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You all should be ashamed of yourselves,you make me fucking sick!Absolutely disgusting.ugh. I dont know what else to say other then that.Youre all so immature and inconsiderate.Your parents should be ashamed that they raised up such poor excuses for human beings,I know I sure as hell would be ashamed of my child if they EVER displayed such ignorance and lack of empathy to a fellow human being. fucking attraucious.
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Feb 19, 06
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Feb 19, 06
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Just becuase it's the internet doesnt mean you get to bash and hurt ppl's feelings. Esspecialy in a thread like this where I find it extreamly inapropriate. Go into the crack me up section if your in the need to satisfy your self esteam.
Single parents are on the rise. At least 30-40% of us will probly difforce or not be with the person we bare our kids with. Women tend to be very trustworthy and have alot of faith for someone they love. I see it happening all the time. Some guys take advantage of this and some just never seem to understand or give back. ps: No birth control is 100% safe. Last edited by Ree Fresh; Feb 19, 06 at 04:07 PM.
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Feb 19, 06
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^exactly my thoughts.
this is such a personal issue. what the fuck kind of reaction did you expect? there are ways to go out and get child support from this guy, as i think other people suggested. stop bitching about it to a bunch of unsympathetic strangers on a raver message board and go to the courts and get your support.
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Feb 19, 06
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everyone should ease the fuck off.... and get lives. Im sure each of you have slept with a girl 1 time without a condom and this coulda been you so unless you got valuable or none hateful inputs, butt out... how would you all feel if you were in her shoes and then everyone ganged up on you??? and this is a sensitive subject, i would hate to see if all of you were in her positition taking all these personal attacks.... im sure she has just heard all yo BS over and over again so just stop this shit.
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Feb 19, 06
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not my fault!
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Feb 20, 06
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Condoms are what, 97% effective? That means that 3 out of 100 women will get pregnant if they only use a condom. BCP is approx 99% effective. 1 out of 100 will get pregnant if they only use bcp. Not to mention the fact that she and this guy PLANNED to have the second child. It's not like it was even an "oops" that he can claim he never wanted!
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Feb 20, 06
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*sigh* Aren't you embarrassed?
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Feb 20, 06
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Just wondering why she feels the need to make this all public. My only explanation is attention whoring. Or possibly trying to reputation-bash the guy involved. Neither I would consider mature. Which leads me to: How old are you? If my hunch is correct, she's under 25, possibly below 22. Who the hell wants a second kid at that age? At any rate, if you're going around trying to ruin someone's good name (and I'm really not too sure exactly how good Dave's name is in the first place) or whoring for people to validate you and feel sorry for you... don't expect sympathy from me. grow up and act like a parent instead of shittalking on the internet. Seriously.
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Feb 21, 06
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^In all fairness you all know Dave deserves to be slagged. Without getting too deep into it the guy is in his 30's and too concerned with himself and his recreational time (ie: drugs and partying) to take care of his own life blood.
Not to say he's the only one who has ever done that but he's a loser just the same in my opinion. Oh and Ebbo... she is grown up and acting like a parent. From what I can tell she takes care of two kids on her own. Maybe this forum isn't the best place to bitch but don't take the fact that she's raising her kids alone away from her. There needs to be some respect for that.
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Feb 21, 06
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Umm, instead of bitching about it it on the internet, and making a spectacle, how about being pro-active instead of being reactive. Go to family court, get full custody and guardianship. Have the courts garnish his wages, and or take away priviledges that we are afforded in this province such as, a License, or the right to insure your car, financial assistance of any sort.
There are avenues you can take instead of fnk and do for yourself. Just saying....
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Feb 21, 06
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Hey when i made those comments i was talking about both the father and the mother. Both are responsible for bringing the child in to the world. Both had the individual choice to stop it from happening before the fact. So really who's irresponsible here? the child is the one that suffers in the end.
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Feb 21, 06
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I pay my support, I see my son as much as possible. I could have stopped it from happening sure... but then I wouldn't be blessed with an amazing little boy in my life. Dave is copping out.... he's missing out on what could be the single most rewarding thing in his entire life. *shrug* Too bad for him.... sure as hell doesn't mean that the child is loved any less, just by one less person who quite frankly, judging by what I know of Dave, doesn't count for much anyways.
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Feb 21, 06
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Not trying to be entirely devils advocate, but there are always 3 sides to every story. His, Hers, and The Truth.
Dave isn't here to defend himself, and everyone is bagging on him. Not to say that this girl isn't telling the truth. But I have seen both sides use the children like pawns in the past. I am sure there is more to this story than what we are seeing here. Bottom line, take it to the courts. I seriously believe, that you don't have a right to bitch if all you are doing it for is the sake of it. Seriously, step up and do what you need to do for your kids. Don't bitch about it on a forum. Last edited by Avana; Feb 21, 06 at 02:52 PM.
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Feb 21, 06
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dude no YOU need to shut up if he's going to sleep with her without the condom it's 50% his responsibility too.
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