to check yourselves. If two people are in a mature, loving, trusting relationship, there should be no question whatsoever of either parties' faithfulness. If there is, you shouldn't be in a relationship together, PERIOD.

Max, you should consider yourself damn lucky...if I were your girlfriend and I read this thread.......well let's just say you'd be back on the market REAL quick. You'd better hope she doesn't read this, or that she's stupid enough to stay with someone who doesn't trust her.

Oh, and don't even try the "I trust her.......I just don't trust her ex!" statement. That's the biggest cop-out excuse EVER. It takes two to tango.

he doesn't trust the chick. he doesn't trust her ex-boyfriend either. that was apparent. feelings are usually irrational responses to conditions and situations but that does not make them inherently wrong. i am simply suggesting that he moves on and builds a new relationship with someone he does trust. maybe a grrl who doesn't spend a large amount of time with people she's previously blown.

maturity is great, sex is better. naughty sex and the lingerings of love make that equation a fucking gravity well. most literally.

[ebbomega]

Originally posted by gibbonmunkey
maturity is great, sex is better.

How old are you?